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Winking stand off…
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You’ve winked me, i wink back,
Then nothing……
Sometimes they’ll wink me again weeks/months later, so i wink back,
Then nothing.
Wtf?! Ive no qualms messaging first and have done previously but really who is supposed to make the next move?
Or do folk just like winking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just me who read it as wanking? ...  "
Never just you. Fab distorts all our views on reality.
I was on tinder a few months back and anytime I saw a girl with an interest in photography, my mind read pornography  |
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"I have had the odd wink and I message and nothing… I thought some accidental winking might be occurring "
That's really bad when someone winks, you take the trouble to message and they never even bother to reply if only to say sorry I winked by mistake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes wink back and leave it to them to message. Sometimes I don't because I see a wink as a little nod of appreciation of my profile and nothing more. Same as a fabbed pic. It's just someone likes that photo, not a request to get a message.  |
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I don’t send the first message no more after winking. I’ve seen the screenshots of DM’s that have been shared in third party off site group chats from blokes making the first contact with ladies. I don’t subscribe to that shit. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"It's probably the shock of them getting a wink back, it's unknown territory so they freeze like a rabbit in headlights "
We’ve had some super hot people with loads of meet veris ignore our return wink, so probably not that!
We just assume it was a half-hearted contact that they’ve no real interest in deepening, or a better option also winked back!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! We’ve had couples who have not only winked but fabbed photos as well.
We respond with a wink back or in some cases a message and then…..sweet FA.
Even more bizarre they will then look at our profile regularly
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"You’ve winked me, i wink back,
Then nothing……
Sometimes they’ll wink me again weeks/months later, so i wink back,
Then nothing.
Wtf?! Ive no qualms messaging first and have done previously but really who is supposed to make the next move?
Or do folk just like winking? "
We've had many like this. We put on the private notes when they've winked. They don't get a second wink, we're not playing wink tennis! |
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I've done this precisely once, purely because I couldn't think of a single damn thing to say to that specific person.
They didn't message me either, mind. Communication's a two-way street, after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully I don't have to suffer this issue
Haha snap! ...something we have in common Wonko
What do you mean? You don't get winks or people don't wink back?"
Both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’ve winked me, i wink back,
Then nothing……
Sometimes they’ll wink me again weeks/months later, so i wink back,
Then nothing.
Wtf?! Ive no qualms messaging first and have done previously but really who is supposed to make the next move?
Or do folk just like winking? "
You realise you will probably get 150 winks now don't you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’ve winked me, i wink back,
Then nothing……
Sometimes they’ll wink me again weeks/months later, so i wink back,
Then nothing.
Wtf?! Ive no qualms messaging first and have done previously but really who is supposed to make the next move?
Or do folk just like winking? "
This is the story of my life...Notice local hotstuff has winked me, wink back...Nada! Fab pic, still Nada, Fab all his pics and wait....wait....ugh!
Too shy to message  |
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