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"What is bred from? Doesn't that imply its already happened? Sorry, I'll go away " It’s getting women pregnant. I think. Don’t blame you for being confused, seeing as it’s a term we normally associate with animals rather than women | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility..." For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side. | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Ewww no | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side." A lifetime of paying child support | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side. A lifetime of paying child support " But if a child is conceived as part of a kink, then I don’t know how that pans out in terms of responsible parenting! Maybe the OP will actually return and give us his opinion, rather than private messaging about it ... | |||
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"Just out of interest, what's the difference between "breeding" and regular bareback? Obviously there's the creampie thing but what's to stop a woman being on birth control and just role playing it? People can't seriously get off on potentially bringing a child in to the world that way right? LvM" I know, that’s what I can’t figure out! | |||
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"Just out of interest, what's the difference between "breeding" and regular bareback? Obviously there's the creampie thing but what's to stop a woman being on birth control and just role playing it? People can't seriously get off on potentially bringing a child in to the world that way right? LvM" I’d argue someone who is willing to conceive as part of a kink probably isn’t ready for parenthood. | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. " But that risk can create a child! | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Because paying 18 years of child support is such a huge turn on!!! Am I right!!!! | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. " What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"?" Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage. | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise " ^ She likes cake. 1øø%. | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise ^ She likes cake. 1øø%." I do, and I cannot lie | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise ^ She likes cake. 1øø%." Why do your zeros look weird | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise ^ She likes cake. 1øø%. Why do your zeros look weird " • Because I'm NerØ. | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise ^ She likes cake. 1øø%. Why do your zeros look weird • Because I'm NerØ. " Ah ha! Makes sense | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage." Just as cold as that. Lovely. Sounds like a cracking good time. Is it traditional for the sperm donor to pay for the morning after pill? To hold her hand during the abortion or is that a bit much? | |||
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"My opinion is ... fuck, I’ll keep my cakehole shut. I’ll only be accused of kink-shaming otherwise ^ She likes cake. 1øø%. Why do your zeros look weird • Because I'm NerØ. " prove you are a nerd. Live long and prosper | |||
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"It's a fantasy some cuck hubby's like it, because it's fully giving control to the bull. But it's only role play. " It’s actually a thing to. I get board and read through a lot of different kinks and fetish stuff on the other site, that’s not allowed to be mentioned. But couple’s also do look for breeders if the male half is infertile. The couple do then keep the baby and raise as their own. There are also breeders who just like to keep their wives pregnant and there are those who have multiple partner that they will breed with. Some are obviously without thought, but some are with plans of keeping the possible baby. Not all are as reckless as it seems. It’s very varied as with most kinks. | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage." And that right there folks, sums up the attitude of some men to women. | |||
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"I would like to cut out all the sex bit and just have some random bloke pay me child support thanks ..... I'm time strapped." | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage. And that right there folks, sums up the attitude of some men to women. " Right. Accuse me of kink shaming all you want but I think this 'kink' is absolutely terrible. I'm guessing the man just leaves with no financial or physical help. | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life" How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably? | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Absolutely not. | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably?" Isn’t that true for most kinks? There’s a level of role play where it’s not real, but it’s real enough? DDlg is an accepted kink. It’s not actually a daddy coercing a little girl into having sex is it? Breeding kinks usually involve contraception and the role play is in the idea of getting or becoming pregnant People are acting as if a guy has a breeding kink means he’s gonna purposely not use contraception on an non consenting female, force her to keep the baby then run away. That’s not a kink. It’s a crime Much like in impact play. If you just brutally beat a non consenting person it’s not longer a kink. It’s a crime. Don’t confuse kink/role play/fantasy with crime | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably? Isn’t that true for most kinks? There’s a level of role play where it’s not real, but it’s real enough? DDlg is an accepted kink. It’s not actually a daddy coercing a little girl into having sex is it? Breeding kinks usually involve contraception and the role play is in the idea of getting or becoming pregnant People are acting as if a guy has a breeding kink means he’s gonna purposely not use contraception on an non consenting female, force her to keep the baby then run away. That’s not a kink. It’s a crime Much like in impact play. If you just brutally beat a non consenting person it’s not longer a kink. It’s a crime. Don’t confuse kink/role play/fantasy with crime" I agree with you (should I be concerned ) | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Hey if your into paying maintenance for the next 18 years go ahead | |||
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"This fantasy is nuts. Kink is about consenting adults, and I don't think getting a women pregnant is between consenting adults. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, and this kink boils my blood tbh. It aggravates me greatly. But then I have unexplained infertility so it annoys me more than most I think. " That's assuming it's a kink only men have. It isn't. Mr | |||
