Plan in advance, to pick the right club and have membership sorted. Plus, find the right night for you.
Visit with a positive vibe and expect just to find out the layout and to enjoy the facilities. Smile a lot and chat with others, such as at the bar. Be sensitive to the vibes people give off.
Move around, to avoid feeling stuck or imposing on anyone.
You're respectful, so won't be pushy, which is valued. Keep your spirits up, if you sense it's not great. You didn't expect sex, so you can leave feeling good, whether anything happened or not. If I see you, we can have a laugb and natter. |
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"What should I expect on my first club meet? "
Just go along, no expectations strike up some conversations and see what happens. You will have a great time, especially if you go to TH which isn't far from you |
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