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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pics I don’t open first messages that contine pics 90% off them have a dick pic I should be able to click the profile and see what’s if I like if I want to see more I am not shy in asking
No pet names honey babe things like that name like that are reaseved for people I am in a relationship with
No rude names 4 and 5 letter bad words
Yes I like being called them during the moment and after the moment but ones they away then that’s it also definitely not in a message
I may at some point refer to my self as them but I am aloud to
Also are you free now I have 10 minutes to spare
Sorry but I don’t sit around dolled up all day like a free escort just waiting to be fucked
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry if this subject has been done to death - I haven’t really looked at the forum before
You’re fine  x
And good luck  "
thanks, I reckon I’ll need it!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A face pic.
The message can be everything I want to read, but if I don't fancy him it's going nowhere
Welcome to the forums  "
Yep, a good point! Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When first being approached here, what do you want to see in that first message?"
Reading and trying to pick something from their profile to mention in your first message, unless you want to don't feel you need to add a face pic either, but it's down to luck really. Some will still delete regardless of effort |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I like a message that explains why the person is contacting me....showing that they've read my profile and think they are compatible. This could be age, location, interested in similar things etc
No rude suggestions.
No enclosed dick pics.
Once I've read the message, before replying, I look at the profile, so then the quality of photos or text would be a deciding factor.
You can search for topics in the forum, so I'm sure you can read people's thoughts on both of these things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a message that explains why the person is contacting me....showing that they've read my profile and think they are compatible. This could be age, location, interested in similar things etc
No rude suggestions.
No enclosed dick pics.
Once I've read the message, before replying, I look at the profile, so then the quality of photos or text would be a deciding factor.
You can search for topics in the forum, so I'm sure you can read people's thoughts on both of these things. "
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour
Make me laugh and smile, I’m yours (well maybe not after the first message but, offer cake in the 2nd message and I would be)"
Cake and humour.
Be mine?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If approached just a normal greeting as if you was talking to me in public. Maybe some kind of non sexual question so I have reason to answer so the conversation doesn't feel so awkward or forced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok ladies lets put this to bed so help me out.
Ladies write a message to yourself on here trying to woo yourself over, I think that's what everyone whats to see. Then this can be #donetodeath
Don't all jump in at once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Punctuation
Punctuation, spelling.. there / their / they’re etc. !!!"
I didn't add spelling and grammar because I know that they're tough for some people because of dyslexia. But I get many messages with no punctuation which quite frankly makes them unreadable. A paragraph of text with no full stops is just not my kink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty with them having articulated their wants and some acknowledgement to know that they’ve read and understood my profile (& the two desires marry), which’ll lead to nsa fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Punctuation
Punctuation, spelling.. there / their / they’re etc. !!!
I didn't add spelling and grammar because I know that they're tough for some people because of dyslexia. But I get many messages with no punctuation which quite frankly makes them unreadable. A paragraph of text with no full stops is just not my kink. "
Yep, I’m with you there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies lets put this to bed so help me out.
Ladies write a message to yourself on here trying to woo yourself over, I think that's what everyone whats to see. Then this can be #donetodeath
Don't all jump in at once "
Ok I'll have a go.
"Hello there. I really like your photos and your comments on the forum. I tend to lurk . I think I am relatively close to you and we are looking for the same things. Is Violetta your real name?"
Nothing sexual. Compliment isn't OTT. Has clearly read the profile. Meets my criteria. Asks a question to start off a conversation.
I'd reply to myself. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Punctuation
Punctuation, spelling.. there / their / they’re etc. !!!
I didn't add spelling and grammar because I know that they're tough for some people because of dyslexia. But I get many messages with no punctuation which quite frankly makes them unreadable. A paragraph of text with no full stops is just not my kink. "
That is the bain of my life at work. Six hundred words, 70-80 commas and no capital letters or a full-stop at the end.
I get exhausted just trying to read them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies lets put this to bed so help me out.
Ladies write a message to yourself on here trying to woo yourself over, I think that's what everyone whats to see. Then this can be #donetodeath
Don't all jump in at once
Ok I'll have a go.
"Hello there. I really like your photos and your comments on the forum. I tend to lurk . I think I am relatively close to you and we are looking for the same things. Is Violetta your real name?"
Nothing sexual. Compliment isn't OTT. Has clearly read the profile. Meets my criteria. Asks a question to start off a conversation.
I'd reply to myself. "
See everyone case closed thank me later  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Punctuation
Punctuation, spelling.. there / their / they’re etc. !!!
I didn't add spelling and grammar because I know that they're tough for some people because of dyslexia. But I get many messages with no punctuation which quite frankly makes them unreadable. A paragraph of text with no full stops is just not my kink.
That is the bain of my life at work. Six hundred words, 70-80 commas and no capital letters or a full-stop at the end.
I get exhausted just trying to read them. "
Hopefully you get paid for that! But I'm not reading that kind of rubbish here in my spare time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok ladies lets put this to bed so help me out.
Ladies write a message to yourself on here trying to woo yourself over, I think that's what everyone whats to see. Then this can be #donetodeath
Don't all jump in at once
Ok I'll have a go.
"Hello there. I really like your photos and your comments on the forum. I tend to lurk . I think I am relatively close to you and we are looking for the same things. Is Violetta your real name?"
Nothing sexual. Compliment isn't OTT. Has clearly read the profile. Meets my criteria. Asks a question to start off a conversation.
I'd reply to myself.
See everyone case closed thank me later "
If anyone send me my own message you will be told off!! |
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Just that people have read our profile, as all the information is in there, as soon as they start with suggesting something that we don't want its clear and annoying they just haven't bothered to read it. X |
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