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"This fantasy is nuts. Kink is about consenting adults, and I don't think getting a women pregnant is between consenting adults. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, and this kink boils my blood tbh. It aggravates me greatly. But then I have unexplained infertility so it annoys me more than most I think. That's assuming it's a kink only men have. It isn't. Mr" Can confirm I got asked to breed | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Are you willing to take responsibility for the kid then? | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably? Isn’t that true for most kinks? There’s a level of role play where it’s not real, but it’s real enough? DDlg is an accepted kink. It’s not actually a daddy coercing a little girl into having sex is it? Breeding kinks usually involve contraception and the role play is in the idea of getting or becoming pregnant People are acting as if a guy has a breeding kink means he’s gonna purposely not use contraception on an non consenting female, force her to keep the baby then run away. That’s not a kink. It’s a crime Much like in impact play. If you just brutally beat a non consenting person it’s not longer a kink. It’s a crime. Don’t confuse kink/role play/fantasy with crime I agree with you (should I be concerned )" You shouldn’t be. I try to be quite sex positive, even with kinks I don’t like or fully understand Nothing to be concern about by not being an ignorant kink shamer | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " Your 22. Are you going to look after the potential baby then | |||
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"It's role play. Some people like it. I was seeing a guy who had had the snip and loved talking about breeding me. Do we have to over analyse everything to death? " How did it make you feel being the receptacle? | |||
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"It's role play. Some people like it. I was seeing a guy who had had the snip and loved talking about breeding me. Do we have to over analyse everything to death? " But there are breeders who actually do impregnate women plus the OP said it was risky which it wouldn’t be if it included contraception. | |||
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"It's role play. Some people like it. I was seeing a guy who had had the snip and loved talking about breeding me. Do we have to over analyse everything to death? But there are breeders who actually do impregnate women plus the OP said it was risky which it wouldn’t be if it included contraception. " Are we treating women as stupid and unable to make choices? It has to be consensual, isn't that the assumption we make about all sexual activity? | |||
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"It's role play. Some people like it. I was seeing a guy who had had the snip and loved talking about breeding me. Do we have to over analyse everything to death? How did it make you feel being the receptacle? " It's not my kink. I just grunted or nodded, I can't remember but it made no impact on me. | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably? Isn’t that true for most kinks? There’s a level of role play where it’s not real, but it’s real enough? DDlg is an accepted kink. It’s not actually a daddy coercing a little girl into having sex is it? Breeding kinks usually involve contraception and the role play is in the idea of getting or becoming pregnant People are acting as if a guy has a breeding kink means he’s gonna purposely not use contraception on an non consenting female, force her to keep the baby then run away. That’s not a kink. It’s a crime Much like in impact play. If you just brutally beat a non consenting person it’s not longer a kink. It’s a crime. Don’t confuse kink/role play/fantasy with crime I agree with you (should I be concerned ) You shouldn’t be. I try to be quite sex positive, even with kinks I don’t like or fully understand Nothing to be concern about by not being an ignorant kink shamer " I was joking, but I do agree with what you said. | |||
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"Dunno how in this day and age fully grown adults cant differentiate between role play/fantasy/kink and real life How do you role play "breeding"? My understanding is that the whole premise is based on the excitement of getting someone pregnant. If you use a condom or other contraceptive, then the "thrill" simply isn't there, presumably? Isn’t that true for most kinks? There’s a level of role play where it’s not real, but it’s real enough? DDlg is an accepted kink. It’s not actually a daddy coercing a little girl into having sex is it? Breeding kinks usually involve contraception and the role play is in the idea of getting or becoming pregnant People are acting as if a guy has a breeding kink means he’s gonna purposely not use contraception on an non consenting female, force her to keep the baby then run away. That’s not a kink. It’s a crime Much like in impact play. If you just brutally beat a non consenting person it’s not longer a kink. It’s a crime. Don’t confuse kink/role play/fantasy with crime I agree with you (should I be concerned )" I agree with him too. | |||
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"We all have our thing, and there will always be someone that doesn’t agree with us. Maybe people could spend more time looking inwards rather than outwards, judging and shaming " Hippy, the forums would be ! | |||
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"We all have our thing, and there will always be someone that doesn’t agree with us. Maybe people could spend more time looking inwards rather than outwards, judging and shaming Hippy, the forums would be ! " | |||
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"I can't breed anyways had my nads chopped Not that I want to breed anyhow" You have no nads? | |||
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"I can't breed anyways had my nads chopped Not that I want to breed anyhow You have no nads? " He read breeding and got spayed. | |||
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"Some people have taken this way toooo far yes I meant the term bareback but is also known as breeding. I have no intention to actually make a baby ( to make that clear ). My intention is fully bareback, so long as each person is clean and checked. Calmmmmm " Fair enough | |||
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"Some people have taken this way toooo far yes I meant the term bareback but is also known as breeding. I have no intention to actually make a baby ( to make that clear ). My intention is fully bareback, so long as each person is clean and checked. Calmmmmm " "It's risky but that's what I want" I'm struggling to reconcile this statement in your OP with this follow-up post | |||
