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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What was the last random act you performed ?
Me being the hero ( with no Cape ) noticed one of my friends on here working from home , craved bacon ...so I delivered said bacon ??
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I didn’t call a certain person a lying fucking robber’s dog on a video call earlier - not very professional in front of the rest of the team and would have embarrassed the team and our new boss. I’m all heart me!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent someone on here a glans ring I had no use for (unused) no money wanted, just didn’t want it gathering dust, I have other things to collect dust lol |
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"What was the last random act you performed ?
Me being the hero ( with no Cape ) noticed one of my friends on here working from home , craved bacon ...so I delivered said bacon ??
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Did she like the pork ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What was the last random act you performed ?
Me being the hero ( with no Cape ) noticed one of my friends on here working from home , craved bacon ...so I delivered said bacon ??
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Did she like the pork ?"
She appreciated the salty goodness |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Someone in a shop was trying to buy a drink but had no cash and the shop had a minimum card spend, so I brought it for them.
You bought a whole shop? Very kind "
Buying a shop for a thirsty person seemed on par with Batman buying a bank to help Superman’s mum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn't me but I saw it today and thought it worth mentioning, some guy had been talking on the news about how he and his wife both worked but due to the rising costs of living could no longer afford all their bills and heating. A few days later they had a tanker turn up to fill their heating oil tank - they have no idea who it was that paid. That was really lovely.
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"What was the last random act you performed ?
Me being the hero ( with no Cape ) noticed one of my friends on here working from home , craved bacon ...so I delivered said bacon ??
:0)
Did she like the pork ?
She appreciated the salty goodness "
Muuuhahahahahahaahaaaaaa...... I bloody knew it was a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Old boy was trying to check his car tyres but the pump at the garage only took cards and he didn't have one, so i swiped mine for him. It cost me 30p, but the look on his face was priceless |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What was the last random act you performed ?
Me being the hero ( with no Cape ) noticed one of my friends on here working from home , craved bacon ...so I delivered said bacon ??
:0)
Did she like the pork ?
She appreciated the salty goodness
Muuuhahahahahahaahaaaaaa...... I bloody knew it was a woman. "
What difference would it make lol
I'd do the same for a male friend also , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This isn't me but I saw it today and thought it worth mentioning, some guy had been talking on the news about how he and his wife both worked but due to the rising costs of living could no longer afford all their bills and heating. A few days later they had a tanker turn up to fill their heating oil tank - they have no idea who it was that paid. That was really lovely.
Mr"
Forgot about that ..that was me too |
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Today as I got out of my car , I saw the old biddy from over the road. I crossed the road and chatted with her for 5.
Why is that kind ?
I've known her 40 years. She was a witch when I met her and she remains a witch ....... but as i've aged differences matter less to me.
Believe me .... you couldn't do five mins with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today as I got out of my car , I saw the old biddy from over the road. I crossed the road and chatted with her for 5.
Why is that kind ?
I've known her 40 years. She was a witch when I met her and she remains a witch ....... but as i've aged differences matter less to me.
Believe me .... you couldn't do five mins with her. "
I appreciated it. See you tomorrow. |
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A friend of mine wanted to start playing golf at the time I got a number a spare clubs enough to make a set that were surplus to my requirements
I simply let him have them and now I have a new golfing buddy to play with ....winner winner chicken dinner |
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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago
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I always try to help people and animals the best I can, my last act of random kindness was to rescue a scared little Westie that had slipped it's lead and was running amok on a very busy road, I managed to catch it and reunite it with its elderly owner who was in bits Xx |
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"Today as I got out of my car , I saw the old biddy from over the road. I crossed the road and chatted with her for 5.
Why is that kind ?
I've known her 40 years. She was a witch when I met her and she remains a witch ....... but as i've aged differences matter less to me.
Believe me .... you couldn't do five mins with her.
I appreciated it. See you tomorrow. "
It's 3 tommorrow..... i'm cutting back on kindnesses |
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"A friend of mine wanted to start playing golf...so I talked him out of it, we went to the pub, and he still is seen as interesting by those that know him.l
Just sorted that for you 
Cheeky  "
My pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed  |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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Held a door open for someone this morning and they just walked through it with zero acknowledgement. So seeing as they left their manners at home today, I simply gave them some of mine with a "you're welcome!"
