So I like to take the time to make sure profiles match up and we suit each other on paper. I take the time to write a message and attach the correct photo etc.
My question if I messaged a year ago with no response do I try again?
Obviously the women on here get hounded with pests, fakes, cock pics etc and I asume often just to a mass cleanse of there inbox. |
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over a year ago
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"A lot leave 10mins between messages.
So yes, I'd say a year is acceptable.
Ok it’s been a year and 10 seconds right now so I’m going to message you again  "
It was actually 2 months, have to wait another 9. |
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"A lot leave 10mins between messages.
So yes, I'd say a year is acceptable.
7, with panoramic dick pic attached. "
Your panoramic dick pics are pretty ace. |
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"A lot leave 10mins between messages.
So yes, I'd say a year is acceptable.
Ok it’s been a year and 10 seconds right now so I’m going to message you again
It was actually 2 months, have to wait another 9."
Damn it....thought you was just another girl! |
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"A lot leave 10mins between messages.
So yes, I'd say a year is acceptable.
7, with panoramic dick pic attached.
Your panoramic dick pics are pretty ace."
That’s fair.
It’s the lighting.
And the dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, try again.
Honestly messages can be lost pretty quick on here. I’ve met some great guys, because they only waited 5-20 minutes to send a second message. Otherwise I wouldn’t have seen them. |
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"Did the recipient ever read it?
If they never read it, I'd say it's okay trying again after a decent period.
If they read it and never responded, that's a no and you should take it as one. "
Ahh good call! Forgot I can check that. |
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"Did the recipient ever read it?
If they never read it, I'd say it's okay trying again after a decent period.
If they read it and never responded, that's a no and you should take it as one.
Ahh good call! Forgot I can check that. "
Well, maybe, or it might have got lost in a pile of others? |
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"Did the recipient ever read it?
If they never read it, I'd say it's okay trying again after a decent period.
If they read it and never responded, that's a no and you should take it as one.
Ahh good call! Forgot I can check that.
Well, maybe, or it might have got lost in a pile of others?"
Wait, do you mean it somehow got lost *after* they read it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tangents are default in the lounge.
Your messages disappear after 3 months or so anyway, so unless your profile is exactly the same, you send the same message, and she has the memory of an elephant you’ll probably get away without her noticing, even the “They mailed you 12 months ago” will replace with “They mailed them you 1 minute ago”
Unless either of your profiles or circumstances have changed expect the same result tho. I had a shit(ter) profile when I joined and messaged people in ways I wouldn’t do now, as I’ve understood the unwritten rules better. I’ve re-co texted people and had different results, and also had initial refusals turn into decent messaging friends over time spent here in the lounge. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Yes try again. I’ve replied to people I didn’t the first time round after years getting their first message. People and circumstances change and the worst that can happen is you don’t get a reply/get a no thanks/get blocked. At least you tried instead of wondering and if you one of those things other than conversation happens don’t take it personally in the slightest, they just aren’t for you no matter what the paperwork says. |
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Just never want to be that dude that’s a pest and doesn’t catch on. 
that’s mental. 
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Yes, waiting a year is fine, a lot can change in that time. 