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Men, How big is too big?
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"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "I have a thing with height more than size….women over 5’8 are too tall for me! Don’t mind curvy or BBW….slim (size 8 or under) not for me either! | |||
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"Anything over about 5’8 = probably a no Everything else depends 2 people both a size 14 can look very different " Yeah you can’t go by sizes. Depends on height. If I’m ever a size 10 it probably means I’m dying! | |||
"I have size 9 feet. Waiting with baited breath. (And maybe some popcorn if Kylie is sharing "Hope you like Sweet and salty pop corns! 
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"I have size 9 feet. Waiting with baited breath. (And maybe some popcorn if Kylie is sharing
Hope you like Sweet and salty pop corns!
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"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "Looking at the pics I'd say Mrs P is very lovely indeed | |||
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"Anything over about 5’8 = probably a no Everything else depends 2 people both a size 14 can look very different Yeah you can’t go by sizes. Depends on height. If I’m ever a size 10 it probably means I’m dying!" This 
At 6ft my lowest is a size 16 before my hip bones protrude 
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"I feel this thread may kill my self esteem "Never ever let the words of anonymous internetters impact your self esteem either way. Incidentally I haven't tried Olaplex left as nobody will give me a mortgage to buy it. (You asked me to let you know). | |||
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"I feel this thread may kill my self esteem "I hope not, you’re one of the sexiest women on fab | |||
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"In certain positions my ribs show. Waiting for men to be in disgust
"Ummmm….not me….I’d like to see  | |||
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"No such thing as too big. A broad back, wide bum, thick thighs - all the more surface area to get those nerves on fire" | |||
"I feel this thread may kill my self esteem
Never ever let the words of anonymous internetters impact your self esteem either way.
Incidentally I haven't tried Olaplex left as nobody will give me a mortgage to buy it. (You asked me to let you know). "Don’t forget to look on the beauty section of ASOS, I think they have it a bit cheaper on there. Just a bit cheaper mind | |||
"In certain positions my ribs show. Waiting for men to be in disgust
Ummmm….not me….I’d like to see "Haha! U deffo sure?  | |||
"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "As an avid admirer of larger women I'm not certain how to answer this in a way that makes sense,there are so many variables of height Vs body sizes, I am what I imagine is an "average" sort of bloke, about 5'10 ish and while I find tall ladies extremely sexy my inner conscience tells me that taller than me doesn't quite sit right,and although that is utter crap that's how it feels, when out and about my wandering eye will spot various ladies probably around a size 12, average curves and looks wonderful,,,,, however, deep in my my heart I'm a lover of curves, bumps, wobbly bits, mum tums and find stretch mark so sexy, skin is the largest organ and the more of the better, I can't help but just rub, squeeze, mould and need it,it's the person inside the skin most of all, so for me personally the more curves the better, probably around my height, nice big bum to worship, big(or huge) soft boobs to suck and kiss and big warm thighs to keep my head warm while I'm busy between them lol I don't think there's a definitive answer really, men and women come in all shapes and sizes it's just whatever shape makes your heart skip when you see it. Xx | |||
"In certain positions my ribs show. Waiting for men to be in disgust
"You appear to be the size and shape of beautiful. M X | |||
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"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "For me its not about size/height etc.. its about the connection, if I click with someone then it dosnt matter if they are curvy/skinny or size 9 shoe. Also Mrs P looks amzing | |||
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"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape "Yes it's very cheering isn't it? | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape
Yes it's very cheering isn't it? "I fear some men might be shallow and will say anything to get into... | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape
Yes it's very cheering isn't it?