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"Bareback and breeding two different things! One I enjoy the other will end up with more screwed up kids, empty bank accounts and isn't a kink at all it's a commitment." Depends, and the water is quite muddy with regards to the actual meaning. Breeding can potentially be bareback but with role play. If there is no intent for impregnation, other than just the thrill of the idea and "acting" it out. There can be controlled risks that add to it - views will vary on those methods of course. However if the intent is to impregnate and a child be born as part of it for no reasons other than somebody gets off on the idea of it (man or woman) with very little attachment to the child being bborn or the aftermath then we have grounds for justified kink shaming in terms of how selfish, unethical and immoral. We all know that somewhere out there that there will be at least a small number of PEOPLE that this exact thing would appeal to. | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. " I'd put money on them actually being men | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men " Absolutely | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men " Both definitely women but I see your point. Far two many men on this site have women profiles. | |||
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"Bareback and breeding two different things! One I enjoy the other will end up with more screwed up kids, empty bank accounts and isn't a kink at all it's a commitment. Depends, and the water is quite muddy with regards to the actual meaning. Breeding can potentially be bareback but with role play. If there is no intent for impregnation, other than just the thrill of the idea and "acting" it out. There can be controlled risks that add to it - views will vary on those methods of course. However if the intent is to impregnate and a child be born as part of it for no reasons other than somebody gets off on the idea of it (man or woman) with very little attachment to the child being bborn or the aftermath then we have grounds for justified kink shaming in terms of how selfish, unethical and immoral. We all know that somewhere out there that there will be at least a small number of PEOPLE that this exact thing would appeal to." Yup I see it a lot and have been approached about being impregnated by random strangers many times on the site that shall not be named! | |||
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"I can't breed anyways had my nads chopped Not that I want to breed anyhow You have no nads? " Yup I'm nadless lol wife chewed em off years ago | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage. And that right there folks, sums up the attitude of some men to women. Right. Accuse me of kink shaming all you want but I think this 'kink' is absolutely terrible. I'm guessing the man just leaves with no financial or physical help. " Not you! I was commenting on the abortion comment. | |||
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"We all have our thing, and there will always be someone that doesn’t agree with us. Maybe people could spend more time looking inwards rather than outwards, judging and shaming " I don't have an issue with consenting adults doing whatever they wish. My issue was with the attitude "just abort or use morning after pill" in a cold and completely thoughtless manner. | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage. And that right there folks, sums up the attitude of some men to women. Right. Accuse me of kink shaming all you want but I think this 'kink' is absolutely terrible. I'm guessing the man just leaves with no financial or physical help. Not you! I was commenting on the abortion comment." Same | |||
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"Whats to say a man has had the snippity snip, and he uses these ladies to get what he wants but doesn't say , ? Is that an occupational hazzard .." Yes what about sti’s | |||
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"We all have our thing, and there will always be someone that doesn’t agree with us. Maybe people could spend more time looking inwards rather than outwards, judging and shaming I don't have an issue with consenting adults doing whatever they wish. My issue was with the attitude "just abort or use morning after pill" in a cold and completely thoughtless manner. " Oh I absolutely agree. | |||
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"Just out of interest, what's the difference between "breeding" and regular bareback? Obviously there's the creampie thing but what's to stop a woman being on birth control and just role playing it? People can't seriously get off on potentially bringing a child in to the world that way right? LvM I know, that’s what I can’t figure out!" Me neither, plus if it's a kink, they won't just want a one off. Hardly a good basis for bringing a child into this world. The really scary thing is thinking that the fab sperm bank is the best option! | |||
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"I always thought it was the risk. The thrill of cumming into a fertile pussy but not actually going through with the baby. What is meant by "not going through with the baby"? Morning after pill or abortion if it gets to that stage. And that right there folks, sums up the attitude of some men to women. Right. Accuse me of kink shaming all you want but I think this 'kink' is absolutely terrible. I'm guessing the man just leaves with no financial or physical help. Not you! I was commenting on the abortion comment." Oh I know I didn't mean that part at you. I meant in people in general can think that about me xx | |||
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"Whats to say a man has had the snippity snip, and he uses these ladies to get what he wants but doesn't say , ? Is that an occupational hazzard .. Yes what about sti’s" Some people don't give a damn , that's the reason i steer well clear lol I wear everything , all the correct ppe | |||
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"As a man, would it not scare the bejeezus out of you if there was the possibility of a baby? Or multiple babies if you do it often. And also the chances of STIs, if people are having unprotected sex." Certainly. I have had women say they would like their children to have my genes, but I took that more as a compliment than a proposal. I can't get my head around the idea of deliberately fathering children that I'm not prepared to support/take responsibility for. | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men " Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr | |||
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"Just out of interest, what's the difference between "breeding" and regular bareback? Obviously there's the creampie thing but what's to stop a woman being on birth control and just role playing it? People can't seriously get off on potentially bringing a child in to the world that way right? LvM" Apparently some do | |||
