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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I see no change to be honest, the site is what you make it.

For me, people may have the wrong expectations, the scene/site changes over the year depending on school holidays etc and people don't utilise the features the site offers to maximise opportunities.

all the best

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. "

ooo you poor love my heart gos out to you there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

"

Is that the fault of the site or a problem with you and the way you present yourself?

Some men get meets. The site remains the same. What is the difference between them and you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

If it really was going down hill The Lounge forum would probably end up rolling into the World-Wide forum.

What a mess! Thankfully I've noticed no subsidence in any of the forums foundations.

Psstt! Between you and me I think Canada room has wood worm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Before everyone flies in with suggestions and gripes have they considered the original post may have been a question for a civil engineer? Well if you have a site going downhill you may need to underpin the foundations and there would be a larger degree of earthworks and drainage to consider which may offset the cost benefits of buying a sloping site....

Just a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away"

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

"

So is your vefication fake then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

End of the day this sites what you make it . What you put in you get out really .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. "

Aww bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

So is your vefication fake then? "

It's from a male

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. ooo you poor love my heart gos out to you there xxx "

Begone woman! You lot only want me for one thing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. ooo you poor love my heart gos out to you there xxx

Begone woman! You lot only want me for one thing!!! "

your lovely bum and mind , lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?"

Faburys chocolate company

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The site is not going downhill.

However the influx of people with unrealistic expectations or unhealthy attitudes is increasing; thereby giving the perception of 'things going downhill'.

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. ooo you poor love my heart gos out to you there xxx

Begone woman! You lot only want me for one thing!!! your lovely bum and mind , lol "

That's two things Game... xxx

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By *ashful BazMan  over a year ago

poole dorset


"End of the day this sites what you make it . What you put in you get out really ."

I love putting it in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So rather than dissing the site OP, what would you do to make it better ? (in your eyes of course)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break. "

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please? "

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that... "

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing "

If you must, but warm your hands first please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I like a man who can multi task

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

If you must, but warm your hands first please. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The site is not going downhill.

However the influx of people with unrealistic expectations or unhealthy attitudes is increasing; thereby giving the perception of 'things going downhill'.

"

I think so too prof...

...We're dug in for the long haul. We don't have expectations, we don't have a goal, a gameplan or an agenda. We're just here.. what comes of that is what comes of it...

Wolf

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing "

Anyway, I looked at your pics and skimmed your profile, noting only it said 'exceptional males only' and realised that was all I needed to know.

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

Anyway, I looked at your pics and skimmed your profile, noting only it said 'exceptional males only' and realised that was all I needed to know.

I'm in "

Has the site improved for you today then?

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

There is a distinct lack of bum threads now I notice.

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

Anyway, I looked at your pics and skimmed your profile, noting only it said 'exceptional males only' and realised that was all I needed to know.

I'm in

Has the site improved for you today then? "

Any gropes a bonus, one from you is very welcome

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why do people say things like the site is going downhill, just because they dont get any meets. You tell me one other free site(upgrade is optional) where you can get all the benefits that you can from this site. Some are free to join then want you to pay to send messages.

If you think the site is going down hill why dont you go and join one that you think isnt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please? "

I had a sort of different plan for him - me thinks I should keep that thought to myself lol

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By *issMidsWoman  over a year ago

North Notts

Been here for years, seperately and as a couple, and its great for us. Use it to keep in touch with those we've met mainly, but also to flirt with new people.

As for no meets... When I had a single profile and started I ended up with 4 meets in 4 months. Lucky? Maybe... But goes to show what reading profiles and having a sense of humour and positive outlook on the forums can do for you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OH MY GOD THE SITE'S MOVING AND WE'RE ALL GOING TO DIE AAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGHHHHH!

Oh no hang on, sorry I was looking at my screen on the wonk. Please continue....you were saying about Invictus's arse being nice?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

"

well your profile isnt exactly selling your, no photos and nothing about you that would attract a single fem

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it is what it is.. as jackie stallone would say.. hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

So is your vefication fake then?

It's from a male "

Whoops didn't notice that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

Anyway, I looked at your pics and skimmed your profile, noting only it said 'exceptional males only' and realised that was all I needed to know.

I'm in

Has the site improved for you today then?

Any gropes a bonus, one from you is very welcome "

Do you like grapes as well then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"End of the day this sites what you make it . What you put in you get out really .

I love putting it in.

"

ooo in out in out , lol sure this is a song and a dance , lol

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I hate it.

Bloody women all over me all the time, 'nag nag when we going to meet? I want your cock, oooo, nice bum can I touch it' FFS

I'm off to the Male Knitting Circle Forum for a well deserved break.

Can I touch your bum while you knit then please?

I may drop a stich or two on my new armchair cover if you did that...

Is that a no then, you know manners cost nothing

Anyway, I looked at your pics and skimmed your profile, noting only it said 'exceptional males only' and realised that was all I needed to know.

I'm in

Has the site improved for you today then?

