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By *igGfun OP Man
over a year ago
Oxford |
So my main question is on this who is into this and can it actually be good, I have a very busy work schedule and think this would work well for me inbetween meets as to be honest porn is pretty boring now and i feel i need some sort of real connection even if just talking opinions please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment."
It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.
For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.
With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there. |
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By *igGfun OP Man
over a year ago
Oxford |
"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.
It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.
For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.
With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there. "
See this is what I'm thinking I have a bery vivid imagination and as meeting can be difficult for me at times i think it would be good, porn bores me now to be honest |
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"I do like doing this. Have Kik or Snapchat and WhatsApp
feel free to ask
I'm only into women but thank you"
I didn't put it on for you. Put it on for anyone who is interested. That's the idea of these Forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.
It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.
For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.
With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there. "
I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.
Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.
At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.
It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.
For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.
With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there.
I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.
Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.
At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap. "
That's true. But yes there is definitely an overlap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.
Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.
It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.
For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.
With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there.
I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.
Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.
At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap.
That's true. But yes there is definitely an overlap"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own but not my thing. The biggest barrier to it for me is being dyslexic, not exactly hot when you can’t type words with speed or accuracy to make it exciting. I draw the line at being flirtatious, I’d rather play than just think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had some fantastic sexting sessions and tbh it's what made lockdown 1 bearable. 
People need to be able to write well and tell a story. I've found all too often that I'm just doing it for the guy. It's got to be a back and forth between two people. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I've had some fantastic sexting sessions and tbh it's what made lockdown 1 bearable.
People need to be able to write well and tell a story. I've found all too often that I'm just doing it for the guy. It's got to be a back and forth between two people. "
I tend to find it the opposite way round.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it with the right person! It's very rare I do it though as I do need that connection to someone if I want enjoyment from it.
I enjoy sending videos too, again depends on the connection. But it's amazing seeing what you're doing to each other when all you want to do is fuck. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I love it with the right person! It's very rare I do it though as I do need that connection to someone if I want enjoyment from it.
I enjoy sending videos too, again depends on the connection. But it's amazing seeing what you're doing to each other when all you want to do is fuck. "
Phew. It's getting warm in here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cybersex know. Sexting only once I have met the person we have connected in that way. I don’t last year like doing it before meeting first time. "
Cybersex - no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all about the connection with the person and also in context with how the conversation is developing it can really add to the excitement and anticipation of things to come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many people want to talk about it and not do it...
Not a fan, the 'fancy a chat' thing properly makes my shit itch"
I love it but only with people I'm fucking.
Hate when strangers want sext wank chat.
Just by posting on this thread the women will likely get some one handed wonder sending "chat?" messages.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If I'm interested in the person, I fancy them then yes, it can be fun and hot. If I'm not really sure or not interested, I find it awkward and a bit of a turn off. Tend to make some kind of excuse to leave it there.
That being said, there are women who enjoy sexy chat with men they don't really know, a few of my male friends have had some very raunchy messages. So who knows OP, you might find your perfect erotica penpal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many people want to talk about it and not do it...
Not a fan, the 'fancy a chat' thing properly makes my shit itch
I love it but only with people I'm fucking.
Hate when strangers want sext wank chat.
Just by posting on this thread the women will likely get some one handed wonder sending "chat?" messages. "
Yes I did when I first posted but tbh it's happening on lots of threads! I'd only want to sext with someone I'm seeing. Not randoms in my inbox! |
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