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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever my divorce finally gets finalised I'm throwing myself back out there!
Go for it that's what I did  "
I finally do feel ready after 3 yes single but I just want to get the divorce finalised first.
Not sure if I'd be looking on Fab but you never know where you might find someone. I guess at least I know they're probably into sex as much as me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whenever my divorce finally gets finalised I'm throwing myself back out there!
Go for it that's what I did
I finally do feel ready after 3 yes single but I just want to get the divorce finalised first.
Not sure if I'd be looking on Fab but you never know where you might find someone. I guess at least I know they're probably into sex as much as me "
Yep is definitely a problem dating in the real world I meet guys that are vanilla or very possessive |
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Looking for an unapologetically romantic, an unbelievably sexy and ridiculously adventurous woman who's open to the idea of something that starts as nothing, but could end up being everything.
Not restricted to distance but must possess a sense of adventure, humour and a genuine heart  ...
I'm one in a million, all you have to be is the one for me. let's see how many don't reply? 
I'm holding my breath..... NOW!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever my divorce finally gets finalised I'm throwing myself back out there!
Careful you don't fall for the first block you meet..."
I think the opposite will happen tbh lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for an unapologetically romantic, an unbelievably sexy and ridiculously adventurous woman who's open to the idea of something that starts as nothing, but could end up being everything.
Not restricted to distance but must possess a sense of adventure, humour and a genuine heart ...
I'm one in a million, all you have to be is the one for me. let's see how many don't reply?
I'm holding my breath..... NOW!!!"
I read your profile and you sound lovely so hopefully you might find someone special here this year. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag  "
Well I will be the cheeky one. We are both looking for someone to join our dynamic on more than just a casual basis.
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag
Well I will be the cheeky one. We are both looking for someone to join our dynamic on more than just a casual basis.
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Full of surprises |
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?"
If I see a suitable woman who isn't prohibitively distant, I'll message her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?"
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either. "
You never know! Best to keep and open mind and spirit and avoid assumptions...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either. "
Sounds like the advice of experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either.
Sounds like the advice of experience"
Just someone who’s been single too long.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either.
Sounds like the advice of experience
Just someone who’s been single too long. "
Ah, yet I struggle to see how one such as you would stay single (unless you wanted to be?). Great profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do any of us ever chase up any profiles we're attracted to on these types of threads? Or do we just post in the hope someone will message us..?
I guess it’s like the kiss fuck or pass threads; they never go anywhere either.
Sounds like the advice of experience
Just someone who’s been single too long.
Ah, yet I struggle to see how one such as you would stay single (unless you wanted to be?). Great profile"
Well there’s been a bit of a bug going round the past couple of years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My experience with dating - She is in her mid 30s and struggling to get a boyfriend. There should be something wrong with her that I am overlooking. Then I realise that I am in my mid 30s and looking for a girlfriend. |
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"My experience with dating - She is in her mid 30s and struggling to get a boyfriend. There should be something wrong with her that I am overlooking. Then I realise that I am in my mid 30s and looking for a girlfriend. "
You both have standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My experience with dating - She is in her mid 30s and struggling to get a boyfriend. There should be something wrong with her that I am overlooking. Then I realise that I am in my mid 30s and looking for a girlfriend.
You both have standards "
I hope so |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag "
Yep in fact I’m only offering dinner dates on my profile now with maybe sex or maybe not…no guarantees x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever my divorce finally gets finalised I'm throwing myself back out there!
Go for it that's what I did
I finally do feel ready after 3 yes single but I just want to get the divorce finalised first.
Not sure if I'd be looking on Fab but you never know where you might find someone. I guess at least I know they're probably into sex as much as me "
Similar position here too |
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I'm seriously interested in dating someone who is as like minded as myself, with neither of us being narrow minded or judgemental about our colourful past, but meeting someone who is on the same wavelength, and where you have that same physical attraction, who is not located on the other side of the country, is about as likely as The Pope becoming a Muslim. I've done the long distance romance in the past, and unless one or other is prepared to relocate, distance kills it in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag "
Always interested in more than a shag….. sex gets better the more you know someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag
Always interested in more than a shag….. sex gets better the more you know someone "
Totally agree with this and all similar posts above. Would love someone to be romantic with and have regular wild sex together. |
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag
Always interested in more than a shag….. sex gets better the more you know someone
Totally agree with this and all similar posts above. Would love someone to be romantic with and have regular wild sex together. "
Wouldn't we all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d give all this up for a more stable if casual relationship. Not into totally vanilla, love a bit of kink and love animals. Not the greatest looking but have a good heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Post yourself if your potentially interested in dating a fellow swinger / interested in more than a shag
Always interested in more than a shag….. sex gets better the more you know someone
Totally agree with this and all similar posts above. Would love someone to be romantic with and have regular wild sex together.