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"I've had women ask me to help them get pregnant and I've also got a friend who wants me to donate for her to have a baby through IVF, I'm not going to lie I make handsome babies, but I've also gone through the trauma of losing all 3 of my babies (most recent was my 6 year old son in Jan 2020). I couldn't allow a woman to get pregnant knowing there is the possibility of the heartache of losing another child and I also couldn't live with the idea that there is a child of mine out there that doesn't know where or who its father is. I don't want anymore children myself, I don't want to take the chance of losing another child and I wouldn't want to chance another custody battle that would mean I only get 2 days a week with them." I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr" In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites" Thats such a sexist remark.. | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr" You say bigotry, I say a safe bet | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr" Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr You say bigotry, I say a safe bet " I'll remember to use that quote next time I pontificate about the realities of women not being able to drive, not having the aptitude to be CEO's or work in STEM fields or is stereotyping only OK when it's aimed at a group you don't give a shit about? Mr | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr" Who's the author Mr? Sounds like something I would read. Ta F. | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr You say bigotry, I say a safe bet I'll remember to use that quote next time I pontificate about the realities of women not being able to drive, not having the aptitude to be CEO's or work in STEM fields or is stereotyping only OK when it's aimed at a group you don't give a shit about? Mr" Misandry is currently acceptable in most of society Fight it all you want, you’ll change nothing. Gotta wait for the pendulum to swing the other direction first | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr Who's the author Mr? Sounds like something I would read. Ta F. " Nancy Friday. Think that's the book from a quick Google though it's been ages. Someone lent it to my ex wife and we read it, it was simply a collection of women's fantasies. Some were quite arousing, some just outright weird (to me at least). From the 70's I think which proves all this talk that porn is warping people's minds is just not true. Virtually every genre of porn that gets slated on these forums gets a chapter in that book. Mr | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr Who's the author Mr? Sounds like something I would read. Ta F. Nancy Friday. Think that's the book from a quick Google though it's been ages. Someone lent it to my ex wife and we read it, it was simply a collection of women's fantasies. Some were quite arousing, some just outright weird (to me at least). From the 70's I think which proves all this talk that porn is warping people's minds is just not true. Virtually every genre of porn that gets slated on these forums gets a chapter in that book. Mr" I read that book as a teenager. It was hidden under my parents' bed. I still remember bits from it now. Wow. | |||
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"I’ve had two young local girls asking me to ‘breed’ them! I’ve made it clear I don’t fuck without on condom and I certainly don’t want a one off fuck chasing me for child support. I have never heard of this in my lifetime. I'd put money on them actually being men Because only men can behave in selfish ways? No young girl ever in the history of humanity has ever thought "I'm desperate for a baby, I don't care who b the father is, I just want a baby" The outright misandry on this site really pisses me off sometimes. Mr In a fab context I'd lay money on most of the bizarre and extreme fantasies are from the minds of men. That's not misandry. It's the reality of Internet sex sites That's your reality. Doesn't make it actual reality. No one mentioned Fab, he simply said "two young local girls have asked" Your immediate assumption was that he is too stupid to realise he has been catfished not once but twice and only a man would ask such a question. I can understand having suspicions, maybe even asking the question. Being absolutely certain to the point of offering to put money on it with no access to any corroborating evidence is outright bigotry. Mr Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr Who's the author Mr? Sounds like something I would read. Ta F. Nancy Friday. Think that's the book from a quick Google though it's been ages. Someone lent it to my ex wife and we read it, it was simply a collection of women's fantasies. Some were quite arousing, some just outright weird (to me at least). From the 70's I think which proves all this talk that porn is warping people's minds is just not true. Virtually every genre of porn that gets slated on these forums gets a chapter in that book. Mr" I see I'll check it out. Totally think it's a myth women aren't as kinky or have fantasies as men. "62% of women have had a non concentual fantasies" according to a peer reviewed scientific paper. Think there are differences in the way they are expressed and how open they are about talking about them. | |||
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"I see I'll check it out. Totally think it's a myth women aren't as kinky or have fantasies as men. "62% of women have had a non concentual fantasies" according to a peer reviewed scientific paper. Think there are differences in the way they are expressed and how open they are about talking about them." I agree with women as a whole are less likely to be as open and bold about sharing certain things. From both a way of their nature in some ways, and also from the way society has made women feel they can express any kind of interest in sex. This of course expands to everyone also. | |||
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"I read that book as a teenager. It was hidden under my parents' bed. I still remember bits from it now. Wow. " This is a far more interesting thread! What was you doing looking under your parents bed in the first place? | |||
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" Also, try reading 'My secret garden' if you think men have a monopoly on bizarre and extreme fantasies Mr Did you miss the bit where I said in a fab context? Are you suggesting that the women on Fab are less likely than those in the general population to have out of the ordinary fantasies? Mr" I'm suggesting that most of the requests about a breeding fantasy on here are coming from men | |||
