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How many wives/girlfriends have partners who like them to go shopping, or have nights/weekends away with another man or couple? Had this thought while at work the other day. Is it a more common thing or a niche? |
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over a year ago
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My wife sees other men, but she doesn’t ‘play away’ so to speak. It’s all done in the open, with my knowledge and blessing. As she knows about my adventures here too. It’s a two way street for us. |
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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago
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"My wife sees other men, but she doesn’t ‘play away’ so to speak. It’s all done in the open, with my knowledge and blessing. As she knows about my adventures here too. It’s a two way street for us. "
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Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others. |
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My gf will invite a guy over if I'm not there. I'll get told all about it and usually get pictures and videos if she does so win win. She can't do overnights though as she's a single mum and the dad doesn't have the kid. |
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others."
Thank you for highlighting the "allowing" comment in the OP. 
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others.
Thank you for highlighting the "allowing" comment in the OP.
NBVN x"
To be fair - some of the turn on can be around the language "shared" "allowed to play" etc. Depends what kind of dynamic people have. |
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others.
Thank you for highlighting the "allowing" comment in the OP.
NBVN x
To be fair - some of the turn on can be around the language "shared" "allowed to play" etc. Depends what kind of dynamic people have. "
I suppose so, but "allowing" suggests ownership to me and as such seems less appropriate in swinging relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others."
Exactly this for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others.
Thank you for highlighting the "allowing" comment in the OP.
NBVN x
To be fair - some of the turn on can be around the language "shared" "allowed to play" etc. Depends what kind of dynamic people have.
I suppose so, but "allowing" suggests ownership to me and as such seems less appropriate in swinging relationships. "
A BDSM role-play dynamic - I should have been more clear. |
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others."
Allowing was probably the wrong word to use, but didn't mean anything bad by it. |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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Got to again say that allowing is a shallow and pathetic word.
My husband and I don't "allow" each other to explore elsewhere... neither of us belong to the other.. we simply coexist beautifully and enhance each other whilst being exploring types |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly my husband is happy for me to meet alone. Though I am only looking to meet other women, that is my choice.
He is also welcome to meet alone, if he wants.
Swinging is about mutual agreement around adding others to your sex life, not about "allowing" your partner to have sex with others.
Thank you for highlighting the "allowing" comment in the OP.
NBVN x
To be fair - some of the turn on can be around the language "shared" "allowed to play" etc. Depends what kind of dynamic people have.
I suppose so, but "allowing" suggests ownership to me and as such seems less appropriate in swinging relationships.
A BDSM role-play dynamic - I should have been more clear. "
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This is enlightening. Light bulb moment.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got to again say that allowing is a shallow and pathetic word.
My husband and I don't "allow" each other to explore elsewhere... neither of us belong to the other.. we simply coexist beautifully and enhance each other whilst being exploring types"
agreed,,,,,
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"Got to again say that allowing is a shallow and pathetic word.
My husband and I don't "allow" each other to explore elsewhere... neither of us belong to the other.. we simply coexist beautifully and enhance each other whilst being exploring types"
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do."
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' .... |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' .... "
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half? |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half? "
Consent / Agreement |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half?
Consent / Agreement "
How many profiles say that though? The most common I see on these profiles is “I’m married/attached but have permission to meet others”. Never ever seen consent/agreement used when I’ve read profiles. |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half? "
Exactly . If u don’t discuss n both give consent is not an open relationship . Is just a mess . |
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"Got to again say that allowing is a shallow and pathetic word.
My husband and I don't "allow" each other to explore elsewhere... neither of us belong to the other.. we simply coexist beautifully and enhance each other whilst being exploring types
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half?
Exactly . If u don’t discuss n both give consent is not an open relationship . Is just a mess . "
And permission pretty much means giving consent. Fair enough if people don’t particularly like the word but it’s the most commonly used in that scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife has a loving relationship with a BF so yea she does all the normal stuff like shopping trips away and all that stuff with him, I also have the same freedom I just choose not to and stick to going to the club and have socials with people maby one day I will it all just depends on if I meet someone I want to do all that stuff with |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half?
Exactly . If u don’t discuss n both give consent is not an open relationship . Is just a mess . "
Interestingly .... you used the word 'consent' .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half?
Exactly . If u don’t discuss n both give consent is not an open relationship . Is just a mess .
And permission pretty much means giving consent. Fair enough if people don’t particularly like the word but it’s the most commonly used in that scenario. "
I've been trying to square off the word let too.
You let someone cross your boundaries or not. But if hot wifing is within boundaries, than you aren't letting your wife do anything. Your agreeing (consenting) it's okay by you.
So I'm going with "men who enjoy their wife sleeping with others"... Or "are okay with ...."
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My Girl is mine, I just want her enjoy life and enjoy what she fancies. As long as she has enjoyed herself and been treated right I am happy. We have a couple of little ground rules but I'm fairly relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This whole thread seems needlessly pedantic.
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But we so much love to get our knickers in a twist and argue over the meaning of words - the more subjective and multi-interpretational the better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife is free to do as she pleases "
Kick you out of your own home, cut you off from all of your mutual friends and family and move another man into your house whilst taking most of your wages every month? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are the opposite, I like my husband going off with other women, he has had one night away with a past interest, didn't feel as weird as we thought it would, even went for breakfast with them afterwards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you go on a mums group and ask on there I doubt there will be many. You're obviously going to find loads here who are into that kind of thing. I don't think it's that common tbh, but who knows. |
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"If you go on a mums group and ask on there I doubt there will be many. You're obviously going to find loads here who are into that kind of thing. I don't think it's that common tbh, but who knows."
I just asked on mums group and you’re right. A big fat 0 x |
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"Both my wife and I do this, it’s not about letting either. It’s just what we do.
That was my immediate response to the thread title........
It reads as if 'the wife' needs the permission of the 'the husband' ....
What would you call it then? I wouldn’t be in a marriage where one goes out fucking other people with no discussion. So people should just be allowed to do that without the say so of their other half? "
This. A million percent. And well said.
Seems like virtue signalling to me; people are picking up on the semantics of the verb “to allow” when there was no undertone of control or dominance.
Each to their own and all but we don’t play separately; it’s not for us. But if I wanted to go out and wine, dine and sixty nine some other woman, she’d chop my cock off - and I wouldn’t blame her. I’d be equally unimpressed if the reverse scenario was requested.
It’s nothing to do with one of us “allowing” the other to do something. |
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"If you go on a mums group and ask on there I doubt there will be many. You're obviously going to find loads here who are into that kind of thing. I don't think it's that common tbh, but who knows.
I just asked on mums group and you’re right. A big fat 0 x "
do you think that is because 0 are doing it ... Or because it's still tabboo? |
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Yeah..... you have to take her shopping ..... That'll make everyone think twice
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