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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Is it just me but when I have told people I chat to, including friends, that I do not meet midweek when I am working, they still ask if they can. More than once!
Is 'no' not enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me but when I have told people I chat to, including friends, that I do not meet midweek when I am working, they still ask if they can. More than once!
Is 'no' not enough?"
Had similar things to this myself...usually time of the month. Had a few say I could just give them a BJ...usually stops me contacting them when I can play though because these guys have a habit of calling me selfish for saying no! Why would I want to get myself all worked up when I can't play?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still have someone mailing me that I said 'no' to over 2 years ago!! He mails every few months or so.
It's not just you that gets it... at least you can block them on here. Wish there was a 'block' button in real life.  |
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"Is it just me but when I have told people I chat to, including friends, that I do not meet midweek when I am working, they still ask if they can. More than once!
Is 'no' not enough?
Had similar things to this myself...usually time of the month. Had a few say I could just give them a BJ...usually stops me contacting them when I can play though because these guys have a habit of calling me selfish for saying no! Why would I want to get myself all worked up when I can't play?!"
The only time I am not horny is during my period. The only way a cock would be going in my mouth is if it was covered in chocolate - but I'd be likely to bite it!! 
I have been travelling a lot for work recently and when I tell people I'm away (as my profile warns) I get told to shut my profile down since I'm wasting peoples time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In order to get some practice, I used to message people asking them
'What was the name of the first James Bond move - Dr?'
I improved my response rate by offering a 'really cool prize' for correctly answering (it was actually just a bag of Jelly Tots). |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I started using the site two years ago when I was in a couple. My then partner told me to just ignore the messages that didn't interest me and delete them. I replied to all messages as I thought it rude to ignore. Two years of saying no, to the same people sometimes can be tiring.
Sending any sort of reply seems to encourage quite a large number to see that as an 'in'. Over the last two months I have been testing just deleting. I'm getting to be a dab hand at it now. As with most things, the more you do it the easier it gets. 
Yes, I know about the filters and blocking but I leave my filters off for the word game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No its not buy this sites standards get with the programme woman you must drop everything to go meet now hey work ... Throw a sicky ..family
...tell em to sod off who needs friends come on got meet a fat sweaty freak that prob never seen a pair of tits never mind touched them ...... You signed up to all this when u joined fab ........... Or do what we do tell em to go get fucked and block em for being simple lol x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Some of them are people I have seen before. They are actually nice guys. Maybe I am not being assertive enough?"
I hate having to do that. I only do repeat meets if we have connected in a deeper way than just a shag, and its very difficult to say 'sorry mate. You were a good shag but thats about it'. Having said that, it shouldn't be expected that just because we've had sex once, it will happen again. There are plenty of men who will gracefully accept it, but there are a few who won't. Thus comes in handy the block button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we have had a few for example politeley replying sorry not playing due to time of the month we got a message saying well i can pleasure you in other ways (how exactly).
Also quite a few that we have told we have at most 2 daytimes free a month constantly messaging asking for a daytime meet.
Also had a single man message today asking for a meet before 1pm as thats when his wife finished work, we said we dont do cheating men, he said he wasnt cheating she played but he was alone til then, so we offered to go round there house when she had finished work and swap partners and he deleted his profile lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me but when I have told people I chat to, including friends, that I do not meet midweek when I am working, they still ask if they can. More than once!
Is 'no' not enough?"
I get the same thing even though it clearly says that I don't meet during the day, and why on my profile!
Can't, won't don't want to leave my comfort zone, but still I keep getting asked!  |
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"Is it just me but when I have told people I chat to, including friends, that I do not meet midweek when I am working, they still ask if they can. More than once!
Is 'no' not enough?"
the Block button is yr friend |
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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
best one for us was a guy we said no to and he got stroppy saying did we know we on a swingers site dont think he liked my reply when i said we go to the local curry house but i have salad dont think he got it  |
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