Such a nice thing to do I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Held a door open for someone this morning and they just walked through it with zero acknowledgement. So seeing as they left their manners at home today, I simply gave them some of mine with a "you're welcome!"
Such a nice thing to do I know "
Pet hate of mine that is! It makes me stroppy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I helped a woman who had been touched by some idiot at Glasgow Central station, made sure she got to her station and into a taxi. Hopefully will earn me some brownie points with St. Peter in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going back a few years. There were a couple who's car had issues with temperature sensor. They never had break down cover and when AA came, the part was £15.00 . I was parked in the next parking spot so I went over and paid for the part. |
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"Held a door open for someone this morning and they just walked through it with zero acknowledgement. So seeing as they left their manners at home today, I simply gave them some of mine with a "you're welcome!"
Such a nice thing to do I know "
If you were performing an act of kindness then all that matters is that you held the door open.
If you are miffed and reactionary because they didn't thank you then kindness to others was not on your mind your goal was to get praise for yourself.
Now if you want to tell me that you were not performing that act for you then the other person not voicing their thanks doesn't matter....
That's my act of kindness for today....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Held a door open for someone this morning and they just walked through it with zero acknowledgement. So seeing as they left their manners at home today, I simply gave them some of mine with a "you're welcome!"
Such a nice thing to do I know
If you were performing an act of kindness then all that matters is that you held the door open.
If you are miffed and reactionary because they didn't thank you then kindness to others was not on your mind your goal was to get praise for yourself.
Now if you want to tell me that you were not performing that act for you then the other person not voicing their thanks doesn't matter....
That's my act of kindness for today.... "
Good Lord that was deep man |
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed "
I generally just open the door without expectation.
Sometimes when I see then whizz past I smile and hope their hurry doesn't mean they've got too much on their plate.
They don't always 'not recognise' through ignorance. Sometimes people are like rabbits in headlights and moving quickly through fear.
If we drop our Oi I opened the door ego..... we feel much calmer inside.
Do it because it's the right thing to do . Don't do it for recognition.
The above is my mantra and kind act of the day  |
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"Held a door open for someone this morning and they just walked through it with zero acknowledgement. So seeing as they left their manners at home today, I simply gave them some of mine with a "you're welcome!"
Such a nice thing to do I know
If you were performing an act of kindness then all that matters is that you held the door open.
If you are miffed and reactionary because they didn't thank you then kindness to others was not on your mind your goal was to get praise for yourself.
Now if you want to tell me that you were not performing that act for you then the other person not voicing their thanks doesn't matter....
That's my act of kindness for today....
Good Lord that was deep man "
Yeah man x my disguise is off
Best I get it back on |
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed "
I quoted this by mistake when I commented on doors.
Do forgive me for the confusion I may have caused  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great thread OP as I'm a big believer in doing random acts of kindness .
As I walked past a guy selling Big Issue, I asked if he was hungry and when he said yes I went into the local sandwich shop and bought him a sandwich. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Random guy I didn't in front of me in the queue went to pay and the stores card machine wouldn't work and he didnt have cash. I paid for mine and his.
We sat and had lunch together and never saw each other again.
I like random meets, with the advent of advanced mobile phones we don't seem to talk with strangers anywhere near as much these days. |
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For some reason Tesco had loads of flowers marked down last week so I filled my boots and took them to the local hospice. My dad used to really appreciate it if someone donated flowers when he was in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I read a post elsewhere made by a trans lady excitedly announcing her confirmation surgery date then asking for a lift to and from London…
When I asked who was caring for her after her surgery she admitted no one was.
I’ve ensured I’m available. I’ll collect her from hospital and she’ll stay with me while she recovers. So I have a new friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed
I generally just open the door without expectation.
Sometimes when I see then whizz past I smile and hope their hurry doesn't mean they've got too much on their plate.
They don't always 'not recognise' through ignorance. Sometimes people are like rabbits in headlights and moving quickly through fear.
If we drop our Oi I opened the door ego..... we feel much calmer inside.
Do it because it's the right thing to do . Don't do it for recognition.
The above is my mantra and kind act of the day "
Am disappointed you did not write an analysis on my worm saving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try and so a good dead everyday if I can even if it's just holding a door open or buying someone less fortunate then me a coffee or food every little helps make the world a better place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The £1 wouldn't come out of the supermarket trolley so I left it for the next person to try and remove.
