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Who cums first when you play?
Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?
Or do you aim to cum together?
Do you have a preference?
Cum and tell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cums first when you play?
Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?
Or do you aim to cum together?
Do you have a preference?
Cum and tell!"
Definitely the partner. I have high stamina so the session usually lasts a while anyway |
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"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom. 
Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol"
Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself? |
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over a year ago
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I always cum first. I'm lucky that I can have multiple orgasms but also lucky that if D does cum before me, (very rare) It doesn't take long before he can go again. Win. Win. 
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"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.
Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol
Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself?"
no impossible and it never worked for me, never,
Thank god for a quick reload time.  |
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For me- it’s making a woman cum orally again and again or at least very close to the point of cumming.
When on top I can cum very quickly in these situations so I usually switch to being beneath and ridden on.
It really depends on the partner and their needs which I always ask first.
I had one partner who always came really hard almost at the last pulse of ejaculation almost when my cock was starting to go soft .
Everyone is different, communication is the key and go slow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cum really easily if im in the mood and very multi orgasmic if the right spot gets hit and Mr W&W is a bit of a stayer so 99% of the time its me if we are having full blown dirty filthy sex , ooops got carried away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I strive to get them to cum first, if they've not cum by the time I'm ready to as selfish as this sounds "They'll have to do it themselves!"
I'm lucky I can stay hard as long as needed but once I'm done he needs to recharge and much like my car he goes into "Limp mode"  |
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"Who cums first when you play?
Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?
Or do you aim to cum together?
Do you have a preference?
Cum and tell!"
on swing meets it's rare I cum at all... its all about the other person's pleasure |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
The egg! Since the chicken eventually evolved from something else that came from an egg before it. You are welcome.
However depending on if you go back far enough, and how technical you want to be the evolution ancestry started before lifeforms were laying eggs. So you could say the chicken. Just depends on direct specifics!
Oh, sorry I only read the title |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.
So hopefully he would.
Accidentally??? 
Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz   "
Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.
So hopefully he would.
Accidentally???
Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz
Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend. "
Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens? |
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It’s not really a race between us two but more often than not C will cum first, second, third and fourth as they usually follow soon after.
Then more often than not we’ll cum together before starting the cycle again…
K |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.
So hopefully he would.
Accidentally???
Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz
Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.
Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens? "
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"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.
So hopefully he would.
Accidentally???
Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz
Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.
Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens? "
That's...that's hot. |
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I (mrs) can have multiple orgasms without actually Cumming... that and the fact we sometimes like to edge eachother for a few days. We like to think that sex isn't all about the finish line when there's soooooo much to enjoy in-between  |
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"I (mrs) can have multiple orgasms without actually Cumming... that and the fact we sometimes like to edge eachother for a few days. We like to think that sex isn't all about the finish line when there's soooooo much to enjoy in-between "
Totally agree with this! I not a race edging is really fun too massive tease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cumming at all would be a bonus.
Yup
Yup Yup
It's not the be all and end all if you don't come.
Errr I want the be all and end all! "
Sorry! I've spent years not coming and I've given up. Obvs not everyone has. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Cumming at all would be a bonus.
Yup
Yup Yup
It's not the be all and end all if you don't come.
Errr I want the be all and end all! "
Maybe you haven't found the right guy
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Invite me round and I'll help you find him. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
For me it's been different them first most of the time so must be doing something creative at times it can take me forever.so in that time it can be like a pool as for pleasure it's always been an fantastic experience Followed by well deserved sleep the experience Can be different depending upon how one is able to control themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.
So hopefully he would.
Accidentally???
Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz
Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.
Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inked always let’s who he’s with cum first, multiple times, haha. So when with him, I/they tend to cum first, but when I’m playing with a woman then I like to make her cum many times before I do.