I fear some men might be shallow and will say anything to get into..."Do NOT even go there! Positivity! It's been a bit wild on the forum today, if I get into any more "discussions" I will be taking a extended "break".  | |||
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"Doubtful many people will be honest on threads like these. But the most important thing to remember is don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem." | |||
"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "Big enough to climb inside of and go potholing. So basically Katie Price. C | |||
i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus | |||
"Im at the biggest i've been and i'm far from confident, i'm not too bad when i'm dressed but not great when the layers come off i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus "I think we all go up and down and it does dent your confidence. I've been heavier and lighter over the years but I think I may have found a happy medium now. One thing that has always given me a boost is when I get dressed up, not just denims and a t-shirt. I have also stopped giving a shit about what others think of me. | |||
"Im at the biggest i've been and i'm far from confident, i'm not too bad when i'm dressed but not great when the layers come off i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus "I beg to differ, you look fantastic xx | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape "
Best not to say any size as it will offend someone who is not that size.  | |||
"Fun." ^ he likes it "Fun" size. | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape
Best not to say any size as it will offend someone who is not that size. "Shame that though. And no need really. I like to see people’s preference but most of the men won’t say or will just say any size for fear of getting slated I would imagine.  | |||
"Im at the biggest i've been and i'm far from confident, i'm not too bad when i'm dressed but not great when the layers come off i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus "Maybe attend some specialist nights. I suspect it's the lack of confidence that results in the lack of attention, vicious circle. Fake it till you make it. | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape
Best not to say any size as it will offend someone who is not that size. "I think the negative stuff offends but positive preference doesn't - if I see guys say they like slim women, there's nowt wrong with that? Or "athletic blondes to the front of the queue" . | |||
"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "Ideally muscly, CrossFit chicks are but realistically, it's uncommon | |||
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"So many men say they love BBW or curvy ladies but seriously how big is too big for you? Size wise? Size 16? 28? 12? Over 6ft? Size 9 shoe? Curvy? Round? Straight? Muscly? How do you like yours? (I keep seeing threads directed at women saying how big is too big )
Mrs P - a rather large lady "Good question, but couldn't openly give an honest answer 'not to offend anyone'
Best answer I could give is 'if anything happens, it would only be a social' | |||
"Im at the biggest i've been and i'm far from confident, i'm not too bad when i'm dressed but not great when the layers come off i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus "I know that some clubs do a certain night for us bigger girls. So maybe try one of thous at least then you won't feel so shy. I havnt been to a club yet and one of the things holding me back is my size | |||
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"As a BBW, I'm not remotely offended if I'm not to someone's taste. I have preferences too and I can't help them, they are just what I like. That being said, more than once, someone nothing like my 'ideal' has rocked my world so, never say never. As people have intimated above, sexy is sexy, whatever the package. " This. I'm not everyone's package either.. but have generally been attracted or found spark with less slim than me.. i think only ever with UK size 12 to 24? Each for their own reasons.. only one was taller. As for shoe size - I avoid naked feet. Best in a nice pair of heels | |||
"One thing I love about Fab men, is their openness when it comes to body size and shape
Yes it's very cheering isn't it? "Maybe I’m just too cyclical but it’s always really confused me. I get no attention from men in “real life”, gave up on trying to date and meet someone because I just get nowhere and always thought it must be my weight/size. Get quite a lot of offers on here and could never figure out why- whether men really find me attractive or will say anything to get laid, or just like fat women but only in secret and that’s why they’ll meet them here but not date them. Just makes me second guess people I guess  | |||
"Im at the biggest i've been and i'm far from confident, i'm not too bad when i'm dressed but not great when the layers come off i've been to two clubs now and I think its safe to say i'm too big for most as I don't get much attention. Mr P is fond of me though so thats a bonus
I know that some clubs do a certain night for us bigger girls. So maybe try one of thous at least then you won't feel so shy. I havnt been to a club yet and one of the things holding me back is my size "Go for it...if you got it flaunt it | |||
No, no, no. I prefer to think along the lines of my earlier positivity! | |||
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"I can understand the cynicism too. I thought most of the men on here were open-minded and accepting, but maybe it is just to get laid
No, no, no. I prefer to think along the lines of my earlier positivity! "I like your positivity but I'd go with your first statement. | |||
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