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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

We could start another “rate the user above you” thread and watch as thirsty guys all fight over posting in time to rate a blank female profile 9.6/10

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sorry.

i'll go sit in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Was gonna rate wonko a 10.5 then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Was gonna rate wonko a 10.5 then"

no one ever

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah let's rate Wonko

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope, far too many easily offended snowflakes and they try push their opinions on others..

I'll think for myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

0/10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

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By *indergirlWoman  over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Maybe if people didn't do it then they wouldn't be accused of it

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By *herry OnatopWoman  over a year ago

Just over there

Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Nope, far too many easily offended snowflakes and they try push their opinions on others..

I'll think for myself "

Me too

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting "

Oh good game

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting "

Feel free

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting

Feel free "

turn it into an old fashioned barber shop pole

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx

"

It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%.

How has your day been? xx

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? "

Of course there is. What happened to the cry's of calling out shitty behaviour where ever it’s found? #notallmen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx

It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%.

How has your day been? xx"

Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Yeah let's rate Wonko "

I rate him the same as Elvis Costello's debut single.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah let's rate Wonko

I rate him the same as Elvis Costello's debut single."

utter shite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope, far too many easily offended snowflakes and they try push their opinions on others..

I'll think for myself "

too true.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx

It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%.

How has your day been? xx

Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx"

I'd sack it off for the rest of the evening x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is a big difference between saying a kink isn’t for you, whilst acknowledging that it might be someone else’s kink and respecting that. Without making derogatory/shaming comments towards the kink.

You don’t have to like anything but it’s about respecting others that might like it, and will feel hurt reading comments like it’s disgusting or it’s gross because to them it’s not…

It’s not aimed at anyone btw it’s just my opinion.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

Of course there is. What happened to the cry's of calling out shitty behaviour where ever it’s found? #notallmen"

Even that is frowned upon...unless they are cute.

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? "

At least some of those threads are worth joining in even if they get a bit lary! It’s the benale threads like ‘ rate my clock’ , fab a pic of the person above’ , ‘ sniff my kecks’ etc etc that are mind numbing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

First of the decorated pics up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx

It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%.

How has your day been? xx

Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx

I'd sack it off for the rest of the evening x"

That could be a fine idear in fact I may just sack my self for the week ha ha x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

At least some of those threads are worth joining in even if they get a bit lary! It’s the benale threads like ‘ rate my clock’ , fab a pic of the person above’ , ‘ sniff my kecks’ etc etc that are mind numbing. "

Agreed...same old day after day.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!"

Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear. "

That could take all night... I'll start: Navy

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.

That could take all night... I'll start: Navy"

Done - now. When am I taking you shopping

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.

What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.

That could take all night... I'll start: Navy

Done - now. When am I taking you shopping "

Royal blue

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.

That could take all night... I'll start: Navy

Done - now. When am I taking you shopping

Royal blue "

Even better.

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!

Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things "

You're off my hotlist.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. "

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned.

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned."

I see what you mean, that is just gross.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves... "

This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...

This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!

Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things "

We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day "

I know. I miss those days

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!

Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things

We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not "

I am

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day "

It really was soooooo different!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned.

I see what you mean, that is just gross. "

Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...

This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!

Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things

We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not

I am "

Well now I have to add you to my hotlist and see how evil

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...

This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. "

There’s a bit difference between giving an opinion, and ridiculing people, and trying to make them feel like shit though.

I don’t give a fuck what people think of my kink, but some people do, and they shouldn’t feel they have to censor themselves because they worry they will be bullied otherwise.

People say #bekind and call out shitty behaviour, but then if you do, you get called a snowflake.

If people took responsibility for their actions and tried not to be unkind, it would happen a lot less

*not aimed at anyone in particular

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cake (not jaffa) any one?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??"

*runs and hides*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??"

Or more sticker pictures

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Cake (not jaffa) any one?"

Gee thanks buddy

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...

This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off.

There’s a bit difference between giving an opinion, and ridiculing people, and trying to make them feel like shit though.

I don’t give a fuck what people think of my kink, but some people do, and they shouldn’t feel they have to censor themselves because they worry they will be bullied otherwise.

People say #bekind and call out shitty behaviour, but then if you do, you get called a snowflake.

If people took responsibility for their actions and tried not to be unkind, it would happen a lot less

*not aimed at anyone in particular "

I agree if someone is ridiculing someone personally then no it’s not on at all and I’m one of the first who would comment on that kind of thing. But if someone is giving their general opinion on something whether it’s a kink/body size/cock size etc and not aiming it a particular individual then I don’t see the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??"
lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??

Or more sticker pictures "

I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile

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By *implynaughty1Couple  over a year ago

stockport

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on "

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??

Or more sticker pictures

I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile "

Game on. Be as evil as you like haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere "

Mmmmmm wellies.

You should run a forum wellie photo challenge

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By *herry OnatopWoman  over a year ago

Just over there


"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting

Feel free "

Hahaha! Love it!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere

Mmmmmm wellies.

