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What advice would you give to the person who is dating your ex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run
Don't look back
Every word is a lie
If you choose to stay you must excel in narcissism, mind games,gas lighting and his all time favourite emotional abuse oh and always remember one rule for him entirely different for you.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Run
Don't look back
Every word is a lie
If you choose to stay you must excel in narcissism, mind games,gas lighting and his all time favourite emotional abuse oh and always remember one rule for him entirely different for you.
Good luck"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d ask him what’s she’s said about me, and if it’s was as false and what she told me about her ex. Then leave him to make his own mind up, I don’t give a shit, she’s history, not my problem |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
1. He's a sweetie, look after him
2. Run, like hell
3. He will cheat again
4. It's such a shame... you'll realise
5. He's grown, he's happier, you're good for him (actually said this last weekend)
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My two ex husbands were nightmares in different ways. One was a arrogant, bigheaded and self absorbed narcissist. I found out when we split he had played with a few of my so called friends behind my back also. The other was a total control freak who would not let me go anywhere alone. He also tried to cut me off from my friends. Funny how they both started off tidy but then their dark sides came to show later on. Now in john i have the most loving, chilled and layed back guy i wish i had met before the other two freaks. Joanne |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be kind, she's had a lot of shit in her life as it is. This has made her who she is and absolutely nothing you do is going to change that. Accept her for who she is or move on but don't hurt her.
Mr |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
A world all of his own |
"Run
Don't look back
Every word is a lie
If you choose to stay you must excel in narcissism, mind games,gas lighting and his all time favourite emotional abuse oh and always remember one rule for him entirely different for you.
Good luck"
This, pretty much word for word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be prepared to lose all your self esteem and confidence whilst having to boost his egotistical narcissistic tendencies otherwise your life will be made a living hell. That and buy a dildo as he is a shit fuck ! Blunt but true ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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none as none of my business not only that i dont think about my ex or exs if i was then that would mean im still connected and that im very much not ive moved on theyve moved on best of luck to all i say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To whomever is with my ex 'K', in the words of Pink Floyd "Run Like Hell"
And then listen to 'Bed of Roses number 9' by Ian Dury and the Blockheads, sums up that relationship succinctly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The following advice:
Does not wash from one week to the next
Will not wash hands after using the toilet
If something doesn't go his way he gets all pissy
If you want something fixed/decorated, do it yourself, you will be waiting until your time comes to pass over to the next life otherwise
Put the bins out yourself (even though it happened weekly he always forgot)
Never emptied the water container to the tumble dryer
Will do not any housework unless absolutely necessary even though he is a stay at home dad (or was)
Is a hypocontract, will require as many sick days from work (when he has a job) as he can manage without being fired
I am sure there is more advice but turns out his girlfriend is just as bloody filthy (and not in a good way) as him!
Danish x |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"The following advice:
Does not wash from one week to the next
Will not wash hands after using the toilet
If something doesn't go his way he gets all pissy
If you want something fixed/decorated, do it yourself, you will be waiting until your time comes to pass over to the next life otherwise
Put the bins out yourself (even though it happened weekly he always forgot)
Never emptied the water container to the tumble dryer
Will do not any housework unless absolutely necessary even though he is a stay at home dad (or was)
Is a hypocontract, will require as many sick days from work (when he has a job) as he can manage without being fired
I am sure there is more advice but turns out his girlfriend is just as bloody filthy (and not in a good way) as him!
Danish x"
How did you manage to spend more than a week with someone who did not wash himself for a week !??  |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"I’d let them find out for themselves the same way I did "
That probably the best answer. I learned through my life never to give advise unless specifically asked for help. And I doubt my ex’s bf would ask for help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Run
Don't look back
Every word is a lie
If you choose to stay you must excel in narcissism, mind games,gas lighting and his all time favourite emotional abuse oh and always remember one rule for him entirely different for you.
Good luck"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to tell her when she's being selfish as she doesn't know. But you will, as your enjoyment of life drains away. But not as quickly as your friends and finances. |
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She has two guns, one in a handbag at the bottom of the wardrobe, in the “handbag pile” (Glock 26, she keeps a spare 10 round magazine (9mm) in the same bag) and the other is in the greenhouse (AAC Honey Badger PDW (suppressed) she has three additional magazines in the same green house (30 x .300 AAC Blackout for added suppression).
Of course it’s been over 10 years, she may have upgraded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely love her, she'll love you and treat you well. A lovely person, we just ended up wanting different things and are still good friends. I like her new partner and they're happy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd tell him to find a fuck buddy as she's colder than the Arctic and dryer than the Sahara. Cook all the meals yourself if you want them to have any taste and don't let her put her jammas on at 6 - it absolutely ruins your day especially in the summer! She's actually alright in most ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Advise her to bolt and never look back! (applies to ex hubby).
As for the ex long term partner - steer clear he's done time in BarL and on a register... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The following advice:
Does not wash from one week to the next
Will not wash hands after using the toilet
If something doesn't go his way he gets all pissy
If you want something fixed/decorated, do it yourself, you will be waiting until your time comes to pass over to the next life otherwise
Put the bins out yourself (even though it happened weekly he always forgot)
Never emptied the water container to the tumble dryer
Will do not any housework unless absolutely necessary even though he is a stay at home dad (or was)
Is a hypocontract, will require as many sick days from work (when he has a job) as he can manage without being fired
I am sure there is more advice but turns out his girlfriend is just as bloody filthy (and not in a good way) as him!
Danish x
How did you manage to spend more than a week with someone who did not wash himself for a week !?? "
Sadly I wasnt the same person I am today when I was married to him, I put up with a lot.
Danish x |
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