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What’s holding you back?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fear of rejection and what it might do to my self esteem if it happens enough times  "
Love yerself dude. Easier said than done I know but do that and the fear will bugger off. You're awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex
Kill him/her?
Or did you mean they are lingering in your feelings?
No, you were right with the first one!"
A few ideas then.....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bmx-GSvz47M
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get sex at home.
On here though? I make virtually no effort in looking for people as I have very little time to myself at the moment. So would be a waste of everyone's time. Just has to settle for shit & giggles for now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fear of rejection and what it might do to my self esteem if it happens enough times
Love yerself dude. Easier said than done I know but do that and the fear will bugger off. You're awesome! "
That was so wholesome, thank you 
To be fair, you always seem to unapologetically be yourself which I think is awesome  |
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"Nothing really holds me back nowadays- I have more flaws than I could list, but I have come to accept myself for what I am & don't really worry what people think of me! It's very liberating."
Best way to b x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fear of rejection and what it might do to my self esteem if it happens enough times
Love yerself dude. Easier said than done I know but do that and the fear will bugger off. You're awesome!
That was so wholesome, thank you
To be fair, you always seem to unapologetically be yourself which I think is awesome "
Took me a while dude but it's liberating and so much better |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"Nothing really holds me back nowadays- I have more flaws than I could list, but I have come to accept myself for what I am & don't really worry what people think of me! It's very liberating.
Best way to b x"
Isn't it!!!  x |
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I wouldn't say I find it too difficult to get sex in general.
But, with Fab, in particular, my biggest flaw is that I don't send out the first message, and instead wait for women to message me. Which happens, but by the time I eliminate those I'm not attracted to, those I'm not compatible with, and those where the conversation never rally starts flowing, I'm never left with much to show for it.
Obviously, I could send out the first message, but (probably like a lot od guys) I'm not confident in my own ability to actually compose a first message that would actually grab someone's attention. Too full of self-doubt. |
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I am not body confident. I would love clubs more if I could actually get naked in front of people.
I am very happy one on one and I am fortunate enough not to have had a fee of those. So I am not held back but I could flourish if I could overcome that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not body confident. I would love clubs more if I could actually get naked in front of people.
I am very happy one on one and I am fortunate enough not to have had a fee of those. So I am not held back but I could flourish if I could overcome that. "
Your body looks great from where I’m standing!  |
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"I am not body confident. I would love clubs more if I could actually get naked in front of people.
I am very happy one on one and I am fortunate enough not to have had a fee of those. So I am not held back but I could flourish if I could overcome that. "
I'd have to say yeah same here, I have that patchy skin pigment thing, so other than using the Internet to post pics its difficult to just whip it out or get naked with someone new in real life |
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What's holding me back?
The indecisiveness brought on from 10 potential paramours who want to meet me. I've had to create an Excel Spreadsheet to record which one prefers Gin, Cheese, Cake, Reverse Cowgirl, Coffee etc. |
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"The fact I won't look and won't let anyone approach me
Well, on reading your profile, yes, exactly as you said lol.
Shame, because daaammmmnnnnnnn you fine! x"
Haha, thank you.
For everything there is a season, and this season won't last forever etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whats holding me back?
The lack of women/couples responding to messages, oh well can't be everyone's cup of tea but surely one or two would be interested right? |
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Haha, thank you.
For everything there is a season, and this season won't last forever etc.
Don't wait too long! Times ticking away and we only live once xx"
Sure. When I'm ready I'll be back into it. (And not before) |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
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Location, location and location ... unless teleportation is imminent then it's a frustrating barrier
Yup, and typically you're 100+ miles from me! The standard fab way  "
I hear you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having the sense of humour of a 5 year old (though if anyone fancies a game of top trumps or conkers I'm in)....
Only if its Superheroes Top Trumps.
I go first.
Silver Surfer Strength 9. "
I'm assuming you are using the 1977 cards, then why not go with Special Powers 10? If I remember right he was unbeatable on the choice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant flip the switch to be interested in new people. Which is no reflection on the fact there are great people out there. I havn't got the curiosity to know anyone else intimately yet. |
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