"What’s your small talk game like before or after a meet ? Or is just down to action and then leave ? Any awkward post sex interactions ?"
I tend not to do small talk. To be fair I go as far as not arranging meets as tend to prefer just to not plan.
I have cancelled meets in the past as they were wanting to talk after we had set a date to meet |
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How are you today? I like your photo, what's the story behind that? What's on your mind? Where are you from? What are you up to today? (If they're reading a book) What character do you resonate most with?...
I draw a line when it comes to talking about the weather because nobody fucking cares  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Small talk gets shit on quite a bit, and yes if that is the extent of all the conversation has to offer I understand why.
But a lot of small talk is being polite and respectful, if I ask somebody how they are, I am genuinely interested.
Other kinds of small talk are great ways to branch off in to bigger and better topics, a natural flow of conversation.
I hate talking about myself in terms of "what do you like to do?" or "what are you in to?", I much prefer if the conversation flows that way and I am able to talk about my interests as "oh funny you say that because I like that too, and I also enjoy this" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All my meets have got sexual as soon as they've walked through the hotel door. But we have conversation and laughs when having a breather or afterwards, nothing too deep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate small talk. We’re both talkative so if someone can’t have a proper flowing conversation without mentioning the weather or any other mundane subject then we wouldn’t be interested at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm terrible at small talk. My mouth reveals all the things by brain means to keep to itself so I end up either over sharing or saying as little as possible  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I'd rather small talk topics with somebody who is enthusiastic and making an effort to converse with me, over the lack of interest/effort/ability to give brief and dull answers that so many people seem to have.
Currently (though not for long I expect) chatting with somebody from a dating app.
Them: hi how are you?
Me: I'm great thank you, just on a break in work, had a busy morning. How about yourself, doing anything interesting or exciting today?
Them: I'm good thanks.
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"I'd rather small talk topics with somebody who is enthusiastic and making an effort to converse with me, over the lack of interest/effort/ability to give brief and dull answers that so many people seem to have.
Currently (though not for long I expect) chatting with somebody from a dating app.
Them: hi how are you?
Me: I'm great thank you, just on a break in work, had a busy morning. How about yourself, doing anything interesting or exciting today?
Them: I'm good thanks.
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Surely that's just them being polite but they don't want to chat.  |
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