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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well?
What are you looking for on fab?
Are you looking for anything?
I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.
Is it an offer to help me look for something?
Help!!!! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Honestly don't know.
I'm here hanging out now and again and just seeing what happens. Not just fab, life in general is currently in that whole phase for me. Tried to do things and make things happen many times over the years and they just didn't, so now I'm no longer proactive, but just reactive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well?
What are you looking for on fab?
Are you looking for anything?
I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.
Is it an offer to help me look for something?
Help!!!! "
I can help you look if you want..  |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
I still can't find my sodding back up pair of glasses....
I wonder if U2 are any good?
Perhaps you have found your niche in Covid. Looking for things that nobody knows what they are looking for? You just need a Ouija board and Derek Acorah's Native American spirit guide!
Can you ask him where me glasses are if you do decide to though cos it's fucking me off now after months of searching...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab probably nothing.
I don't except to find happy ever after here, to be honest as much as I want it, I sadly don't think I'll find it anywhere now. I'm losing more hope every single day.
So mostly I join in on the forums, chat to some cool people and post photos for a confidence boost while real life tries to steal it away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“What are you looking for?” Always seems to be a filler question someone asks me when they message me and have no better conversation to make. I’ve just kinda given up on answering it tbh.
I’m on the site, but I’m not actually actively LOOKING for something. I’m honestly just existing. If something good comes along then great, but I wouldn’t say I’m actively seeking anything specific. |
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Well, 6 years ago started out as the same reason as most others. To explore the sexual realms and live a hedonistic side to my life.
Now I'm here out of habit and fear. If I break the habit I'll have no excuse not to address just how fucked up I am, and that shit's scary.
At least here I can justify why I won't let anyone close. Here sex is a commodity much like money that people will lie, cheat, steal, manipulate and con to achieve and the more I see it the less I trust. So I guess I'm keeping myself trapped in a safety net of "fuck the world I don't need anyone" coz as fucked up as that is, it's less fucked up than I am.
Nothing. I'm looking for nothing. Merely a distraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What am i looking for on fab?
Just friends now and having fun
Was I looking for anything?
Yes I was indeed romance passion chemistry, to kiss someone with all 3 of them, I did believe that it's not just about sex.
Have I lost anything,, yep I have the confidence to find that now. The confidence to message someone because I understand women get lot's of messages and can't reply to everyone.
Its ok not to be ok, I stand by that
What have I found? Well forum's it's a wonderful place piss taking having fun sticking up for people and some op post are fooking good keep it up you guys and girls.
So I've not lost anything I've found you lot what more can anyone ask for
Fook now did I put my car keys over here?? |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"My lightbulb switched on this morning so I updated my bio accordingly.
I think I’m asking for the impossible 
Yip. I'm not into pegging. 
Awww Chunky!!! Not even a small one? "
Nope. My arse is virginal and staying that way. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Nothing in particular. I'm hoping to talk to more people, enjoy some laughs but right now, I think I'm at a stage where I'm just enjoying interactions for what they are - whether it's a fleeting hello, a longer stretch of prose or the start of a friendship. That organic, mindful way of being where I'm enjoying the now is better for me. More enjoyable.
So yes, not really looking for anything. And would probably say nothing if asked in a private message as people don't want to read my ramblings. On the forum you're stuck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came on here looking to experiment & have more adventurous sex than I had previously experienced.
I’ve found a confidence I never knew I had and some wonderful friendships I never expected and I’m having some of the most adventurous sex. So I certainly found more than I was looking for.
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"Well?
What are you looking for on fab? I hate this question!!
Are you looking for anything?
I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.
Is it an offer to help me look for something?
Help!!!! "
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"That’s usually a question asked by someone who either hasn’t read your profile or isn’t great at making conversation. "
True. If read a profile I’d expect to find the answer , it can be detailed or abstract but I can figure it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well?
What are you looking for on fab?
Are you looking for anything?
I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.
Is it an offer to help me look for something?
Help!!!! "
I literally use the same answer as you. Because I have lost anything to be looking. Respectfully  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I came here looking for some uncomplicated fun, to explore my bi side more, and have some amazing meets.
I got some of that and more than what I expected My B
All the above is still on the cards though with the right people in time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On fab probably nothing.
I don't except to find happy ever after here, to be honest as much as I want it, I sadly don't think I'll find it anywhere now. I'm losing more hope every single day.
So mostly I join in on the forums, chat to some cool people and post photos for a confidence boost while real life tries to steal it away. "
Sinders, you need to relocate to Aberdeenshire Honestly though, you're lovely and will find it where you least expect it; probably when you don't even want it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just looking to connect with like minded people in the lifestyle be it in a plutonic way or maybe more so I can fully explore what the lifestyle is all about. |
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