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Always been a daddy's girl. It's a bit of a family joke that my first words were 'daddy do it!'.
I love my mum and see her quite often but we clash sometimes. Not enough to fall out but long stays with her drive me insane! |
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mother passed away in 2006
our relationship was best described as strained
father and I parted company a long long time ago, he waas a difficult person to be around, no idea where he went, life is better without him.
Some families are not how all families work.
My GrandMothers were closer and for that, I give thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Miss my dad terribly and very close to my mum. I honestly look back with nothing but happiness, I really feel for those who have not been as lucky as me growing up"
It’s everything, I have to struggle to the extreme so much because of it but I don’t mention that usually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have message filters that I won’t change but separate to that if anyone wants to talk about anything and feel like they have nobody I can always chat, non-sexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get on with them both really well but I can only manage them in small doses now that I have my own family, the way I do things etc.
Mum used to help me alot though, especially after childbirth or illness. I could barely lift my arms above my chest after childbirth so she would come and shower me so Mr could sit with the baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t spoken to my mum, dad or sister for 4 years now.
I miss them and I’m sad but my life is happier without them in it. "
I feel you on this, I don’t speak to my mum or sister because they’re toxic. I’m happier without them in my life. I speak to my dad but haven’t seen him in years! I mean he claimed driving 2 hours to see me on my 40th birthday was too far (he drives and is in good health). |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
My mum, I don’t speak to my dad and haven’t done for almost 30yrs, he walked out on my mum when I was 7 and my sister was 3
My mother is the epitome of a strong, resilient and just bloody marvellous woman, we have our differences but her unconditional love remains the same, I adore her xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got on well with my dad and I loved him but I'd probably say I was closer with my mum even though we had a very difficult relationship and she could be toxic at times. |
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"I haven’t spoken to my mum, dad or sister for 4 years now.
I miss them and I’m sad but my life is happier without them in it.
I feel you on this, I don’t speak to my mum or sister because they’re toxic. I’m happier without them in my life. I speak to my dad but haven’t seen him in years! I mean he claimed driving 2 hours to see me on my 40th birthday was too far (he drives and is in good health). "
This sounds like my mum, she claims a 1.5 hour drive down one road is too far, and how would I feel if she was to have an accident when she drove to me? I mean, it doesn’t matter if her daughter and grandchildren have an accident  However, she will catch a flight several times a year to see my brother. I’ve lived in my current house for 2.5 years, she still hasn’t visited |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
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Fractured, my dad is ok these days but don't don't speak to my mum anymore, she was abusive whenever my dad was away in the army. Luckily they got divorced when I was 10 so spent some quality time with my dad through my teen years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither, my mum is an interfering old cow who has gaslighted me and hates my hubby for making me stronger and my dad is a pussy who firmly keeps his balls in her purse. |
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Fem answer = I'm very happily estranged from them. I packed and left when I was 18. They only made 1 phone call to get me back. If I don't ever talk, hear or see them again I'll be very happy thank you. |
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I was very close to my dad. He died when I was 17, after a long illness.
My mum was a “challenging” individual to have a relationship with. Particularly as I was the one upon whom it fell to coordinate care, affairs etc. as her health failed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was close to both but in different ways and for different reasons. I didn't grow up living with my Mum so we never had a conventional Mum/Daughter relationship. But she was great and I loved her
My Dad was the parent, I loved him and there wasn't much he didn't know so would always seek his comfort and advice for sure |
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By *annGentMan
over a year ago
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Left home after school, and the best decision I ever made.
I tolerated my parents when I had to see them, but never thought about them otherwise, less so now they're dead.
Seen my brother twice in over 30 years, we're chalk and cheese.
I see myself as the white sheep of our family !
If you have a great relationship with your parents and family ... great, enjoy it and enjoy them. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My mum definitely. We had a challenging relationship during my teenage years (mainly due to me not being the beautiful daughter she'd hoped for and far more interested in books and girls then boys) but now it's changed and we get on really well - she even complimented me on some work I did recently and that meant a lot.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get on with both equally. But their opinions mean literally fuck all to me. Once you hit 18 it shouldn't matter what they think. Never understood people being consumed by the need to please their parents.  |
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