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Pub or restaurant for a first meet ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I was just wondering what is the norm now for a first meet ? Always like a pub myself. But is a restaurant for dinner or maybe a coffee house a better choice?
Or no public meet at all ???
What’s your preferences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Coffee shop, cafe or pub for me.
Restaurant for dinner is too long if it’s awkward or they’re creepy. "
Yeah very true .just thought you lady’s liked to be wined and dined ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Blacked out panel van with a mattress in the back has always worked for me...
(Coffee shop, really. The van is for 2nd dates.)  "
????????
Who says romance is dead |
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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago
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"Blacked out panel van with a mattress in the back has always worked for me...
(Coffee shop, really. The van is for 2nd dates.)
????????
Who says romance is dead "
Hey... I bought them coffee. And probably cake!  |
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"Coffee shop, cafe or pub for me.
Restaurant for dinner is too long if it’s awkward or they’re creepy.
Yeah very true .just thought you lady’s liked to be wined and dined ??"
Not all ladies are the same.
And that’s fair enough on like an actual first date with someone you’ve met imo. A first meet is different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Coffee shop, cafe or pub for me.
Restaurant for dinner is too long if it’s awkward or they’re creepy.
Yeah very true .just thought you lady’s liked to be wined and dined ??
Not all ladies are the same.
And that’s fair enough on like an actual first date with someone you’ve met imo. A first meet is different. "
I am very glad you lady’s are different and your point is well taken
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Our first physical meet was in a Tea Rooms. Mrs Misfits suggestion as we discussed we both like a good cuppa and a cake. Unfortunately the tea was terrible there and the meet was on the rocks before it got started (I was not impressed). Things worked out a lot better once I took her out for a little drive in my car. That drive saved the day. And here we are 4 years on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coffee/drink.
Need to be able to get out quickly if the attraction isn't there, or of it is there, get to the hotel quickly.
Food gets in the way of both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done all three and all three have worked well. I get to know the person through texts pretty well so a meal is not scary. But you are there for at least an hour."
This for me too |
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"Coffee shop, cafe or pub for me.
Restaurant for dinner is too long if it’s awkward or they’re creepy.
Yeah very true .just thought you lady’s liked to be wined and dined ??"
I would hate that, and it sometimes leaves some men feeling that you owe them something sexual for the meal. Coffee and cake is better and I pay for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the time of the social for me, coffee if early day time or pub later on.
Less about the drink and more just about a venue that is open at X time"
This.....as need the opportunity for either party to back out if its not gonna work. |
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"Hi
I was just wondering what is the norm now for a first meet ? Always like a pub myself. But is a restaurant for dinner or maybe a coffee house a better choice?
Or no public meet at all ???
What’s your preferences "
we always have met at a pub first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't worry what the "norm" is and do what suits you. I would do either but I only meet those I really like from messaging and I don't normally social meet. That's how comfortable I have to be with someone. I do tend to shy away from anything that seems too date like and I think that is more to do with the vibe I get from the other person. |
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