We met some tourists on a walk and after chatting for a while they mentioned about the country roads and if going the other way was better. We strongly advised against it because of a 25% gradient they'd have to drive up with hairpin bends  gave them directions of an easier way to go and some recommendations for cafés/sandwich spots along the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great thread OP as I'm a big believer in doing random acts of kindness .
As I walked past a guy selling Big Issue, I asked if he was hungry and when he said yes I went into the local sandwich shop and bought him a sandwich. "
Good man, Big Issue sellers are working so hard trying to sell those magazines they had to purchase in the first place but get ignored by so many people, they are not begging. You probably know that anyway. He was probably genuinely hungry and had not sold enough magazines |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read a post elsewhere made by a trans lady excitedly announcing her confirmation surgery date then asking for a lift to and from London…
When I asked who was caring for her after her surgery she admitted no one was.
I’ve ensured I’m available. I’ll collect her from hospital and she’ll stay with me while she recovers. So I have a new friend "
That is truly amazing, puts me to shame for only doing minor kindness acts, big hug to you for that one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read a post elsewhere made by a trans lady excitedly announcing her confirmation surgery date then asking for a lift to and from London…
When I asked who was caring for her after her surgery she admitted no one was.
I’ve ensured I’m available. I’ll collect her from hospital and she’ll stay with me while she recovers. So I have a new friend
That is truly amazing, puts me to shame for only doing minor kindness acts, big hug to you for that one x"
Transition is hard enough as it is and many of us do it completely alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some reason Tesco had loads of flowers marked down last week so I filled my boots and took them to the local hospice. My dad used to really appreciate it if someone donated flowers when he was in there."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Installed new i.t. system in a care home. They avoided a high cost that some companies put forward.
Good that you let the care home make even more profit"
I agree , the thought was there but
The owners of these homes make thousands a month so could easily have paid for a decent system .
You are a good man ...the owners ..not so much
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There is a coffee shop local to my work, small independent place that does limited food.
They have an option for customers to add a post-it note to their bill, for £2
The note can then be left with others stuck to a shelf for people who really need something but can’t afford it. Some are blank, some are filled with lovely messages.
£2 on the top of my coffee and food is nothing, but can be a lot to someone.
J x |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I don't need to brag about my acts of kindness!
Seriously though keep up the good deeds everyone! Especially for those that are truely in need of it. Can make or break somebody's day or even life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need to brag about my acts of kindness!
Seriously though keep up the good deeds everyone! Especially for those that are truely in need of it. Can make or break somebody's day or even life. "
Agreed a small act can make a person in need soo happy |
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed
I generally just open the door without expectation.
Sometimes when I see then whizz past I smile and hope their hurry doesn't mean they've got too much on their plate.
They don't always 'not recognise' through ignorance. Sometimes people are like rabbits in headlights and moving quickly through fear.
If we drop our Oi I opened the door ego..... we feel much calmer inside.
Do it because it's the right thing to do . Don't do it for recognition.
The above is my mantra and kind act of the day
Am disappointed you did not write an analysis on my worm saving "
I couldn't possible let such a beautiful human being down. I will re read your worm post |
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed "
Rescuing a worm from the pavement is a highly commendable act of kindness.
The worm will never thank you but in your heart you know that you enabled it to burrow into soil quickly before it dries or is trodden on.
Your simple act helps everyone as the worm will till the soil, the soil will breathe and plants will grown and animals will eat....
You are a child of goodness and light ..
Mind you if you stuck it in your top pocket ......... shame on you |
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"I read a post elsewhere made by a trans lady excitedly announcing her confirmation surgery date then asking for a lift to and from London…
When I asked who was caring for her after her surgery she admitted no one was.
I’ve ensured I’m available. I’ll collect her from hospital and she’ll stay with me while she recovers. So I have a new friend "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The very last thing was rescuing a worm on a pavement, I have saved many over the years. I do various kind random acts for strangers and animals when needed
Rescuing a worm from the pavement is a highly commendable act of kindness.
The worm will never thank you but in your heart you know that you enabled it to burrow into soil quickly before it dries or is trodden on.