You should run a forum wellie photo challenge "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only you wonky lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere

Mmmmmm wellies.

You should run a forum wellie photo challenge

Good idea "

Wait! What? I had a good idea?????

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on

They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere

Mmmmmm wellies.

You should run a forum wellie photo challenge "

You gotta love a bit of 'Wellie Wangling'

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By *herry OnatopWoman  over a year ago

Just over there


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??

Or more sticker pictures

I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile "

I am so editing Biker's cock now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only you wonky lol"

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??

Or more sticker pictures

I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile

I am so editing Biker's cock now "

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers "

Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers

Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe "

It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers "

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers

Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe

It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people "

I'm not surprised

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By *hloetTV/TS  over a year ago

Nottingham

People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby

If things are getting on top of people on here, maybe it's time they think about having forum breaks.

No it's not as it was 2 years ago when I first came on here but as the saying goes, it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers

Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe

It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people

I'm not surprised "

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By *indergirlWoman  over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol. "

Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol.

Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button."

Block me block me

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Only you wonky lol

sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that

Here come the kink shamers

Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe

It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people "

I like cold custard, but not after you had your feet in it in your wellies.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol.

Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button.

Block me block me "

Nah, you're alright in small doses

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone "

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol.

Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button.

Block me block me

Nah, you're alright in small doses "

Awww

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned.

I see what you mean, that is just gross.

Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun "

What about socks! Should they be ironed or not?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day"

Same here. If someone doesn't like what I do or what I'm into, as long as it's legal and consensual, I couldn't care less and certainly wouldn't make a drama out of it.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned.

I see what you mean, that is just gross.

Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun

What about socks! Should they be ironed or not?"

Thats a tough one...

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Maybe if people didn't do it then they wouldn't be accused of it "

You'll find accusations get thrown around a lot now regardless of anything done or said. Same as throwing shit against the wall and hoping it sticks. 99% of the time it simply isn't true.

C

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day"

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured.

That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned.

I see what you mean, that is just gross.

Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun

What about socks! Should they be ironed or not?"

Only if you have OCD Or COD, if you prefer. Or have an obsession.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple  over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Lets talk about sex baby" don't think we speak often enough on this subject

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "

Damn it for the inability to use gifs, because I have the perfect one as its the exact face I just had myself!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


""Lets talk about sex baby" don't think we speak often enough on this subject "

Earworm now

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "

If you can't tell the difference between an opinion and abuse then I can show you where your power button is.

C

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We notice with a thread if it goes one way or the other then a lot of people jump on the bandwagon.

It is often a race to be the first or most offended.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "

I think that about abusive messages anyway. They're entitled to their opinion.

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By *ixedDevilMan  over a year ago

Bootyville


"We could start another “rate the user above you” thread and watch as thirsty guys all fight over posting in time to rate a blank female profile 9.6/10"

The accuracy of this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We notice with a thread if it goes one way or the other then a lot of people jump on the bandwagon.

It is often a race to be the first or most offended. "

I am most offended I wasnt the most offended by this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "

well you'll never hear "I got an abusive message" from me.. I'd actually have to give a fuck to care.. I block assholes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so

Damn it for the inability to use gifs, because I have the perfect one as its the exact face I just had myself! "

It’s been pointed out to me that as I enter emoji’s I actually try and make the face.

Had no idea

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????"

Cartoons.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????"

Me !

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so well you'll never hear "I got an abusive message" from me.. I'd actually have to give a fuck to care.. I block assholes "

Me neither. I’d never do a thread like that. But I do get why people do and that sometimes support helps and that people can get upset by personal insults/messages. I’ve always been supportive on here and I’ve never got personal. I’ve disagreed a hell of a lot but never got personal. Same with my opinions on certain things, they’re not personal they’re general.

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Cartoons. "

I am offended by South Park.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Cartoons. "

They lie

Physics does not work like that.

You fall whether you look down or not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion"

Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone

but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day

I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "

Also what you've described as abusive messages is completely different to what the op is talking about...but here's an explanation anyway.. if I guy messages and tells me I'm a fat cow or whatever do I care? Nope because a few minutes earlier he was trying to get a meet with me and I said no..his words don't affect me because he's that random stranger I mentioned earlier..hope THAT clears things up for you

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Cartoons. "

Someone may take offence at how Tom was treated by Jerry

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito

Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there"

Ohhh you shamed...tut tut

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito

Oooob and is it physically possible to fold a fitted sheet properly without just screwing it up and shoving it in a cupboard?

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito


"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there

Ohhh you shamed...tut tut "

Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there

Ohhh you shamed...tut tut

Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????"

Yes

Cake n custard

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Yes

Cake n custard "

Been done to death..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Yes

Cake n custard

Been done to death.."

Very true !

In this day age with all the doom and gloom think it’s only right to send some good cheer to all folks of fab be fabulous all day be good to all day or even should I say it yes more light hearted threads that make us all laugh and sometimes cry people of fab call to arms !