Wouldn't we all "
Indeed true here!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 years single & beginning to think a relationship might be nice at some point in the not-too-distant future"
I entirely agree! Wishing you much success!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect? "
I don't see the problem? Im upfront about being non-monogamous and kinky. |
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Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me "
Ah well thanks for the cynical essay full of tropes about "everyone" and fussy women and guys who don't have a chance. Awesome.
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect? "
I've told them. Nothing has worked out with any, but we chat.
A couple have even signed up to fab now |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I've told them. Nothing has worked out with any, but we chat.
A couple have even signed up to fab now "
I have told guys who have shown an interest, but it always backfires because they think they can skip any idea of dating & go straight for the sex & nothing else  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I've told them. Nothing has worked out with any, but we chat.
A couple have even signed up to fab now "
It’s really hard isn’t it. I was seeing someone recently from a dating app, they said they were open to sharing,,came to a few clubs, even had a couple of men , but ultimately they really wanted to be exclusive and said they had fallen for me so I ended it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I've told them. Nothing has worked out with any, but we chat.
A couple have even signed up to fab now
It’s really hard isn’t it. I was seeing someone recently from a dating app, they said they were open to sharing,,came to a few clubs, even had a couple of men , but ultimately they really wanted to be exclusive and said they had fallen for me so I ended it."
My boyfriend ended our relationship because he couldn't cope with me being kinky and didn't cope with any mention of other men (I wasn't seeing anyone else anyway due to Covid). Even if you tell people upfront - often they just think you'll change your mind. And get over it. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me "
What a load of bollocks. Plenty of really nice genuine guys on here doing fine. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I've told them. Nothing has worked out with any, but we chat.
A couple have even signed up to fab now
It’s really hard isn’t it. I was seeing someone recently from a dating app, they said they were open to sharing,,came to a few clubs, even had a couple of men , but ultimately they really wanted to be exclusive and said they had fallen for me so I ended it.
My boyfriend ended our relationship because he couldn't cope with me being kinky and didn't cope with any mention of other men (I wasn't seeing anyone else anyway due to Covid). Even if you tell people upfront - often they just think you'll change your mind. And get over it. "
You can’t change who you are.
Agreeing what level of detail to tell a parter about others is tricky, they have to tell you what they do/don’t want to know and be honest. I don’t like having to think to hard before speaking , and change what I say, especially to someone I care about so prefer full openness |
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"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me
What a load of bollocks. Plenty of really nice genuine guys on here doing fine."
Yes I’m sure some guys are doing fine on here
Small minority |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me
What a load of bollocks. Plenty of really nice genuine guys on here doing fine.
Yes I’m sure some guys are doing fine on here
Small minority "
That’s only because there’s so many men on here who aren’t actually available, like you said , in relationships and here secretly. When they get a meet they often don’t turn up, or sleep with someone they don’t fancy out of desperation , then ghost them.
So the choice for women isn’t really that great is it ?
So if you are a decent person and actually single and turn up you shouldn’t struggle, but it does take time and effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me "
I did virtual dating during lockdown with a French guy on Fab. We used to video chat for hours and it was great fun. But you have to have a connection and he was very experienced, charming and romantic so we sometimes chatted and role played every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most single males on here are married or in a relationship and Log in and off with out other half’s permission ( I no this because I was once a cuck And had access to our couples profile)
The actual single males don’t really stand a chance because of the volume
What I mean is too much choice makes a female over fussy and she flicks from one really nice guy to a Brad Pitt it Ronaldo look a like who is a dick
It’s virtually impossible for a genuine guy to date on here
Trouble these days is everyone makes an assumption on looks and if they actually got to now someone they would see through there fantasy goggles .
Virtual dating is not far away trust me
I did virtual dating during lockdown with a French guy on Fab. We used to video chat for hours and it was great fun. But you have to have a connection and he was very experienced, charming and romantic so we sometimes chatted and role played every day. "
Bravo and congratulations, Louisa Might!
Sounds like a great arrangement for today’s world! Exactly what I seek. Your points are spot-on
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I don't see the problem? Im upfront about being non-monogamous and kinky. "
I tell them..reaction has been mainly curious about it.
But I am looking for one on one dating, & maybe a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I don't see the problem? Im upfront about being non-monogamous and kinky.
I tell them..reaction has been mainly curious about it.
But I am looking for one on one dating, & maybe a relationship "
Yes I've found that curiousity rules. Do you want someone who is into swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you would be honest with a potential partner about being on here if you got chatting on a dating app such as tinder ect?
I don't see the problem? Im upfront about being non-monogamous and kinky.
I tell them..reaction has been mainly curious about it.
But I am looking for one on one dating, & maybe a relationship
Yes I've found that curiousity rules. Do you want someone who is into swinging?"
Oooooh there's a question
They could be a swinger,but ultimately I would just like us to be exclusive, unlikely on here I guess,but you never know. |
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