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"I read that book as a teenager. It was hidden under my parents' bed. I still remember bits from it now. Wow. This is a far more interesting thread! What was you doing looking under your parents bed in the first place?" I'd already exhausted my brother's stash of porn. Obvs. | |||
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"I see I'll check it out. Totally think it's a myth women aren't as kinky or have fantasies as men. "62% of women have had a non concentual fantasies" according to a peer reviewed scientific paper. Think there are differences in the way they are expressed and how open they are about talking about them. I agree with women as a whole are less likely to be as open and bold about sharing certain things. From both a way of their nature in some ways, and also from the way society has made women feel they can express any kind of interest in sex. This of course expands to everyone also. " I was about to add something similar, but you’ve both summed it up perfectly. I totally agree. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men." This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. | |||
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"I see I'll check it out. Totally think it's a myth women aren't as kinky or have fantasies as men. "62% of women have had a non concentual fantasies" according to a peer reviewed scientific paper. Think there are differences in the way they are expressed and how open they are about talking about them. I agree with women as a whole are less likely to be as open and bold about sharing certain things. From both a way of their nature in some ways, and also from the way society has made women feel they can express any kind of interest in sex. This of course expands to everyone also. " I think women tend to be less upfront initially until they feel "safe" to talk about them with another. I also think it depends on the kink itself with how open someone would be about it. I think the threads on the forums indicate there are as many kinky women as there are men. It's just about safe environments to express them. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men." This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. | |||
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"I read that book as a teenager. It was hidden under my parents' bed. I still remember bits from it now. Wow. This is a far more interesting thread! What was you doing looking under your parents bed in the first place? I'd already exhausted my brother's stash of porn. Obvs. " Excellent reply - But did your brothers Porn mags have the pages stuck together? | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. " To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. | |||
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"I read that book as a teenager. It was hidden under my parents' bed. I still remember bits from it now. Wow. This is a far more interesting thread! What was you doing looking under your parents bed in the first place? I'd already exhausted my brother's stash of porn. Obvs. Excellent reply - But did your brothers Porn mags have the pages stuck together?" I just skipped past those. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. " The important part is definitely in how it is expressed for allowing people to understand. Plenty of times I've seen it brought up, and worded in such a way that it certainly come across as they actually get off on the act of intent to impregnate, less so about it being the idea of the fantasy. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. The important part is definitely in how it is expressed for allowing people to understand. Plenty of times I've seen it brought up, and worded in such a way that it certainly come across as they actually get off on the act of intent to impregnate, less so about it being the idea of the fantasy." Guess sometimes on here it's hard to judge is it pure fantasy being written on the forum or when someone messages you. The messages I receive I think it's wanking fodder talk. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. " Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. " That's part of the problem though. As I just said if you want people to understand you need to explain and give details. Especially when it's a lesser known kink, and one that is named in such a way. For example consensual none consent gives it away in the name. Breeding role play gives a much clearer indication of the intent than just breeding. I've been witness to (multiple times, not just a one off) somebody actually wanting to impregnate during high chance of fertility. Their interest is solely focused on creating a baby as part of the kink. | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side." I’ve had the lovely offer a few times…”I’ll support you financially” | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. " The way I explore my kink has no additional pregnancy risk than any other way I have sex. There is always some risk with having any sex though unless at least one person is completely infertile. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr" I do wonder if the strong reaction towards males citing this kink is because unfortunately there is a significant number of men who don't support their children. | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side. I’ve had the lovely offer a few times…”I’ll support you financially” " Do you think they realise they are legally bound to provide financial support? | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. " Agreed. Even when people have tried to give more detail about certain kinks on here, it’s met with a dismissive attitude and rarely read. You don’t have to be in to a kink to try and understand why others may like them. Personally I read about all kinds of kinks and though they aren’t for me, I like to see where they stem from. It’s very much presumed that no thought goes in to some kinks also. | |||