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"So

Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????

Cartoons.

Someone may take offence at how Tom was treated by Jerry "

Or how Scratchy is treated by Itchy.

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By *ysyphusMan  over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there

Ohhh you shamed...tut tut

Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course "

Pinapple pizza lovers should be put in the stocks. Or publicly flogged.

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

As a relative newcomer to the forums, some of the behaviour I’ve seen is tantamount to mob “you’re either with us or against us” behaviour.

Anyway, the real question is; Anal or Caviar?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oooob and is it physically possible to fold a fitted sheet properly without just screwing it up and shoving it in a cupboard?"

Wow! That's proper shocking talk!

At least you didn't say you iron sheets.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"As a relative newcomer to the forums, some of the behaviour I’ve seen is tantamount to mob “you’re either with us or against us” behaviour.

Anyway, the real question is; Anal or Caviar? "

It is indeed but that's the joys of Fab...some people get offended easily and some don't care what others think..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? "

I rarely comment on here anymore for that simple reason. Recently I was told my comments were disparaging for simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! Or do we have to agree with everything?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

I rarely comment on here anymore for that simple reason. Recently I was told my comments were disparaging for simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! Or do we have to agree with everything?

"

Seems so. God forbid anyone who speaks freely and doesn't conform with others.

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito


"Oooob and is it physically possible to fold a fitted sheet properly without just screwing it up and shoving it in a cupboard?

Wow! That's proper shocking talk!

At least you didn't say you iron sheets. "

Almost did but held myself back

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? "

Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

It really was soooooo different! "

Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.

Remember the one about the conservative republic I did?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

I know. I miss those days "

A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

I know. I miss those days

A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones."

Don't say that, everyone has a place and everyone brings something x

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

It really was soooooo different!

Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.

Remember the one about the conservative republic I did? "

Haha I do!!!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

I know. I miss those days

A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones."

Me either...definitely don't fit in with the crowd

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest "

Even that subject turns ugly

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.

This conversation about conversations is creating quite a conversation.

OP you and MissD you do fit in.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something???

Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest

Even that subject turns ugly "

Because nobody has the biggest or best anything. Everyone is equally beautiful

Same as sports days at school these days. No winners. They are all winners.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"This conversation about conversations is creating quite a conversation.

OP you and MissD you do fit in. "

Sadly not. I feel my time on this plain is coming to an end.

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

It really was soooooo different!

Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.

Remember the one about the conservative republic I did?

Haha I do!!!! "

You had liberals and conservatives both taking the mic out of each other in good fun. Would never work today.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day

It really was soooooo different!

Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.

Remember the one about the conservative republic I did?

Haha I do!!!!

You had liberals and conservatives both taking the mic out of each other in good fun. Would never work today."

It seems nothing works these days. Even lighthearted threads get twisted and turns bad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This conversation about conversations is creating quite a conversation.

OP you and MissD you do fit in.

Sadly not. I feel my time on this plain is coming to an end."

Oh no! we can't lose any more good ones x

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Perfect example of a thread where everyone was polite and light hearted even when having different perspectives.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/941482

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perfect example of a thread where everyone was polite and light hearted even when having different perspectives.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/941482"

Exactly how it should be x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a little too sarcastic for my own good , so gentle piss taking comes naturally ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? "

It’s how the world is really

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Honestly, just talk about what you want and accept whatever comes from it. Be it positive, negative, if you feel bullied or if you feel welcomed.

Or don't accept those things and don't.

It really is as simple as that, you have issue with the same thing as other people. Moaning about you can't do something without it being attacked by others.

It is just how things and people work. No there is no need for anyone to get nasty and aggressive but really, it's going to happen regardless.

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Perfect example of a thread where everyone was polite and light hearted even when having different perspectives.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/941482

Exactly how it should be x"

Isn't it? This is the forum vibe I really miss

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By *ryandseeMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire

As someone relatively new here, well two years now, I noticed that it's the same as anywhere else and indeed the real world. There are those of us that enjoy a bit of banter, learning something and sharing opinions, knowledge and ideas in general - mainly about cake and other food admitedly. There are those who like to be the centre of attention but in a harmless manner so can live with that. Those that light fires and sometimes contribute but mostly sit on the side and see it all unravel. Then there those who are abusive and ill mannered and can't respect anyone else's opinion or hold a civilised debate. As many have said, ignore/block/report those that deserve it and just interact with those you have something in common. It is what it is unfortunately.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Honestly, just talk about what you want and accept whatever comes from it. Be it positive, negative, if you feel bullied or if you feel welcomed.

Or don't accept those things and don't.

It really is as simple as that, you have issue with the same thing as other people. Moaning about you can't do something without it being attacked by others.

It is just how things and people work. No there is no need for anyone to get nasty and aggressive but really, it's going to happen regardless. "

I do post what I want. The people who like the drama, I just ignore if they post.

Sad state of affairs that it happens though.

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