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By *igg25 OP Man
over a year ago
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Let’s face it I’m a guy trying to grab attention of someone fun and exciting as I would like to experience and try new things but I’m truly lost, is my chat crap am I trying to hard or not enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is generally fine, you look nice in your main photo and most of your text is ok. Anything along the lines of "I'm not like the other guys on here" is a little off-putting for me! That's the bit I'd change in your shoes, positivity is the key. It's luck of the draw a lot of the time, doesn't mean you're undesirable. And watch what you say in the forums, people might use that as a deciding factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know about your chat or how much effort you're making. Based solely on your profile text, I'd say it's a good start. It has good humour and looks like you've taken the time to review it with good language and punctuation.
Sometimes, it's the luck of the draw here due to the imbalance of numbers. Best of luck to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem you have here on fab is quite simply down to numbers the site in my opinion saturated with single guy profile some genuine some are just idiots.
Effort is needed to get anywhere on this site but also you need to network away from fab as well such as socials, clubs ...that sort of thing ...then come back to fab and use it as a means to stay in touch with friends and as a source of information about events and the scene in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry typos. I am sure once you start getting verifications too things will pick up for you, as the gent above says do socials and swingers clubs too. I was on here for years before and always saw this same advice from the serious swingers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found that I’ve been getting views on my profile since I’ve been interacting on the forums. A couple of messages, no meets yet but I’m still new here so being positive. As said above, go chat on the forums. It’s a start  |
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