I’ve taken part in recorded bukkake meets in the past, for Inked, and the guys have cum from me giving oral, but there’s been no sexual play where I’m concerned, so I haven’t cum during those meets. I’m fine with that as I get pleasure from giving pleasure x
Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Inked always let’s who he’s with cum first, multiple times, haha. So when with him, I/they tend to cum first, but when I’m playing with a woman then I like to make her cum many times before I do.
I’ve taken part in recorded bukkake meets in the past, for Inked, and the guys have cum from me giving oral, but there’s been no sexual play where I’m concerned, so I haven’t cum during those meets. I’m fine with that as I get pleasure from giving pleasure x
Viv x"
When you cum together though, it’s the best feeling ever!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, me obvs.
A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!
Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?
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"Well, me obvs.
A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!
Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?
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Why not just get her to position herself on a towel, then when you’re done, wipe yourself on that? Even better- bend her over the washing machine, wipe yourself on the towel, pop it straight in the washer! She’ll be that impressed with how much of a considerate guy you are, she won’t care that she hasn’t cum! xx |
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"Well, me obvs.
A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!
Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?
Why not just get her to position herself on a towel, then when you’re done, wipe yourself on that? Even better- bend her over the washing machine, wipe yourself on the towel, pop it straight in the washer! She’ll be that impressed with how much of a considerate guy you are, she won’t care that she hasn’t cum! xx"
and I can put the spin cycle on to finish her off manually, I’m all heart! Good idea! |
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Male response from a couple. The woman always cums first, there is no other way. Her pleasure is most important.
Female response: Coming together if at all possible as the bigger thrusts and spurting cum can make for a bigger orgasm although if coming during sex is dependant on coming first - I'm not complaining |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You couldn’t pay most men millions to get on this website and confess to not making (or trying to make) a woman come first so just listen to women if you want to know the truth.  .
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"Well, me obvs.
A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!
Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?
Why not just get her to position herself on a towel, then when you’re done, wipe yourself on that? Even better- bend her over the washing machine, wipe yourself on the towel, pop it straight in the washer! She’ll be that impressed with how much of a considerate guy you are, she won’t care that she hasn’t cum! xx
and I can put the spin cycle on to finish her off manually, I’m all heart! Good idea! "
Good thinking! You’ll never go without sex, as there’s always washing to be done xx |
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"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.
Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol
Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself?"
Trust me…sometimes I’ve zoned right out & thought about work to stop myself |
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"Who cums first when you play?
Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?
Or do you aim to cum together?
Do you have a preference?
Cum and tell!"
Your questions imply one orgasm each. That’s so sad.
North of 15 or 20 just to get started for me (f). As many as possible for her if I’m with a female. Several for him as well if possible if I’m with a man.
Who goes when is irrelevant as long as we are keeping busy and having fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I laugh at all these guys trying to impress the ladies by insisting they cum first!
It’s whatever happens, surely? Variety and all that, communication too about what each other would like at that moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who cums first when you play?
Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?
Or do you aim to cum together?
Do you have a preference?
Cum and tell!
Your questions imply one orgasm each. That’s so sad.
North of 15 or 20 just to get started for me (f). As many as possible for her if I’m with a female. Several for him as well if possible if I’m with a man.
Who goes when is irrelevant as long as we are keeping busy and having fun.
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Some people struggle to come once or don't come at all - it's not sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I laugh at all these guys trying to impress the ladies by insisting they cum first!
It’s whatever happens, surely? Variety and all that, communication too about what each other would like at that moment. "
I won't meet the type of men who insist I will cum first. I'm a person not a fucking competition. |
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"Biggest turn off for me is when a guy says he will make the woman come first. Such a turn off"
I (the male) hear what you’re saying. A says that too. But it’s kind of a catch 22 - it is better when she comes first or together, and that often needs some effort. |
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It’s normally me , hubby like to see me satisfied
Hubby can satisfy me for ages
He’s very good at pleasuring 2 female at one time
But hubby won’t cum until the me / females are warn out and legs are like jelly |
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