FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Are you a lazy lover?
Are you a lazy lover?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
A female friend of mine told me she is and just lets the bloke do all the work.
It kind of got me thinking, do you expect a partner to do everything or do you put in some work?
Because in my eyes if there is no work being put in, you may as well fuck a blow up doll. 
What are your thoughts. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What's the point if you are going to just lay there?
Good sex takes effort, amazing sex takes stamina  "
That’s what I was thinking, I mean if someone puts all the work in and you just let them do all the work that must be frustrating. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
There's gotta be mutual effort, otherwise I might as well whip out the fleshlight, and save myself some time. I have previously turned down second meets because of this kind of thing.
Its alright to have one party do all the work once in a while if you're in a relationship, or with a regular fuck buddy, but generally speaking both need to contribute. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Definitely not, my favourite position is cowgirl  "
I love that position too, but usually when I can lift up the woman on top and pound away rampantly. It sort of can steal control a bit, but it’s hot and fun to do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I didn't realise that you could actually describe sex in any form as being work. I would be more inclined to see good sex or bad sex, lazy sex or bed gymnastics, as being the ultimate recreational drug of choice producing a high that no substance can match |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually "
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker "
 Yeah usually that's exactly it!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Really ? I get mails offering to come into my house that I have left unlocked for them, to find me lying on my bed, legs akimbo in anticipation, they say I don't have to do anything, just lie back and they will give me the time of my life, expecting nothing in return |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker
Yeah usually that's exactly it!! "
My postcode is ..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker
Yeah usually that's exactly it!! "
I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
"
That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes "
Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually "
Lazy lover
She'll get a hold on you believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's a lazy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes
Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service ."
Sorry but no |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes
Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service .
Sorry but no "
Don't be sorry I can't think of anything worse personally |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
Lazy lover
She'll get a hold on you believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's a lazy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see"
Damn you! That's going to be playing in my head all evening now! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker
Yeah usually that's exactly it!!
I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping "
Oh I will... repeatedly |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes
Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service .
Sorry but no
Don't be sorry I can't think of anything worse personally "
Can't say if fancy a bj for hours either, 5 minutes is enough for a warm up |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker
Yeah usually that's exactly it!!
I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping
Oh I will... repeatedly "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A female friend of mine told me she is and just lets the bloke do all the work.
It kind of got me thinking, do you expect a partner to do everything or do you put in some work?
Because in my eyes if there is no work being put in, you may as well fuck a blow up doll.
What are your thoughts. "
Bit like a pillow princess as they say. We'd not meet anyone like that as may as well just fuck each other |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's something I've worried about being perceived as before because in certain positions I can freeze up a bit trying to keep my cervix out of the way. I put in plenty of effort in foreplay though and I'm very happy to go on top. To be honest in any position I'm happy to do the thrusting but in some that would mean the guy not moving much and most aren't up for that. It's just if you're both going at it it can get a bit clumsy and it's harder to control depth. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.
Maybe. Not sure I could actually
Lazy lover
She'll get a hold on you believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's a lazy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see
Damn you! That's going to be playing in my head all evening now! "
You're welcome. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I'd like to think not ..a friend of mine always say I perspirate quite a bit but I believe I putting in the effort
If your going to f@#k then f@#k like it's the last one your going to have otherwise whats the point |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?
"
My worst nightmare.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
Good sex takes 2 people (or more )
Hate to be with someone who made no effort, what is the point.
I've experienced it when I've met couples, ladies who just lie there and dont make any noises, or movement. It's soul destroying. Why fucking bother meeting for sex if you aren't going to partake.
Ruby |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