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"If I were a man I'd be very careful about partaking in this kind of fantasy, as some women like the getting pregnant part, so they get the child and money that comes with it. One of my extended family was tricked into becoming a father by a woman who had no intentions of staying with him. I think his child support stopped 2 years ago." I like the practicing part if you’re down | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. Agreed. Even when people have tried to give more detail about certain kinks on here, it’s met with a dismissive attitude and rarely read. You don’t have to be in to a kink to try and understand why others may like them. Personally I read about all kinds of kinks and though they aren’t for me, I like to see where they stem from. It’s very much presumed that no thought goes in to some kinks also. " I do read about them too and actually find it fascinating insight into human nature. I mentioned DDlg because I had one view of what it involved but a thread here completely opened my eyes. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. The important part is definitely in how it is expressed for allowing people to understand. Plenty of times I've seen it brought up, and worded in such a way that it certainly come across as they actually get off on the act of intent to impregnate, less so about it being the idea of the fantasy." Maybe from the outside. I guess I'm more used to witnessing a lot of kinks that are far from literal. Some people enjoy dressing up as puppies/kittens/ponies and being spoken to as if they were one. That doesn't mean the people who have sex with them actually want to have sex with animals and it isn't what comes to my mind when I see the words puppy play or pony play but maybe some people do think that's what people mean. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr" I don't think this is true. I regularly talk about my kinks on here and regularly get backlash for it. I know full well people will read this post and now judge me to be a crazy, STI riddled pervert who's probably out to try and pregnancy trap some poor unsuspecting guy. I've been around here enough to know that talking about my kinks doesn't make me popular on here . | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr I do wonder if the strong reaction towards males citing this kink is because unfortunately there is a significant number of men who don't support their children. " Probably - that's the problem with mistaking correlation for causation isn't it? There are a significant number of utterly useless mothers out there too but the mother stereotype makes that really hard for most to accept - unless like me your anecdotal evidence has plenty of examples of abusive/uncaring/unfit mothers. Mr | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. The important part is definitely in how it is expressed for allowing people to understand. Plenty of times I've seen it brought up, and worded in such a way that it certainly come across as they actually get off on the act of intent to impregnate, less so about it being the idea of the fantasy. Maybe from the outside. I guess I'm more used to witnessing a lot of kinks that are far from literal. Some people enjoy dressing up as puppies/kittens/ponies and being spoken to as if they were one. That doesn't mean the people who have sex with them actually want to have sex with animals and it isn't what comes to my mind when I see the words puppy play or pony play but maybe some people do think that's what people mean. " Generally I view things as you do, even if it's not my thing I just get that they like it and I don't. And move on. Hell in terms of breeding role play I would have no issue in taking part myself if the person enjoyed the fantasy (as you stated, with the same way I'd approach all sex). But having witnessed (in person and online) proposals for more than just the fantasy, and with the intent to cause pregnancy then part ways - for no other reason than just getting off on the act - and what comes after, I find it more difficult to just assume the fantasy side. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. That's part of the problem though. As I just said if you want people to understand you need to explain and give details. Especially when it's a lesser known kink, and one that is named in such a way. For example consensual none consent gives it away in the name. Breeding role play gives a much clearer indication of the intent than just breeding. I've been witness to (multiple times, not just a one off) somebody actually wanting to impregnate during high chance of fertility. Their interest is solely focused on creating a baby as part of the kink." This is absolutely why I talk about my kinks on here and why I'm always open to questions. I totally understand why many don't want to explain though because people aren't always very kind. I just have a think skin and a stubborn dedication to "the greater good". There was a time on here that even mentioning DDlg caused uproar. One of my first posts on here was just asking if anyone else was into it and I basically got 175 posts of people telling me I was a sicko. It's been mentioned on here a couple of times now and it's not been a big deal. Things are obviously getting better but it's still far from easy. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. Same. I'm sure they exist though. Like with literally anything there's always going to be some. There's plenty of people into spanking causing nobody any harm but there will always be a few people who genuinely get off on beating the crap out of someone to a harmful extent. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with spanking. " Exactly with any kink there is a sliding scale of risk isn't there. I hope there is nothing wrong with spanking else I'm in big trouble | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr I do wonder if the strong reaction towards males citing this kink is because unfortunately there is a significant number of men who don't support their children. Probably - that's the problem with mistaking correlation for causation isn't it? There are a significant number of utterly useless mothers out there too but the mother stereotype makes that really hard for most to accept - unless like me your anecdotal evidence has plenty of examples of abusive/uncaring/unfit mothers. Mr" There is more than anecdotal evidence for unpaid maintenance, of course. I don't disagree with you but the numbers are available for non-resident parents who avoid payment. The Child Maintenance Service at least manage to cobble that to together. Of course the stories behind why maintenance isn't paid are anecdotal. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is what I've understand breeding as, the people I know who are into it do not want to get pregnant. The important part is definitely in how it is expressed for allowing people to understand. Plenty of times I've seen it brought up, and worded in such a way that it certainly come across as they actually get off on the act of intent to impregnate, less so about it being the idea of the fantasy. Maybe from the outside. I guess I'm more used to witnessing a lot of kinks that are far from literal. Some people enjoy dressing up as puppies/kittens/ponies and being spoken to as if they were one. That doesn't mean the people who have sex with them actually want to have sex with animals and it isn't what comes to my mind when I see the words puppy play or pony play but maybe some people do think that's what people mean. Generally I view things as you do, even if it's not my thing I just get that they like it and I don't. And move on. Hell in terms of breeding role play I would have no issue in taking part myself if the person enjoyed the fantasy (as you stated, with the same way I'd approach all sex). But having witnessed (in person and online) proposals for more than just the fantasy, and with the intent to cause pregnancy then part ways - for no other reason than just getting off on the act - and what comes after, I find it more difficult to just assume the fantasy side. " I've never said its always only a fantasy for everyone. But there's weirdos who practise every kink an sexual act to extremes. Though from personal experience you get a lot of people who propose certain things but rarely carry through with it and that's even with fairly tame stuff . | |||
