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over a year ago
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I have used them because I'm bad with details so if I'm chatting I might make a note of their real name and other details. I chat to lots of people and it's really hard to keep track! I also copy in the text of the message when I block occasionally. So I can remember how shit it was.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have used them because I'm bad with details so if I'm chatting I might make a note of their real name and other details. I chat to lots of people and it's really hard to keep track! I also copy in the text of the message when I block occasionally. So I can remember how shit it was. "
I like to put a summary.. "Rude", "Rude as fuck", "text speak", "entitled", "advocating dangerous acts"
I also use it when reporting a profile for a fake picture (usually profile picture) so I can keep an eye to see if admin have dealt with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have used them because I'm bad with details so if I'm chatting I might make a note of their real name and other details. I chat to lots of people and it's really hard to keep track! I also copy in the text of the message when I block occasionally. So I can remember how shit it was.
I like to put a summary.. "Rude", "Rude as fuck", "text speak", "entitled", "advocating dangerous acts"
I also use it when reporting a profile for a fake picture (usually profile picture) so I can keep an eye to see if admin have dealt with it "
Oh that's a good idea re:reports. 
What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. "
How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? |
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"Do you use them and how?
I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why.  "
Hi op. I very rarely block people - only those who are downright abusive/offensive - or those who do bareback gangbangs etc (purely for my own sexual safety). I personally use the notes to remind myself not to re-message people who clearly aren’t interested.
Saying that - I’m sometimes wrong. I had a great meet on Friday with a chap I assumed wasn’t interested. If I’d blocked him as many would I’d be a great shag down! 
I SHOULD use it to put peoples’ real names on etc as I have a shit memory for names - but sadly I’m not that organised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No
I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point"
I wouldn't block someone for their opinion. I'd block, and have blocked if people have been down right rude directly to me though. I can take a joke, but I'm not standing for plain rudeness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in.
How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? "
I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in.
How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note?
I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list "
If you've blocked someone and you're on their "can't view profile" page then click the 3 dots and notes. Otherwise Account - Blocklist |
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We use them occasionally because we aren't always together when a message arrives so we leave notes for each other about our thoughts on the profile etc. Also sometimes use them to jog our memory about names etc
Also if I add someone to our hotlist I will add a note explaining why. |
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Yes, I use them frequently but succinctly, and it's a great 'aide-memoire' about someone, for whatever reason.
My Block List isn't that extensive to be honest but I'll make a note to accompany that block 'manoeuvre'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in.
How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note?
I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list
If you've blocked someone and you're on their "can't view profile" page then click the 3 dots and notes. Otherwise Account - Blocklist"
oh god I didn't notice there was a link from Account. I'm such a div. thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Max and I use them. We put comments about people as we put them on our hotlist. Usually to either say why we'd be interested in meeting or why we will now avoid.
I'm totally anal in that anyone on our hotlist must have a private note....  |
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"No
I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point"
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There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions.
There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you use them and how?
I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. "
Didn't you read the note you made on mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point
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There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions.
There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis."
You know how angry I am on your behalf, Nero  I hope the note was blistering! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point
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There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions.
There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis."
Oh wow. 
This is why I like the forums sometimes. You can definitely eliminate any potential with some of the hate and ignorance that appears in them. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I did use them briefly for names after forgetting the real names of people and feeling mortified. Now, I tend not to. I have quite a good memory for what people post and I don't get any abuse or negativity for the most part - the occasional time it does happen (a couple of times in ten years) I'm able to remember it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use them all the time. If I message someone and they read and never reply Iput that in the notes so I know they aren't interested and I don't bother them again.
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Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm  |
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"I use them all the time. If I message someone and they read and never reply Iput that in the notes so I know they aren't interested and I don't bother them again.
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I do the same, and for people that seem to have multiple accounts or were here before under different names etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm "
What's on mine? |
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm
What's on mine? "
You don't need notes! I never know whether to give you a comfort hug or a bitch slap tho. I'll work it out one day. |
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"I use them all the time. If I message someone and they read and never reply Iput that in the notes so I know they aren't interested and I don't bother them again.
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Why the hell didn't I think of this! Great shout |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm
What's on mine?
You don't need notes! I never know whether to give you a comfort hug or a bitch slap tho. I'll work it out one day."
A bitch slap then a block is the best option |
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm
What's on mine?
You don't need notes! I never know whether to give you a comfort hug or a bitch slap tho. I'll work it out one day.
