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Why do couples not show off their men?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's so frustrating on Fab sometimes as the female in a couple looking for couples. Yes women are attractive to look at and I enjoy looking at a hot women as much as my chap does but I want to see what the hot woman's chap looks like too!!...feels like Blind date sometimes - Surprise Surprise!! Please couples, show off your guys too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some guys just don't like photos. I have more of us together on friends only and if we were planning to meet with someone I'd always send more of him if they wanted them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We try to have pics of both of us...cherry likes showing me off.

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By *kinkycpleCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

I suppose it’s often the men uploading all their pics. I know we have a few of mr but only really as a supporting role??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I'm punching way above my weight

Max

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

As a couple we like to see the man as she not taking one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest how many fabs to male pics from a couple get compared to female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some guys just don't like photos. I have more of us together on friends only and if we were planning to meet with someone I'd always send more of him if they wanted them

I know it's that sometimes but come on surely we can encourage them to be proud of themselves, no bloke would buy a car with out seeing a picture

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have 8 of me and only 1 of Mr on here. He is far more attractive than I am and gets more attention in real life than I do, we need to redress the balance and get him photographed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a couple we like to see the man as she not taking one for the team. "

Exactly the same with us.

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because they are not the couple you are looking for?

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There are pics od Dick just more of me, if we are interested in people we send body and face pics of us both and us together.

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By *athyperkinsCouple over a year ago

lifton

We have pics of both of us

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By *entative_steps7781Couple over a year ago

Home

We are trying to put more pics of S up to address exactly that. Have also moved a shed tonne of my pics onto friends only!

MJ x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

My other half is an attention whore and I shy away from camera thanks to lockdown weight gain, so there is most likely more pictures of him than there is of me, but I agree, most couples profiles we come across have only a few pictures of a man. It's even worse if pictures of a woman are only close ups of a single body part so you don't really know what either of them looks like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because it's mostly men that create profiles.

And it's mostly men that look at profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think we have a reasonable balance of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We try to have pics of both of us...cherry likes showing me off.

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By *not123Couple over a year ago

sp1

We need a meet so they can take some pics of us both . I'm always trying to get pics of p but always seem to get carried away lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I suppose it’s often the men uploading all their pics. I know we have a few of mr but only really as a supporting role??"

Possibly, we're a 50/50 couple and share the fabmin

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

It's kind of annoying we've got a few of each (more of female tho)

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple over a year ago

somewhere

Hubby doesn’t play so not much point putting any photos of him up,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because I'm punching way above my weight

Max"

Haha yes but does that mean the rest of us ladies have to go blind then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a couple we like to see the man as she not taking one for the team. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My other half is an attention whore and I shy away from camera thanks to lockdown weight gain, so there is most likely more pictures of him than there is of me, but I agree, most couples profiles we come across have only a few pictures of a man. It's even worse if pictures of a woman are only close ups of a single body part so you don't really know what either of them looks like

I absolutely love the photos of you K. You look amazing! LvM is hot but you are out of this world

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To be honest how many fabs to male pics from a couple get compared to female. "

Yep agree its unbalanced, we fab the couple pics or at least one of both her and him

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By *andM25Couple over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It's so frustrating on Fab sometimes as the female in a couple looking for couples. Yes women are attractive to look at and I enjoy looking at a hot women as much as my chap does but I want to see what the hot woman's chap looks like too!!...feels like Blind date sometimes - Surprise Surprise!! Please couples, show off your guys too. "

For us, it's kind of a "business" thing, so to speak!

We're stag/vixen:hotwife, so our thing is predominantly meeting guys. As such we tend to market S more than we market me, though we do have a handful of my photos on our profile to try and remind people that we are a couple.

And yes, every now and then I'll get a compliment and it strokes my ego

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By *entative_steps7781Couple over a year ago

Home

I absolutely love the photos of you K. You look amazing! LvM is hot but you are out of this world

100% agree with this, both hot as fuck, but K is just

MJ x

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By *rad670Man over a year ago

South Lakes

I wonder the opposite when in the chat rooms trying to find couples to chat with and find men sat with their dick in hand waiting for someone to look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest how many fabs to male pics from a couple get compared to female.

Yep agree its unbalanced, we fab the couple pics or at least one of both her and him

Yeah we try to do the same and share the love around...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many recognisable tattoos for public pics that can't be edited out. There are pics of him in freinds and private though x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

I absolutely love the photos of you K. You look amazing! LvM is hot but you are out of this world

100% agree with this, both hot as fuck, but K is just

MJ x"

I swear I wasn't fishing for attention, but thank you ladies, you made my day

I wish I felt that way about myself.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Plenty of T on our profile

J x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wonder the opposite when in the chat rooms trying to find couples to chat with and find men sat with their dick in hand waiting for someone to look."