Any gropes a bonus, one from you is very welcome

Do you like grapes as well then? "

Only peeled ones fed to me by an hourly renewed trio of beautiful handpicked ladies in harem clothes. Otherwise can't stand 'em.

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By *uncpl2015Couple  over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Why do people say things like the site is going downhill, just because they dont get any meets. You tell me one other free site(upgrade is optional) where you can get all the benefits that you can from this site. Some are free to join then want you to pay to send messages.

If you think the site is going down hill why dont you go and join one that you think isnt"

Okay agree to a degree however site is going downhill but its more the peoplr joining or using it than the site.. if you get my drift... people joining upsetting people deleting and rejoining again and doing same over and over.. people using site just for weekends for a shag as its easier.. and the norm timewasters

. now we not been on thr site that long but have seen a drastic change in just that space of time...

Now problems with it probably same on other sites and not much admin can do about it. But OP please understand we did try another site who unknown to us shared our profile with loads of other sites.. one a singles looking for date site another was a prostitution site... in an hour we had over 1000 hits and could have been rich ..ewww lol so this one id not like that although we have been offered money on this one too to be fair.. they must br desperate lol

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By *ashful BazMan  over a year ago

poole dorset


"End of the day this sites what you make it . What you put in you get out really .

I love putting it in.

ooo in out in out , lol sure this is a song and a dance , lol "

Sounds good to me Jo, whatever song it is. lol

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"The site is not going downhill.

However the influx of people with unrealistic expectations or unhealthy attitudes is increasing; thereby giving the perception of 'things going downhill'.

"

I sometimes wonder whether the scene (not the site) attracts some people for the wrong reasons. By that I mean that perhaps some people feel their self esteem is low and meeting in the scene would boost their confidence whereas in reality the opposite may be true, that you need a modicum of confidence to meet people. Just a thought?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We blame all the singles on here!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We blame all the single guys who set up fake couples profiles, have caught so many out when you ask to speak to the fem on the phone.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been on here for nearly two years and this comes up all the time. When I was on other sites, this came up all the time. Yes, there are people who stand you up, people who are just after a thrill and wank and disappear as soon as the serious arrangements start, and people who think its a site for getting an easy shag. But in my opinion, the site hasn't changed, and the people haven't changed. I've definitely changed though, and found that changing the way I meet helped get more meets!

It takes time, but I reckon this is a great site, and most the people on here are also great. And if I don't find it great in another couple of years, well, then its time to leave. The site is what I make it. Relying on others to make the site great for me only ends in disappointment.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We blame all the singles on here!

"

So do I! We're awful!

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Relying on others to make the site great for me only ends in disappointment."
Spot on with the post and this last bit... at the end of the day the person responsible for my entertainment is me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The site is not going downhill.

However the influx of people with unrealistic expectations or unhealthy attitudes is increasing; thereby giving the perception of 'things going downhill'.

I sometimes wonder whether the scene (not the site) attracts some people for the wrong reasons. By that I mean that perhaps some people feel their self esteem is low and meeting in the scene would boost their confidence whereas in reality the opposite may be true, that you need a modicum of confidence to meet people. Just a thought?"

A very good thought.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We blame all the singles on here!

"

Erm......why?

Nothing like a broad generalisation to sum up an argument!!!

So all the couples are faultless in all they do? I don't think so! It's not whether you're single or partnered that impacts the site - just the way you act, interact and communicate that has either a positive or negative impact on the site and those that use it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We blame all the singles on here!

Erm......why?

Nothing like a broad generalisation to sum up an argument!!!

So all the couples are faultless in all they do? I don't think so! It's not whether you're single or partnered that impacts the site - just the way you act, interact and communicate that has either a positive or negative impact on the site and those that use it. "

Great post and entirely agree with your sentiment, except for tsk all couples are perfect

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Great post and entirely agree with your sentiment, except for tsk all couples are perfect "

I just think YOU are perfect xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Great post and entirely agree with your sentiment, except for tsk all couples are perfect I just think YOU are perfect xx"

Now you've made me blush

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We blame all the single guys who set up fake couples profiles, have caught so many out when you ask to speak to the fem on the phone. "

.... which is why we insist on an early phone call so we can them out before it goes too far....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away"

Can i blame them cos my ICELAND shop is late and i cant do tea?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

Can i blame them cos my ICELAND shop is late and i cant do tea? "

Perky usually does

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful! "

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers...

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... "

Typical... theres a thread on something going down and guess what... CazDaz is here...;-)

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... "

I can't believe anyone's stupid enough to message me to be honest. Serves 'em right.

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers...

I can't believe anyone's stupid enough to message me to be honest. Serves 'em right. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?"

Fatswingers.com

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... "

I swing... well, bits of me definitely do in certain circumstances.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?

Fatswingers.com "

Will I get more meets if I sign up there?

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?