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"This is absolutely why I talk about my kinks on here and why I'm always open to questions. I totally understand why many don't want to explain though because people aren't always very kind. I just have a think skin and a stubborn dedication to "the greater good". There was a time on here that even mentioning DDlg caused uproar. One of my first posts on here was just asking if anyone else was into it and I basically got 175 posts of people telling me I was a sicko. It's been mentioned on here a couple of times now and it's not been a big deal. Things are obviously getting better but it's still far from easy. " I like to know details, generally hate just jumping to uninformed opinions and decisions. I try not to judge, and while it's rare that I do, is not inevitable. Which is why for me just that slight indication of the intent goes a long way. Help me understand. View the whole picture, outside the box. I'm happy to discuss how and why somebody has a kink and what it involves. This unfortunately is just one of the kinks I can't automatically assume is fantasy based based without certain wording and additional details. If that makes sense. | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr I do wonder if the strong reaction towards males citing this kink is because unfortunately there is a significant number of men who don't support their children. Probably - that's the problem with mistaking correlation for causation isn't it? There are a significant number of utterly useless mothers out there too but the mother stereotype makes that really hard for most to accept - unless like me your anecdotal evidence has plenty of examples of abusive/uncaring/unfit mothers. Mr There is more than anecdotal evidence for unpaid maintenance, of course. I don't disagree with you but the numbers are available for non-resident parents who avoid payment. The Child Maintenance Service at least manage to cobble that to together. Of course the stories behind why maintenance isn't paid are anecdotal. " Oh, I agree there are lots of fathers who run off without looking after their kids. I just disagree that this means a man who mentions breeding as a fantasy automatically has this intention. I was just trying to say that our stereotypes often get used in the wrong places - and often overlook a lot of reality. Just because a man *is* more likely to not support his kids doesn't mean his fantasy involves this. Just because a woman *is* more likely to end up caring for the child doesn't make her more likely to be responsible around safe sex - or indeed likely to be a good parent. Mr | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. That's part of the problem though. As I just said if you want people to understand you need to explain and give details. Especially when it's a lesser known kink, and one that is named in such a way. For example consensual none consent gives it away in the name. Breeding role play gives a much clearer indication of the intent than just breeding. I've been witness to (multiple times, not just a one off) somebody actually wanting to impregnate during high chance of fertility. Their interest is solely focused on creating a baby as part of the kink. This is absolutely why I talk about my kinks on here and why I'm always open to questions. I totally understand why many don't want to explain though because people aren't always very kind. I just have a think skin and a stubborn dedication to "the greater good". There was a time on here that even mentioning DDlg caused uproar. One of my first posts on here was just asking if anyone else was into it and I basically got 175 posts of people telling me I was a sicko. It's been mentioned on here a couple of times now and it's not been a big deal. Things are obviously getting better but it's still far from easy. " What's DDI? New one on me Thanks in advance | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. To be fair most people don't go into detail about a kink on any site - they might say DDlg but that has several elements to it. What's happened here is the usual Fab judgement of anything people don't like/approve of/know anything about. That's part of the problem though. As I just said if you want people to understand you need to explain and give details. Especially when it's a lesser known kink, and one that is named in such a way. For example consensual none consent gives it away in the name. Breeding role play gives a much clearer indication of the intent than just breeding. I've been witness to (multiple times, not just a one off) somebody actually wanting to impregnate during high chance of fertility. Their interest is solely focused on creating a baby as part of the kink. This is absolutely why I talk about my kinks on here and why I'm always open to questions. I totally understand why many don't want to explain though because people aren't always very kind. I just have a think skin and a stubborn dedication to "the greater good". There was a time on here that even mentioning DDlg caused uproar. One of my first posts on here was just asking if anyone else was into it and I basically got 175 posts of people telling me I was a sicko. It's been mentioned on here a couple of times now and it's not been a big deal. Things are obviously getting better but it's still far from easy. What's DDI? New one on me Thanks in advance " Daddy Dom/ little girl | |||
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" I don't think this is true. I regularly talk about my kinks on here and regularly get backlash for it. I know full well people will read this post and now judge me to be a crazy, STI riddled pervert who's probably out to try and pregnancy trap some poor unsuspecting guy. I've been around here enough to know that talking about my kinks doesn't make me popular on here . " Might not make you popular but it made me have a quick perve of your profile Mr | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side." A lifetime of unhappiness unless you are a stone cold a***hole. | |||
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"Fucking perverts! What happened to a nice bit of missionary on a Sunday night after bath-time?" Now that is bloody perverted, nobody is coming close to me once I've had a bath. That's me time!! | |||