So if you want to see pics of the man, just go to the cams.

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By *andM25Couple over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Too many recognisable tattoos for public pics that can't be edited out. There are pics of him in freinds and private though x"

This is also a very good point. Recognition for me (M) would be a job loser.

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By *hoirCouple over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I would be happy to show him off but C rarely allows his picture to be taken at all. The only ones I have a sneaky ones with the kids

I have mentioned that our profile is female heavy on the pics but it doesn't seem enough to sway him

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

Both look stunning guys..

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

You both have excellent chesticales

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple over a year ago

Surrey

Both of us on profile.makes no sense for us to have pictures of just sam

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I've always wondered this x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In our case, it's because Mr isn't looking to play with another.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a few of me on ours. Would be more bit I'm usually the one that thinks of taking a pic when things get heated! That, and I'm punchin'. Bulwinkle

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

Both look stunning guys..

You are both rather lovely yourselves. Thank you

Posh

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

You both have excellent chesticales

Says you Mrs!! Thanks.... we grew them ourselves

Posh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well om off to do some perving of all your profiles now - searching for Fab gems

...

Thanks for all the replies - I just popped my forum post cherry lol! X

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Because they’re all single women pretending to be couples to get more replies. Claiming that their husband lets them play alone, and sending out unsolicited vagina pics to trick unwary men.

We’ve all been there, guys. You arrange to meet some nice couple, and then find it’s just some young women with a sob story about how her “husband” is looking after the kids. I ask you, When will fabs do something about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well om off to do some perving of all your profiles now - searching for Fab gems

...

Thanks for all the replies - I just popped my forum post cherry lol! X"

#I'm

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

You both have excellent chesticales

Says you Mrs!! Thanks.... we grew them ourselves

Posh

Offt xwish I can I get some abs to balance them out!

Saying that my arsecis a counter balance!

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple over a year ago

Chelmsford

We've got plenty more of Alyson on our profile because, well, she's fucking gorgeous, but there a fair few of me as well x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a couple, looking for couples.....so seeing the men is somewhat important.

It's a pain in the ass to have to keep asking.

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By *urplechesterCouple over a year ago

chester

I know that ours has far more pics of me on than Mr on public view, and that’s my fault on two counts! Firstly I can take pics of myself whenever I like at work so I do haha, and secondly, I get distracted easily every time I go to take a pic of Mr! It’s definitely on the to do list though

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We do actually have pics of me as well, but on friends only.

Max

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well om off to do some perving of all your profiles now - searching for Fab gems

...

Thanks for all the replies - I just popped my forum post cherry lol! X"

There are some hidden gems

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Well om off to do some perving of all your profiles now - searching for Fab gems

...

Thanks for all the replies - I just popped my forum post cherry lol! X"

And a fabulous Cherry popper it is!

I'm gonna do some perving too.... of yours mostly OP.

Posh

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Well om off to do some perving of all your profiles now - searching for Fab gems

...

Thanks for all the replies - I just popped my forum post cherry lol! X"

Congrats on that forum cherry popping, it's a big thing.

There are so many answers as to why. I guess what it boils down to is if you see a profile where there aren't equal/kind of equal amounts of both and you'd like there to be, you're either not that compatible or... well yeah. That.

(I do wish there would be more sometimes, especially when couples approach me where they both want to meet me)

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"I'm constantly showing Bob off. As much as humanly possible, cos he is way, way nicer to look at than I am.

I think we've probably got about an equal number of pics of both of us..... hmmmm. I should change that.

Gonna upload more of him

(Plus there are far too many pics of me in my single profile, people can just look there if they want to)

Posh

You both have excellent chesticales

Says you Mrs!! Thanks.... we grew them ourselves

Posh

Offt xwish I can I get some abs to balance them out!

Saying that my arsecis a counter balance! "

Same here lol..... plenty of junk in this trunk!

His is just damn grabbable despite what he says

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good thread OP, it just so happens I was only talking to Mr today about this, he hates to pose for photos so we are going to look at doing more videos instead.

Our public profile mainly consists of pictures of me but our private pics are very equal.

I think he's extremely hot and just want to show him off so I'm working on getting more content of him

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they’re all single women pretending to be couples to get more replies. Claiming that their husband lets them play alone, and sending out unsolicited vagina pics to trick unwary men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good thread OP, it just so happens I was only talking to Mr today about this, he hates to pose for photos so we are going to look at doing more videos instead.

Our public profile mainly consists of pictures of me but our private pics are very equal.

I think he's extremely hot and just want to show him off so I'm working on getting more content of him

xxx"

Can I verify this independently, please?

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We come as a couple and so have pics of us both. We both enjoy taking and posting pics and it always turns into a whole heap of fun.

