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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it depends !
Has he been open about his marriage
Is he part of a couple and she is agreed to it all
Or is he just cheating ??
Who knows I believe each to their own
Just be happy and enjoy yourself !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"
Yeah loads of the ladies are married on here too, like with men some have partners that are aware and some have partners that aren’t.
Everyone has their own reasons for being on here and their own individual backstory that brought them here so without knowing their full story I don’t judge.
There are lots of women that won’t meet married men, and lots that do. The key difference with married men and married women playing away on here is that the women tend to be much more discreet about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards.... 
(Joke obviously)
Us despicable married ones have to stick together!  |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"
If you broad your search horizon to bi curious/ bi sexual guys you’ll have dozens of offers per day.
Yeah, annoying, I know, it’s just a reality of fabs |
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Yes I regularly do with the full consent of their wives.
However thats the thing with casual sex especially in a club, you have no idea if he is or isn't and likely never will, even the best of us can be deceived all we can do is trust at face value that they are being truthful to us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....
(Joke obviously)
Us despicable married ones have to stick together! "
Here here. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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If I'm at a club it's not something I ask or consider.
As I'm primarily looking for bdsm, outside of clubs I'm wanting more than a one off. Having been on all sides of an affair I'm not willing to deal with the hassle and last minute changing of plans again, so it has to be a legitimate open/poly marriage |
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Personally I think so long as the guy is upfront with the lady in question then fine, but I also get that for some ladies it’s a definite no no due to situations they may have experienced themselves. We’re all here for our reasons and shouldn’t be judged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think so long as the guy is upfront with the lady in question then fine, but I also get that for some ladies it’s a definite no no due to situations they may have experienced themselves. We’re all here for our reasons and shouldn’t be judged "
I judge. People judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much point in saying you “shouldn’t be judged”.
You will be, and it’ll probably be more beneficial to you if you embrace that and accept that it’ll happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not much point in saying you “shouldn’t be judged”.
You will be, and it’ll probably be more beneficial to you if you embrace that and accept that it’ll happen. "
I was going to say it was a straight question was to the ladies so no reason to imply anything about the OP. But then later in the thread he showed he was on a fishing expedition!  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"
After reading all the replies to your other threads on this subject, are you really asking would any lady from here have sex with you in particular OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!
After reading all the replies to your other threads on this subject, are you really asking would any lady from here have sex with you in particular OP? "
That was my thought.
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If he's cheating then I wouldn't. It's not a big moral judgement because someone else's relationship is none of my business, it's because I've been there and it's bloody annoying spending time getting ready only to be cancelled at the last minute when his wife's plans change and he suddenly can't get away. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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This is cropping up a lot lately, maybe people are just realising a large percentage of the men on here are married but because they don't admit it on their profiles and be straight from the word go they end up letting people down and getting a bad name for other men when they bottle it or are not allowed out. Far better to chance putting folk off and just saying if you are married from the outset and let people make their own mind up if they want to chat and peruse a meet. |
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When I was single and on here then yes, I never asked if they were married. To me it wasn’t my business if they were cheating it was on their conchonce (spelt wrong, sorry).
Now I’m married and on here with hubby (we have a couples profile), then no, I wouldn’t touch a married or taken man if he was cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?  "
You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?
You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?
You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women. "
lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?"
I wouldn't fuck them either. Does that help? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....
(Joke obviously)
Us despicable married ones have to stick together! "
And not too fussy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?"
Well in my heyday on here, on my old origins about 4 years ago, I was lucky enough to meet quite a few people, many were very popular “single” ladies that were, in fact, married and playing away.
Many told me that they’d been propositioned by people that, publicly, were very much “anti-cheater” and vocal about it in the forums.
But when it came to potentially meeting a married unicorn, their reluctance soon disappeared!
Of course I have this second hand, but a number of women independently have said the same thing, so I guess that kind of answers your question!
As I said earlier, the cheating women on here don’t shout so loudly about it as the men, and tend to go under the radar!
If the forum mix is the same today as it was back then, I bet that a large number of these “single women” on here are actually partnered up. Which is fine, and up to them, we don’t know their backstory and journey to why they’re here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....
(Joke obviously)
Us despicable married ones have to stick together!
And not too fussy lol"
Remember the reason for the Block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done, yes.
My rationale is between me and them."
This for me too, sometimes it suits, sometimes it doesn’t, all situations and people are different after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time. "
So have sex & never speak again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time.
So have sex & never speak again? "
Well, at least don't message me afterwards for small talk. Haven't got time for that |
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I have in the past, and it has very much depended on the particular circumstances.
Hypothetically, if I was just looking for a one-off encounter, I would neither care nor ask what their marital status was. If I was looking for something more regular I'd consider the facts and make a decision mainly centred around how likely they would be to actually be able to meet when arranged.
Everybody has their own personal reasons for being on here, I'm not living their life so I'm not in any position to cast judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of women will meet married men. I meet married women. I prefer to know they are married so I know what I’m getting into but other than that I’m not bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in an open relationship (well one sided) but I encourage my bf to have sex with other women. I would not sleep with another man married or not while I'm in a relationship. |
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. But definitely the other way around. 