Your simple act helps everyone as the worm will till the soil, the soil will breathe and plants will grown and animals will eat....
You are a child of goodness and light ..
Mind you if you stuck it in your top pocket ......... shame on you "
It is surprising how few people understand the importance of earth worms, but you get it dear Crumpet  Thankfully I no longer possess any top pockets |
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"I read a post elsewhere made by a trans lady excitedly announcing her confirmation surgery date then asking for a lift to and from London…
When I asked who was caring for her after her surgery she admitted no one was.
I’ve ensured I’m available. I’ll collect her from hospital and she’ll stay with me while she recovers. So I have a new friend "
That is amazing. You are a superstar. we all need friends like you xx |
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After I finished my Tesco shop last Friday there was a guy begging outside. I won’t give them money on principle but I went back in and bought a meal deal and gave it to him
I also bought 3 lottery tickets and gave him one (with a receipt which you need if you claim a win!) |
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I popped into Morrisons earlier for some ingredients to make my latest culinary masterpiece but was desperate for a wee.
On entering the gents there was a lady cleaning so I went into a cubicle rather than use the urinal to preserve both of our dignity.
Some foul beast had left a big brown tyre track on the bowl side so I directed my high powered penis stream at it and removed it perfectly.
She almost certainly doesn’t realise it but I did that cleaner the greatest of kindnesses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I popped into Morrisons earlier for some ingredients to make my latest culinary masterpiece but was desperate for a wee.
On entering the gents there was a lady cleaning so I went into a cubicle rather than use the urinal to preserve both of our dignity.
Some foul beast had left a big brown tyre track on the bowl side so I directed my high powered penis stream at it and removed it perfectly.
She almost certainly doesn’t realise it but I did that cleaner the greatest of kindnesses "
Lmao so many men seem to do this. I have done the same but have to close my eyes after aiming |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
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This elderly gentleman came up to me on Tottenham court road, appeared quite lost. He didn't speak a word of English, and I couldn't understand him. Eventually he showed me an address and held up a senior citizen pass. He was trying to get to Whitechapel via bus, and couldn't figure out the next interchange I realized.
I motioned for him to come with me, so we went to the tube station. I enquired with the staff and confirmed his pass would allow travel on the underground so decided It would be easier to take him there myself.
Once we got to the destination station, I could see that he recognized the surroundings and looked relieved. He then pointed at food kiosks nearby and made a gesture like he wanted a drink.
So I was like, ok I guess he is thirsty and I was preparing myself to buy him some water ect.. He goes and speaks to a vendor and the guy hands him a sandwich, water and I'm like ok... now I got to buy him lunch? 
So I ask the vendor, do you you understand this old gent? Can you ask what he wants as I just found him at Tottenham court road and brought him here.
So the vendor and co workers translated that the gentleman was very grateful and happy I brought him here and wanted to treat me as a way of saying thank you. I relayed that it wasn't necessary, and that I was happy to bring him here (was relived he didn't end up getting totally misplaced tbh), and just remember me in thoughts and prayers.
So he (and the Vendors) kindly thanked me and I got back to my day.
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"This elderly gentleman came up to me on Tottenham court road, appeared quite lost. He didn't speak a word of English, and I couldn't understand him. Eventually he showed me an address and held up a senior citizen pass. He was trying to get to Whitechapel via bus, and couldn't figure out the next interchange I realized.
I motioned for him to come with me, so we went to the tube station. I enquired with the staff and confirmed his pass would allow travel on the underground so decided It would be easier to take him there myself.
Once we got to the destination station, I could see that he recognized the surroundings and looked relieved. He then pointed at food kiosks nearby and made a gesture like he wanted a drink.
So I was like, ok I guess he is thirsty and I was preparing myself to buy him some water ect.. He goes and speaks to a vendor and the guy hands him a sandwich, water and I'm like ok... now I got to buy him lunch?
So I ask the vendor, do you you understand this old gent? Can you ask what he wants as I just found him at Tottenham court road and brought him here.
So the vendor and co workers translated that the gentleman was very grateful and happy I brought him here and wanted to treat me as a way of saying thank you. I relayed that it wasn't necessary, and that I was happy to bring him here (was relived he didn't end up getting totally misplaced tbh), and just remember me in thoughts and prayers.
So he (and the Vendors) kindly thanked me and I got back to my day.
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