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Are you a prude
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet....  "
If that defines a prude, I guess I am! Oh well, so be it.
(I think it's prudent not prudish, personally unless you take and control those images yourself.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
He's a knob. Everything you do at a meet has to be mutual |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x
Men. Pffffft 
Not ALL men....just the twats  x"
I'll get me coat |
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"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x"
sounds as if you made the right choice and had a lucky escape |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
As part of a first time meet I’d never allow this, if it’s a repeat meet where I had a level of trust with the person then yes I would, and have done
Wouldn’t say it’s prudish not too it’s a personal choice and people should respect that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude.  |
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"Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude. "
It's quite sad and pathetic really but I take things said on here with a pinch of salt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
Do with your own phone...  its fun to look back... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude.
It's quite sad and pathetic really but I take things said on here with a pinch of salt "
I do now. |
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
Good for you...Neither do I or send any pics of that nature! Once online always on line  You stand by your choices OP. |
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I’ve never taken any photos of me or anyone else as part of a meet. That’s not what I’m there for. I’m not done trophy to show anyone and everyone.
The only person I’ve ever taken photos with is TG for this profile not as some sexual act
Stick to your guns OP
Beard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
Neither do I. It's not being a prude. It's being sensible. Those men only want them to pass those pics and vids around and show off to others. Same reason why I refuse to be tied up. Anything can happen. |
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Each to their own and totally up to the individual's, we are happy to take photos and have them taken of us, we have had plenty of meets where neither of us haven't taken any photos and have been just as enjoyable. X |
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
Nope !
I wouldn’t either , if I wanted to be filmed or photographed frankly I’d do it professionally and get paid for it
I would question the motives , why is it needed at all apart possibly for hot wives/husband meets which wouldn’t apply to me.
personally I would rather concentrate on having fun rather than becoming a performer or film director  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries ! 
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school |
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"I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school "
I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school
I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics "
Me neither |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school
I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics
Me neither "
Me neither. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had photos and videos taken of me but on my phone. I quite like having them tbh but doing it that way means I have full control. And obvs I had to agree in advance and I've said no more often than I've said yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
You’re not a prude at all!!! This is a swinging site not a ‘make porn’ site! |
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"I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school
I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics
Me neither
Me neither. "
Fiber u sent me one of yr vag! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
What? Don't you even sell them a postcard as a souvenir? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
Who wants to waste time taking pictures and videos when the real thing is right on front of you.
You look unforgettable, who needs a photo to remember!! |
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"Like me.....
Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet....
Who wants to waste time taking pictures and videos when the real thing is right on front of you.
You look unforgettable, who needs a photo to remember!!"
I dont get that either...I'm too busy enjoying other things instead of acting like a performing seal |
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"I am a bit.
But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !
Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school "
Exactly this. Or "boring" |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
My answer is the same as on the previous thread, I may be on a swinging site, but what I do in my own home with a consenting woman I'd between the two of us and not for public broadcast on a profile |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera.
Toss me a cigarette...
Smooth talker.
I thought you were making a Simon and Garfunkle reference "
No. I was talking about a spy cam in a bow tie.
It's all groovy. |
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I wouldn't say prude, more like prudent especially if you are in a job where explicit photos could put you in a compromising position. Years ago I had one bitch, who I refused to bale out financially, send a photo into my company head office of me doing a stir fry wearing only a guys thong, and on the back was written, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working" fortunately for me, my MD guessed it was a case of, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," And put it straight in the bin. Anyone in public service might not get off so easily, so stick by your principles. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I wouldn't say prude, more like prudent especially if you are in a job where explicit photos could put you in a compromising position. Years ago I had one bitch, who I refused to bale out financially, send a photo into my company head office of me doing a stir fry wearing only a guys thong, and on the back was written, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working" fortunately for me, my MD guessed it was a case of, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," And put it straight in the bin. Anyone in public service might not get off so easily, so stick by your principles. "
Well unless it was time stamped and dated she didn’t have a leg to stand on. I suspect most men would cook a stir fry in their under crackers if they could. |
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