It's always good to see the pair of other couples too - saves lots of wasted time asking. We kind of suspect these days that if there are no pics of the guy, then there's a reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good thread OP, it just so happens I was only talking to Mr today about this, he hates to pose for photos so we are going to look at doing more videos instead.

Our public profile mainly consists of pictures of me but our private pics are very equal.

I think he's extremely hot and just want to show him off so I'm working on getting more content of him

xxx

Can I verify this independently, please?

Doors unlocked, let yourself in.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

See I don't even know what OP means haha!!??...

H x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We have pics of us both, and individual ones, there's actually more of him than me on his own

Tg x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We try to have most of our pics with the both of us in

some couples don't and just show one or the other...that's coolant all but not its not the way that we would choose to advertise ourselves on a "couples" profile. Each to there own... there fab profile to post as they like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See I don't even know what OP means haha!!??...

H x"

That's you, Original Poster I think it means

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We are a couple, looking for couples.....so seeing the men is somewhat important.

It's a pain in the ass to have to keep asking.

Well we will vouch for that, love a nose at your profile

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"See I don't even know what OP means haha!!??...

H x"

Original poster and/or opening post x

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

K, you are utterly gorgeous in photos and in person. I was totally fangirling over you in Manc which is why I pretty much ran away (aside from the completely random fondling of course). I wish you could see what we see

Posh

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Mines an ugly bastard.

Check your screen insurance before we send his face pic.

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We try to have most of our pics with the both of us in

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Because I'm an attention seeking whore essentially and I don't have my own account. It would probably drive M demented if I expected him to post as many pictures as I do. And most of the pictures he sends me are well of his cock, (because that is what I like) and most people complain about a profile being a see of cock.

And when we do meet its for MFM, so we have pictures of him but not loads as that's not what we are seeking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"See I don't even know what OP means haha!!??...

H x

Original poster and/or opening post x"

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

I always assume its bc he doesn't play and their dynamic is all about the fem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hubby thinks he's ugly

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great Post OP.

We have a mix of him, her and both of us.

When we look at couple profiles if there are no pics of him, then we know they are probably not for us... we like everyone to be involved!

And as BP said, taking the photos can be a lot of fun...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Great Post OP.

We have a mix of him, her and both of us.

When we look at couple profiles if there are no pics of him, then we know they are probably not for us... we like everyone to be involved!

And as BP said, taking the photos can be a lot of fun..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a couple, we try to include lots of photos of both of us. However, there are more of myself as he doesn't generally like photos of himself, feels he is too small or too unattractive. I personally think he is the best thing ever but that's just me! haha

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple over a year ago

Kent

The imbalance with us exists purely because he is utterly shit at taking photos of himself and I rarely get the chance to turn the camera on him! I’m constantly sending him naughty pics but he just doesn’t get the same kick out of taking ones of him. I’m going to pin him down and take some nice ones eventually because he is SUPER SMOKIN’ HOT!

C x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wonder the opposite when in the chat rooms trying to find couples to chat with and find men sat with their dick in hand waiting for someone to look."

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

Agree 100%. It's very frustrating not being able to tell if Hannah finds the guy attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree. We try to make it an even split as it is a couples profile after all said and done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Male pics don’t get as many fabs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs "

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him.

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By *ickshawedCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We started off looking just for single men for threesomes so only had pictures of me. As we've started to meet couples we've added pictures of my husband. There's still more of me as I enjoy taking photos and he doesn't. But I think ours are more evenly balanced than other profiles I've seen. I've looked through some and after 40 pictures of her in various underwear there'll be one of his cock. Can be rather frustrating.

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him."

We have that discussion often.... and I always point out that there is no comparison between male and female pics and number of fabs, and then cajole him into taking his shirt off for another picture (usually just for me).

Posh

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By *hristopherd999Man over a year ago

Brentwood

"We have pics of both of us

It's how I became bi curious

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We have pics of both of us, but as all our meets take place on the club scene, and so many pics get photoshopped, we prefer to meet face to face in the club.

xxxxx Suzi

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"Totally agree. We try to make it an even split as it is a couples profile after all said and done"

It doesn't even have to be an even spilt. Most don't even have just a couple of photos of the guy so we can get an idea of what he looks like. I realise some men don't want to be photographed and the woman is more popular to see, but that doesn't mean it's not a glaring omission having nothing of the man.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him.

Posh

If anything I'd say a good well taken picture of a male, is more likely to get to the top of male hot pics than a female. Think comparing male and female hot pics is like comparing apples to pears.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Equal amount of photos here

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Usually it's because the male doesn't want to actually swing in our experience. We stopped engaging with profiles who don't show pictures of the guy or only provide an unclear one long ago unless they send them with a first message . The guy was always reluctant once we met them. If you expect it to be a four way experience then pay me the courtesy of allowing me to see what you look like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like seeing pictures of the guy just as much as seeing pictures of the woman, so come'on guys get your puctures out there

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By *piderBunnyCouple over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him.

