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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have anything on my 'looking for' because it takes me off the searches. That way I don't get loads of mail I don't want, I can just search for people I do want to meet.
If someone mailed you and they had nothing on their 'looking for' section, what would you think?
Would that put you off replying?
Ignoring the rest of the profile/ pics etc. Not asking if anything else would put you off, just an empty 'looking for' section. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to message those who have little on their profile, it might make for conversation by asking them but on the other hand, if they cannot be bothered to make an effort with their profile, what says they are going to with a meet  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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it gives a bit of an idication of how liberal you are i find .. im always cautious of mailing people who are 'into nothing', as it more than likely turns out to be a bit of a nervous meet .. and a disappointment as you dont know where each other lay - even if you dont get up to any of it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"it gives a bit of an idication of how liberal you are i find .. im always cautious of mailing people who are 'into nothing', as it more than likely turns out to be a bit of a nervous meet .. and a disappointment as you dont know where each other lay - even if you dont get up to any of it xx"
I was meaning just the looking for men, women, couples, tv bit. Not the safe sex, cuckolding, gangbang etc bit.
Good point but I also chat to people to find out what they are looking for and what we'd like the meet to be.
I don't hide my profile as I prefer to leave a bit of info on there. I don't put much on it anyway unless I feel like putting a long funny one one. 
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But why do that? Surely you could just hide your profile ? 