Fatswingers.com "

Flabswingers do a special membership - buy one get one free...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

Can i blame them cos my ICELAND shop is late and i cant do tea? "

Try getting it from the UK, should be a bit quicker

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Blame the site for not getting fun? ok then

Can I blame them for the blister I got on my foot from my fuck me shoes

Im putting a report in straight away

I've decided to blame the site for being fat. Whom do I sue?

Fatswingers.com

Will I get more meets if I sign up there?"

Not sure about meets but I've no doubt that they'll be able to sort you out with an assortment of meats

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Are we dragging the site downhill?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

this sites shit....... It hasn't made my cock 4 inch longer when erect!!!

As with anything in life. The site is what you make of it. We sometimes get frustrated. As has already been said. The time if year can effect the availability of people.

Don't blame the site. Man up, make an effourt and get yourself out there. Go a club. Go to socials, get yourself known.

If you think joining a swingers site is count to generate multiple shags over night you must have a mental condition.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't think the site is going downhill... I do think the amount of people who complain has gone up... and the amount of people with unrealistic expectations as to what they expect has gone up.....

which is why whenever I see a complaint the question I tend to ask is "what was the expectation level going in?"

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... Typical... theres a thread on something going down and guess what... CazDaz is here...;-)"

You'll miss us from tomorrow when we go on our hols

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... Typical... theres a thread on something going down and guess what... CazDaz is here...;-)

You'll miss us from tomorrow when we go on our hols "

Jeeze, means I can come off my pills for....errr how long?

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"We blame all the singles on here!

So do I! We're awful!

I'm with you Wyrd, ban us all - tossers and timewasters the lot of us - dare to call ourselves swingers... Typical... theres a thread on something going down and guess what... CazDaz is here...;-)

You'll miss us from tomorrow when we go on our hols Jeeze, means I can come off my pills for....errr how long? "

Won't be back in UK till 18th, you should be over the worst of the withdrawal by then, so try to keep off them you bloody junkie

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"The site is not going downhill.

However the influx of people with unrealistic expectations or unhealthy attitudes is increasing; thereby giving the perception of 'things going downhill'.

I sometimes wonder whether the scene (not the site) attracts some people for the wrong reasons. By that I mean that perhaps some people feel their self esteem is low and meeting in the scene would boost their confidence whereas in reality the opposite may be true, that you need a modicum of confidence to meet people. Just a thought?

A very good thought."

tend to agree, strip out the folk who dont have a clue what (the 'lifestyle'/this aspect/swinging)actually is...

who think they are guaranteed a shag with anyone they deign to approach and that that someone who should be grateful for their attention..

someone has perpetuated a myth that people on sites like this are desperate and easy, will shag anyone etc..

now most sensible folk know thats cobblers but others think its the norm and get the right arse when it does'nt fall in their lap..

like any club or group, its what 'YOU' make it..

perhaps look at that first before moaning...

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By *atisfy janeWoman  over a year ago

Torquay

I know of a gay sex site that is going uphill.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"[Removed by poster at 08/10/12 16:02:37]"

Hi Chompy. What makes you say that ?

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By *innamon!Woman  over a year ago

no matter


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

"

Not really surprised as you are 19 have no pictures and the profile is limited. Bet you have plenty of male offers tho.

****

Makes me laugh think guys come here and expect instant shag. Its a swinging site dontcha know..we should all be ready to drop our knickers when they say..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Still enjoying what FAB can offer more 3 years since I joined.

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By *acandJulesCouple  over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"I don't think this site is very good!

Havnt had one female meet yet!!

Is that the fault of the site or a problem with you and the way you present yourself?

Some men get meets. The site remains the same. What is the difference between them and you?"

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush


"[Removed by poster at 08/10/12 16:02:37]

Hi Chompy. What makes you say that ? "

It's gonna be a chortle night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 08/10/12 16:02:37]

Hi Chompy. What makes you say that ? "

We shall never know... Sigh.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This site is the same as all the others I've been on. It's not the site, it's people's expectations that's crap. Innit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This site is the same as all the others I've been on. It's not the site, it's people's expectations that's crap. Innit.

"

Very philosophical (and accurate) for a Monday evening.

Must be all that fresh air

I'm impressed !

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

This site is better than most I have been on. I have had by far the most meets off here than anywhere. And been fortunate enough to meet some really nice people. Yes, the idiots can get you down sometimes but you just brush it off and get on with it.

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

It used to be Wednesdays for complaints. Has it changed now?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
Forum Mod


"It used to be Wednesdays for complaints. Has it changed now? "

Yes to thursdays....this thread is all wrong and confusing for people that have been on nights shift and lost all track of days

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It used to be Wednesdays for complaints. Has it changed now? "

No, that's Fab in a parallel universe. It's Thursday for rants and a complaint every other day.

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By *usyatminMan  over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

Where is this downhill you talk about?? Is it a new dogging spot we have not heard of??

Anyhow site is fab for me. Manners, respect and patience go a long way and the rewards far outweigh the timewasters. Us who have been here a while know how it works, what to expect and how to swing.

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