Posh

If anything I'd say a good well taken picture of a male, is more likely to get to the top of male hot pics than a female. Think comparing male and female hot pics is like comparing apples to pears. "

It absolutely is!! The myriad of reasons women usually get fabbed more than men has nothing to do with the excellence of the photo or the sexiness of the man, it's just to do with numbers.

Note to self..... make Bob read this so he knows I'm not "just saying it"

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I always feel as well that if a profile with no male pictures contact us that I'd be a spare part. It implies to me that they expect the woman of their couple to be the centre of attention.

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By *onorary-UnicornCouple over a year ago

hackbridge

There’s definitely more of H on our profile as she has been meeting solo recently but there is still a lot of me and us together on there. Though we have had it mentioned by several people that we should post less of me as it might put potential playmates off if they find me too intimidating (which I’m not, I’m a big teddy bear really).

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him.

Posh

If anything I'd say a good well taken picture of a male, is more likely to get to the top of male hot pics than a female. Think comparing male and female hot pics is like comparing apples to pears.

It absolutely is!! The myriad of reasons women usually get fabbed more than men has nothing to do with the excellence of the photo or the sexiness of the man, it's just to do with numbers.

Note to self..... make Bob read this so he knows I'm not "just saying it"

Exactly I bet Bob can get higher up the hot men pic pages than I ever could on the female one. I think we should have a competition, see how wins lol

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

I agree, which is why our main profile pic is of us both, faces et Al.

To be fair though, most of our pics are of Mistress, something we'd like to rectify sometime when Mistress stays with me.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Male pics don’t get as many fabs

This is true, and then Mr argues there is no point posting pics of him.

Posh

If anything I'd say a good well taken picture of a male, is more likely to get to the top of male hot pics than a female. Think comparing male and female hot pics is like comparing apples to pears. "

Getting on to the front page of men’s hot pics is easier than staying there. I managed it once, but you have to have so many Fabs every hour to stay there. I wish I’d taken a screenshot to savour the memory lol! But it’s amazing what some people Fab, as I had a pic of a man’s butthole on one side of me, and a woman’s boobs to the other side in the listing at one point!

You can club together with friends in here, to get on to the front page of men’s hot pics fairly easily, with the plainest most boring pic going if you like, just do it for a chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree. My biggest pet hate.

20 pictures of fem and usually one knob pic.

Then there's the awkward not attracted to both chat after rcving face pic.

One cpl they wanted to know which one I was attracted to which was a little odd to me. As if they were doing a tick list, your turn, my turn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest not many pics of either of us because we're very shy....

But since you asked nicely, I'll bring a couple of mine up. Don't blame me if you go blind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest not many pics of either of us because we're very shy....

But since you asked nicely, I'll bring a couple of mine up. Don't blame me if you go blind.

Fab'd

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

We do try to have plenty of Mr on show on our profile. Admittedly there are more of me but that's simply because I have a little bit more time to faff around taking pics than what Mr has, and I do quite enjoy dressing up and taking the odd pic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest not many pics of either of us because we're very shy....

But since you asked nicely, I'll bring a couple of mine up. Don't blame me if you go blind.

Fab'd

Awwwww, thank you!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

We like to have pictures of both of us. After all there is two of us and we're both part of the packaged. I'd hate to feel left out as if I was being hidden away. I'm proud of myself, Mrs Misfit and us as a couple. And she is proud of me and us too. We want to show both of us off. It's likewise a bit of a disappointment when we see a profile with no pictures of the guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We share the same frustration when looking at couple profiles. We try and keep a balance in our pics so they feature both of us. It is very frustrating, as asking for a pic of the male and then finding they either, won't send any or you find they aren't for you and then have to politely say so is awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We share the same frustration when looking at couple profiles. We try and keep a balance in our pics so they feature both of us. It is very frustrating, as asking for a pic of the male and then finding they either, won't send any or you find they aren't for you and then have to politely say so is awkward. "
Your pictures are amazing! Some great ones of you together and the ones on his own are gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Glorious profile!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

We have lots of Jack on our profile, as we are looking for other couples and it can be quite frustrating when there's 100 pics of the lady and 1 cock pic of the man.

I'm straight so I do want to see the male of a couple and if we get a wink/message from a profile with just pics of the woman, we delete.

That's because past experience has shown it can often take a while to get a pic of him and then often there's been no attraction.

Totally get it if only the lady meets other men, but feel otherwise thee should be at least one of the man.

It's up to others how they choose to run their profiles though.

Miss

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By *ausageNmashCouple over a year ago

Andover

I'm here but choose not to show myself too much. My choice.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Posh

Next time I want more fondling and more hugs.

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