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"My opinion of it? Seems like a lifetime of responsibility... For the woman, yeah. I don’t know how it works from the bloke’s side. I’ve had the lovely offer a few times…”I’ll support you financially” Do you think they realise they are legally bound to provide financial support? " Haha well you never know, it’s all about their wants and needs after all | |||
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"Looking for a women with similar interests, it’s risky but that’s what I want and is a fantasy of mine. Let me know ladies, what is your opinion of it from a guy on here? " What's the plan for after? Will you taxi her to all doctors appointments when she's too pregnant to drive? Will you help her out around the house, help her shave her own legs, massage her swolen ankles when she's too pregnant to even bend over? Will you bring her food for her pregnancy cravings in the middle of the night? Will you care for the baby till they're 18? How many babies are you prepared to care for? Will she use after pill or have an abortion? Those are all questions you have to ask yourself before you start seeking for someone who is looking for similar things. And be clear with them about your intentions from day one. Abortion used to end pregnancy that started as something to make some people "get off" on their breeding fantasies is pure gross and is the reason why there's so many pro lifers are furious at even the possibility of women having a choice to their own body autonomy . Some things better left as a fantasy or done with a commited, trusted partner. | |||
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"Fucking perverts! What happened to a nice bit of missionary on a Sunday night after bath-time? Now that is bloody perverted, nobody is coming close to me once I've had a bath. That's me time!! " Not even for a little cuddle? | |||
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"Fucking perverts! What happened to a nice bit of missionary on a Sunday night after bath-time? Now that is bloody perverted, nobody is coming close to me once I've had a bath. That's me time!! Not even for a little cuddle? " Cuddle after the moisturizer has dried is fine | |||
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"I have a breeding kink but it's role play. I don't actually want to get pregnant or have unprotected sex with random men. This is very much the issue with the whole thing, it is rarely ever stated exactly what the person means. And often worded in a way that can be taken wrongly or at the least either way. The main issue people (I do at least) with "breeding" is the pore tial intent of it revolving around wanting it to be about the impregnated part. It has too many factors to call people out as simple kink shaming due to the major responsibility that comes after the act. I think less people would find issue with the role play aspect of it. It is of course role play and more about the fantasy than anything else. Surely the assumption on here is that any fantasy is between consenting adults? Writing a post about a fantasy then an attaching a risk assessment and method statement kind of ruins the fantasy don't you think? This is why people talk about kink shaming on these threads because some can't b get their head around the idea that others can be turned on by an idea that in reality they know they wouldn't ever actually want to carry out. There is also sadly a very strong bias against male fantasy. A woman expressing a fantasy is assumed to only be fantasising and believed when she says that she would in reality take precautions, not do certain things etc etc. A man on the other hand is assumed to be a pervert with no morals, standards or responsibility until he proves otherwise. Are there men out there who don't give a shit? Of course there are. There's plenty of women like it too but as far as I'm concerned when an OP states he has a fantasy, that's exactly what it is - a fantasy. Mr I do wonder if the strong reaction towards males citing this kink is because unfortunately there is a significant number of men who don't support their children. Probably - that's the problem with mistaking correlation for causation isn't it? There are a significant number of utterly useless mothers out there too but the mother stereotype makes that really hard for most to accept - unless like me your anecdotal evidence has plenty of examples of abusive/uncaring/unfit mothers. Mr There is more than anecdotal evidence for unpaid maintenance, of course. I don't disagree with you but the numbers are available for non-resident parents who avoid payment. The Child Maintenance Service at least manage to cobble that to together. Of course the stories behind why maintenance isn't paid are anecdotal. Oh, I agree there are lots of fathers who run off without looking after their kids. I just disagree that this means a man who mentions breeding as a fantasy automatically has this intention. I was just trying to say that our stereotypes often get used in the wrong places - and often overlook a lot of reality. Just because a man *is* more likely to not support his kids doesn't mean his fantasy involves this. Just because a woman *is* more likely to end up caring for the child doesn't make her more likely to be responsible around safe sex - or indeed likely to be a good parent. Mr" I was merely suggesting a possible reason why there is a strong reaction about this. | |||
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"This is absolutely why I talk about my kinks on here and why I'm always open to questions. I totally understand why many don't want to explain though because people aren't always very kind. I just have a think skin and a stubborn dedication to "the greater good". There was a time on here that even mentioning DDlg caused uproar. One of my first posts on here was just asking if anyone else was into it and I basically got 175 posts of people telling me I was a sicko. It's been mentioned on here a couple of times now and it's not been a big deal. Things are obviously getting better but it's still far from easy. I like to know details, generally hate just jumping to uninformed opinions and decisions. I try not to judge, and while it's rare that I do, is not inevitable. Which is why for me just that slight indication of the intent goes a long way. Help me understand. View the whole picture, outside the box. I'm happy to discuss how and why somebody has a kink and what it involves. This unfortunately is just one of the kinks I can't automatically assume is fantasy based based without certain wording and additional details. If that makes sense." I'm not saying automatically assume it's fantasy. Just don't automatically assume it isn't. | |||
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