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"If it’s not covered in your profile, they are fair questions" It is covered in mine although I don't see asking how the site is treating you as a fair question, it just seems a bit of a cop out to striking up an actual conversation. | |||
"If it’s not covered in your profile, they are fair questions It is covered in mine although I don't see asking how the site is treating you as a fair question, it just seems a bit of a cop out to striking up an actual conversation. " Oh it’s a cop out for sure but i don’t find it annoying, I would just assume the person is being polite. | |||
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"I think its because people are unsure what to say. I mean if you have interacted with each other on the forum its easy to carry on with a message. But from cold we'll apart from praising pictures, which I'm sure would be looked on as too obvious what really else is there? Be interesting to see other views" Definitely for those that give very little detail in a profile, it's very difficult to form a personal convo starter. However using what their profile says as a starting point goes a long way to constructing something more. With that said a bit of small talk to break the ice and get a feel for the reception before being a bit more bold and open is often looked down upon. We know who and how we are, initial contact prior to being started has no such information so needs to stay neutral in its approach | |||
"If it’s not covered in your profile, they are fair questions It is covered in mine although I don't see asking how the site is treating you as a fair question, it just seems a bit of a cop out to striking up an actual conversation. Oh it’s a cop out for sure but i don’t find it annoying, I would just assume the person is being polite." I only find it a tad annoying because of what my profile says but this was an open question to all rather than based around the trite that comes through my inbox. I'm genuinely curious if that question has ever received a wanted response. | |||
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"They are daft question tbf ... If on the other hand the question was ... Would you let me slowly undress you and softly kiss your neck until we fall to the ground together and get sweaty in front of a roaring log fire ?? Would that be preferable "Yes please lol | |||
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"Always get set questions Straight male - nice cock can I suck it? Bi male - can I suck it Couple - wife isn't here, can I suck your cock instead?" You must have a nice cock do you reply to them or just delete? | |||
"Always get set questions Straight male - nice cock can I suck it? Bi male - can I suck it Couple - wife isn't here, can I suck your cock instead?" That’s the top and bottom of it. I would ask general questions like those first mentioned as a way of starting up a conversation. I personally think it would be rude to go straight into carnal thoughts with someone who is a complete stranger. | |||
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""Why are you here then?" "What are you looking for?" "How are you finding the site / How is fab treating you?" I'm sure there's plenty more I've not listed. Why do people ask them? Do they ever work? Do you get a response or the response you want? Yes I'm fully aware I've just asked a lot of questions "My usual reply to these are. Why are you here then?" My mother and father were naughty. "What are you looking for?" A billionaire | |||
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"They are daft question tbf ... If on the other hand the question was ... Would you let me slowly undress you and softly kiss your neck until we fall to the ground together and get sweaty in front of a roaring log fire ?? Would that be preferable
Yes please lol"When I can afford one you're on | |||
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"It's very hard to know what to say to start a conversation with someone you've never met, and know nothing about. These are usually fishing questions. So, although the question 'what have you got planned for the weekend?' might be dull in of itself, the person may mention something in their answer, such as a shared interest, for example, which you can follow up on, and hopefully a conversation can gradually develop. It's better to ask a dull question, and at least give the recipient something easy to respond to, than to ask no question at all, especially when you're a man. If I sent women the kinds of messages that they send me, I doubt I would get a response at all - the last 3 I received here were "Hi", and 2 which can be paraphrased as "I think you look hot, and your profile made me laugh"." I'm gonna respond to the "what have you got planned for the weekend?" but I'm gonna do it honestly. The weekend? Working Friday night, get home around midnight after being on my feet serving rude people since early afternoon, if I'm lucky I'll get 3 hours sleep coz I'm back up at 6 to do the same again for the next 10 hours. Get home, be too tired to eat and then crash out about 1am, wishing I had the drive to find another job and have something that resembles anything other than existing to pay bills. Oh, Sunday, I'll be wishing I lived closer to my family so I could enjoy a family roast dinner, alas, I'll be working, resenting people who take family time, people and things for granted. Bills don't pay themselves and I don't like life very much. Bit shit that innit. | |||
"It's very hard to know what to say to start a conversation with someone you've never met, and know nothing about. These are usually fishing questions. So, although the question 'what have you got planned for the weekend?' might be dull in of itself, the person may mention something in their answer, such as a shared interest, for example, which you can follow up on, and hopefully a conversation can gradually develop. It's better to ask a dull question, and at least give the recipient something easy to respond to, than to ask no question at all, especially when you're a man. If I sent women the kinds of messages that they send me, I doubt I would get a response at all - the last 3 I received here were "Hi", and 2 which can be paraphrased as "I think you look hot, and your profile made me laugh". I'm gonna respond to the "what have you got planned for the weekend?" but I'm gonna do it honestly. The weekend? Working Friday night, get home around midnight after being on my feet serving rude people since early afternoon, if I'm lucky I'll get 3 hours sleep coz I'm back up at 6 to do the same again for the next 10 hours. Get home, be too tired to eat and then crash out about 1am, wishing I had the drive to find another job and have something that resembles anything other than existing to pay bills. Oh, Sunday, I'll be wishing I lived closer to my family so I could enjoy a family roast dinner, alas, I'll be working, resenting people who take family time, people and things for granted. Bills don't pay themselves and I don't like life very much. Bit shit that innit. " And from that the person could respond by asking you what you do for a living, sympathising with your struggle, sharing their own work/home life balance grief, and you may end up bonding over your mutual ballaches  | |||
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