A bitch slap then a block is the best option "
Pretty similar to mine. |
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
Ya know, the norm "
Yes pretty much this x |
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Yep.. we use them in case we’ve been looking for people away from each other. Stops us both contacting them.
Also if they’ve done something particularly offensive or annoying. Or if we’ve chatted in the past and decided we’re not a match.
We have notes on all of you..  |
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"Yeah, I put things like
"Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging.
Also stuff like "cunt"
"Massive cunt"
"Proper cunt"
"Grade A cunt"
“Prickly cunt “
Ya know, the norm "
FIFY Peach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep.. we use them in case we’ve been looking for people away from each other. Stops us both contacting them.
Also if they’ve done something particularly offensive or annoying. Or if we’ve chatted in the past and decided we’re not a match.
We have notes on all of you.. "
Can you message a copy of mine please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time
There’s a quite a few profiles filed under the letter C
Cute, calm, charming, clean, coherent, crazy
What am I though Rex? 'Chore'? "
Crocs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't use them but they are a useful tool. I've never used them when I block someone because "being a dick" covers most things so it would get repetitive.
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And that's wrong because?...all of us pedants are very happy with our filed notes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date."
I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date.
I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. "
I need to know the reason now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date.
I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes.
I need to know the reason now "
Lol. So this guy messaged months ago now when I first joined. I said no very politely and that he wasn't my type. Fast forward 3 months, there was a thread on here about "types". I made a comment that I didn't really have one. He messaged that day to have a go at me about daring to say he wasn't my type! I was absolutely flabbergasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time )
But what a stunning new photo absolutely love it.
I don’t know how to do the heart emoji or I’d have put it here . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time )
But what a stunning new photo absolutely love it.
I don’t know how to do the heart emoji or I’d have put it here . "
Thank you I took it last week and I really didn't like it, so edited it a little with filters and voilà.
( love )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date.
I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes.
I need to know the reason now
Lol. So this guy messaged months ago now when I first joined. I said no very politely and that he wasn't my type. Fast forward 3 months, there was a thread on here about "types". I made a comment that I didn't really have one. He messaged that day to have a go at me about daring to say he wasn't my type! I was absolutely flabbergasted. "
I bet he’d been waiting for that moment for the whole 3 months. I always wonder if people feel better about themselves after having a little petulant temper tantrum with a complete stranger online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date.
I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes.
I need to know the reason now
Lol. So this guy messaged months ago now when I first joined. I said no very politely and that he wasn't my type. Fast forward 3 months, there was a thread on here about "types". I made a comment that I didn't really have one. He messaged that day to have a go at me about daring to say he wasn't my type! I was absolutely flabbergasted.
I bet he’d been waiting for that moment for the whole 3 months. I always wonder if people feel better about themselves after having a little petulant temper tantrum with a complete stranger online."
He was probably muttering "bitch" under his breath the entire time! Bonkers to waste your energy on crap like that. |
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We make notes about people…usually peoples names or something they’ve told us. Or a reason they are blocked.
But we also have some that are comical…just for us
Actually we had one couple who said ‘we’ll get back to you after we’ve decided’, when we messaged about maybe chatting…that went as a note
Anyone wanting to know if they did get back to us, they didn’t, but have since approached us and we’ve refrained from using the same words back to them 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time )
But what a stunning new photo absolutely love it.
I don’t know how to do the heart emoji or I’d have put it here .
Thank you I took it last week and I really didn't like it, so edited it a little with filters and voilà.
( love ) "
It is beautiful!
I love the subtle contrast, it really highlights your figure. Your figure is amazing btw |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time )
But what a stunning new photo absolutely love it.
I don’t know how to do the heart emoji or I’d have put it here .
Thank you I took it last week and I really didn't like it, so edited it a little with filters and voilà.
( love )
It is beautiful!
I love the subtle contrast, it really highlights your figure. Your figure is amazing btw "
I'm not going to feel so bad eating cake for dinner now |
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date."
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This resonates with me: occasionally I go through an altruistic "forgive and forget / amnesty" process. But then my notes remind me how much of a wankstain that person was (to me). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you use them and how?
I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. "
What does mine say? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you use them and how?
I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why.
What does mine say?"
Cute, would fuck if he recreated the glasses on the stairs pose for me in person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say? 
Appletree1000 - fucking hot.
There you go
That’s not what my private note says about you "
I know, yours says "hotter than my wife" but I know you don't want to tell everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say?
Appletree1000 - fucking hot.
There you go
That’s not what my private note says about you
I know, yours says "hotter than my wife" but I know you don't want to tell everyone "
Nope. Not even close… the note that is, you are canny hot like |
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