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Too much "tonic water" in the club..
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When we go to the club and people are slurring their words, stumbling everywhere etc.
Why? Why get so dr**k? I don't like to drink as I like to be in full control of myself and my decisions.
I understand a little tipple to ease the nerves and I'm no snowflake or Karen but it makes me worry for the women that they'll be taken advantage of as not every guy is chivalrous enough to say no when a woman is in that condition and I worry for them if a guy were to really cross a line (although lots of good guys and girls around to help out I know)
Also this is just as easily reversed between sexes.
It's just a turn off to see... Am I alone in thinking this?
What are your thoughts and have you experienced this?
Am I being boring?
P s my drink of choice in the club is now a cuppa, I'm getting old.... Hahahaha x |
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It doesn't sound so different from a nightclub really...folks go to have a drink and cut loose except they're hoping to do the sex instead of the dancing |
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"When we go to the club and people are slurring their words, stumbling everywhere etc.
Why? Why get so dr**k? I don't like to drink as I like to be in full control of myself and my decisions.
I understand a little tipple to ease the nerves and I'm no snowflake or Karen but it makes me worry for the women that they'll be taken advantage of as not every guy is chivalrous enough to say no when a woman is in that condition and I worry for them if a guy were to really cross a line (although lots of good guys and girls around to help out I know)
Also this is just as easily reversed between sexes.
It's just a turn off to see... Am I alone in thinking this?
What are your thoughts and have you experienced this?
Am I being boring?
P s my drink of choice in the club is now a cuppa, I'm getting old.... Hahahaha x "
I don’t know what clubs you go to but we haven’t seen anything like this where we go. |
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We hardly drink at clubs either. Maybe one or two.
We agreed to meet a couple in a club and they were d*unk - he kept asking over and over what we were into and she was slurring her words.
We are all for clubs being like nightclubs - we enjoy that too but if our play mates are d*unk we won’t entertain them. Not worth any risk of problems.
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This is one of the main reasons that I rarely go to clubs...the only unpleasantness I've ever encountered has been from dr*nken women.
I would happily pay more or travel further to visit a club with a zero alcohol policy. |
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After you have a few your decision making is affected and you end up having too many.
And shows like Geordie shore makes youngsters aspire to be as ridiculous and d*unk as that lot. So they think it's the cool thing to do, and I'll get lots of attention and people will think I'm really funny in place of an actual personality. |
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"After you have a few your decision making is affected and you end up having too many.
And shows like Geordie shore makes youngsters aspire to be as ridiculous and d*unk as that lot. So they think it's the cool thing to do, and I'll get lots of attention and people will think I'm really funny in place of an actual personality. "
Swingers clubs aren't really packed with youngsters  |
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I don't really drink at the club either. Our Xmas party night I took four cans of vodka, lime and lemonade, only drank three of them and I was still sober. Had a great night too. I don't need to drink a lot to have fun x |
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Some will be drinking, some will be "othering"
Combination of things I guess. Dutch courage, maybe not getting out much so doing things to excess, some only play with their own partners so don't worry about the consent side, I'm sure there will be some who get wrecked purely to block out the fact they're only there to please their partner.
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"Some will be drinking, some will be "othering"
Combination of things I guess. Dutch courage, maybe not getting out much so doing things to excess, some only play with their own partners so don't worry about the consent side, I'm sure there will be some who get wrecked purely to block out the fact they're only there to please their partner.
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Othering meaning bit of white or md? from what I've gathered it seems most want to stay relatively sober for consent reasons.
Man if someone's there just to please their partner and needs to get smashed to cope whilst their partner has heaps of fun thats dire for them. |
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