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Has your age goalposts moved with getting older. .
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
I have found that as I get older on here my age limits have moved on with me, older on opposite sides of the scale.
I mean I still look at fab pics and say wow but if the profile is in their 20's, now I'm like nope,and likewise at the other end of the scale, I find older womens profiles super hot.
Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while? |
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"I actually havnt moved by limits on here in settings (must do list) I ment in my head as I browse/perp profiles I find I'm gravitating towards older by 5 to 8 years. "
We tend to gravitate to the 55 plus âgé range although our settings are wider. I don't know if tastes change or you see things differently as you get older maybe |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Always preferred an older man, my upper age limit has for manoeuvre give or take a few years however my lower age limit remains at 5yrs younger than I am and I doubt that would change.
I’m an old soul trapped in a late 30yr olds body, I want someone I can converse with over and above most things - banter and common interests are important to me and I find my interests/mindset seem’s to favour those in the 40+ age bracket xx |
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"Always preferred an older man, my upper age limit has for manoeuvre give or take a few years however my lower age limit remains at 5yrs younger than I am and I doubt that would change.
I’m an old soul trapped in a late 30yr olds body, I want someone I can converse with over and above most things - banter and common interests are important to me and I find my interests/mindset seem’s to favour those in the 40+ age bracket xx"
Ah damn…. I’m still too bloody old!!  |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
It is a little different for me as there are ony 2 ladies on
here older than me within a 500 mile radius so no point in setting my upper limit higher than my age.
My lower limit is set at 40 wnich when set was 10 years older than my daughter, I am about to change it to 45 or possibly 50, that would bring my inbox to an abrupt halt |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. I've gone up to 60 (if I remember correctly) and gone from 30 to 35 for men. I've not really aged much but I have realised I do prefer men older than me - even 35 might be too young for me (for men). |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Yep. I've gone up to 60 (if I remember correctly) and gone from 30 to 35 for men. I've not really aged much but I have realised I do prefer men older than me - even 35 might be too young for me (for men)."
well please please don't move it over 42,,
Give a man a life line here Mel ffs,  |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Thanks for the reminder I haven’t altered mine this year, yes I have set limits that move accordingly
ahh here I just checked,, don't move then too much,, please  
Phew,,,
Thats the nicest thing anyone said to me today,
You’ll still be in range "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weirdly since rejoining I would much prefer people around my own age. I keep my preferences pretty wide though because it’s good to keep an open mind- upper age isn’t a huge deal to me. In terms of lower age limit. I think it’s perfectly normal for that to change as you get older. When I was 21, 19 year olds were in the year below me at uni. Now I wouldn’t be interested in anyone that young and would prefer a smaller lower age gap. |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I seem to be drawn to men either the same age or younger than me ... maybe it's because I'm trying to repel growing up?! 
Midlife crisis anyone? "
have you thought of buying a Porsche or Hartley yet?? |
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My age limits have always been set the same, but over the years virtually all my playmates have been around the same age or older than me - only a few were younger, and not massively so...
....as I've got older, I've tended to mainly garner interest from similar age groups as before - although I now seem to be attracting the attention of a few considerably younger women... 
....and as for the older ladies, it's now getting increasingly difficult for me to be the younger man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have found that as I get older on here my age limits have moved on with me, older on opposite sides of the scale.
I mean I still look at fab pics and say wow but if the profile is in their 20's, now I'm like nope,and likewise at the other end of the scale, I find older womens profiles super hot.
Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while? "
Mine has gone up a bit. Lol
Sure we are getting older still not attracted to youngsters though.
might come after couple of years |
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Not changed mine. Very wide and I let the person dictate my interest.
There are some very worldly people a lot younger than I am.
There are some very young thinking elders.
I take each as an individual and see what occurs.
Age is one of the factors that is intangible and as I dont have kids, I don't have that subliminal bar set for me.  |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
"Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though. whattttt,
Surely you would make an expectation "
Sorry I meant younger than the age stated on my profile, your safe x |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though. whattttt,
Surely you would make an expectation
Sorry I meant younger than the age stated on my profile, your safe x"
well thank FFFFFKKKK for that, pheww  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."
Yes - you should change your upper limit to 52 (Whistles innocently).  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."
Oooooft. |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."
as all the young bucks sit upright to attention lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar.
Yes - you should change your upper limit to 52 (Whistles innocently). "
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I seem to be drawn to men either the same age or younger than me ... maybe it's because I'm trying to repel growing up?!
Midlife crisis anyone?
have you thought of buying a Porsche or Hartley yet?? "
... went for a Triumph Daytona
Any other midlife toy suggestions appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself i dont like anyone to be too much younger than me(i mean my son is 20) im leaning more towards older cpls/women but inked doesnt seem to have a preference with age.
(Miss) |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences 
Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)
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You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)
Thank you Chunky xx"
I with Chunky on this 1,,
Wowzerrrr |
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"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences
Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)
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You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)
Thank you Chunky xx I with Chunky on this 1,,
Wowzerrrr"
Thank you  |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences
Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)
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You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)
Thank you Chunky xx I with Chunky on this 1,,
Wowzerrrr
Thank you "
no thanks needed, and if anything it's me who should be thanking you,,
Woke me right up, |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I think mine will stay at 35-55 for a long time tbf with a few exceptions maybe, its a range that suits me well "
can't remember his reply as the Empire march theme is back inside his head,, and lightsabers going off all over the place,,, ahhh ffs.  |
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