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How long haven’t you had sex?
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6 weeks for me has been the longest in my sexually active life. That was after childbirth.
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over a year ago
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19 years and 7 months |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 whole days, it’s a long and distant memory. Hope I remember what to do |
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6 days, 9 hours, and 42 minutes, but who's counting |
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About 36 hours ish. I haven’t forgotten. I’m still fuming that he got my hair wet  |
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About 6 hours ago!
C will have closed up by now 
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Longest was three years without |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just under 3 years.
Wtf ??  "
What?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three years when I moved to England. Despair squids. |
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About seven years. Kinda stop counting after the first few  |
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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Long enough that I can't remember with certainty which year it was |
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"Just under 3 years.
Wtf ??
What? "
You mean that's the longest you've gone without , or since the last time you did |
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About 15 hours ago but if you count oral about 2 hours ago |
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Longest I've gone without is close to 10 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1,000 years ago it feels like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will be 11 years this valentine's day coming  |
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Since my last verification. Wow I just surprised myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seriously don't know how people cope not having sex. I would miss it so much and be permanently horny and frustrated.
Is it a case of once you've been without sex for so long you no longer miss it? I'm genuinely interested. |
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8 months ago  but plenty of wand moments that being 3 hrs ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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July 21 |
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I’m May last year, and I’m now beyond frustrated!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 3 years |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I seriously don't know how people cope not having sex. I would miss it so much and be permanently horny and frustrated.
Is it a case of once you've been without sex for so long you no longer miss it? I'm genuinely interested."
For me it’s sort of at that stage; I like the idea of it but not having it isn’t a massive issue. It’s been just over three years, which isn’t long compared to some, but enough for it to be a bit of a dimmed memory/feeling.
The bigger issue is getting the opportunity again. It’s really unnerving, wondering if I’m just going to be a disappointment to someone and whether I just feel awkward being intimate again. |
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8 days with another rendezvous with the same woman booked for next Saturday. |
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The first 14.5 years of my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frustrating isn't it... 10 days ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About a week I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too long! |
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Currently about a week. Longest was 9 months. |
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By *m389Man
over a year ago
Bromley |
Too long. My virginity has grown back. |
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Been a few days now. Time for a tension release |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Since January 2019 and not fazed by it seriously because the years before made up for my adventurous lifestyle now just numb |
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About ten years from the time that my gender dysphoria became a problem (though I didn't even know that that was the problem) until the first time I had sex with a woman as a woman. [No other type of sex during that period either] |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
10 hours ago.
My) longest without was 2 years. It was great.. The right thing to happen although frustrating at times. I learnt so much about myself, healed alot and now I have the best sex life ever!
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"I seriously don't know how people cope not having sex. I would miss it so much and be permanently horny and frustrated.
Is it a case of once you've been without sex for so long you no longer miss it? I'm genuinely interested."
It's never a priority and hasn't been for many years. When it happens now it's great and amazing but I always see it as a bonus.
One of the only things that actually annoys me these days is seeing grown adults prioritising sex above everything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been 3 days. I'm sure it's like riding a bike, once I'm on I won't fall off  |
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Still counting….. will let everyone know when it happens though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't count that far back. |
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I did a 4 year celibacy stint through choice after a relationship breakdown |
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Mine is about 10 years and counting |
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A week. Hopefully back in the saddle today x  |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
A very long time ago 2 many years to count |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been 3 days. I'm sure it's like riding a bike, once I'm on I won't fall off "
That's 3 days too many....can I be your bike please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time for me was December 2019 |
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Several months during lockdown , I have been trying to make up for it ever since
Currently it’s been … several days, I’m practically a virgin again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since now or the longest stint?
From today - a few hours.
Longest stint - it was probably around 3-4 months. Very ill post childbirth |
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Longest gone 18 months over lockdown currently on 7 days since. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"Since now or the longest stint?
From today - a few hours.
Longest stint - it was probably around 3-4 months. Very ill post childbirth "
Using these measurements its gotta be nearly a week so far and because we were ill it's been a bit longer realistically.
Longest overall about 9 months, after baby I was not feeling it |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
From today - 3weeks ago
Longest - about 6 months I was very unwell at the time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last sex was with a friend on here back mid October,
Last playtime with the wife was November, no sex involved though.
Had a few BJ’s or mutual wanking since then as well, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need a refresher course, anyone available |
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Just over a year, I recently rectified that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think three months is my record... But currently we are at 4 days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that long ago |
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Been that long l forget who gets tied up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate to admit it but coming up to two years wow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you remember it? "
Never going to forget it!
New Year's Eve/New Year's Day morning.
First time in almost 20 years, and not through Fab, I must say.
Fucking incredible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About three weeks. I'm not feeling 2022 at all. Very out of sorts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 years  |
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Longest has been between 18 months and 2 years....hoping I wont have that long a break again hehe |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
About 8 years.
Currently- 2 years & 2 months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been 3 days. I'm sure it's like riding a bike, once I'm on I won't fall off
That's 3 days too many....can I be your bike please "
Get in the gear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Longest without was over a year. I got used to it after about three months and didn't miss sex at all for the rest of the year. The first sex that came after my hiatus opened the flood gates though and I was insatiable
Currently I had sex last time on the New Year's Day so just over two weeks ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since early November.
12 months at one point during my (now ended) marriage.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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During my marriage I went for 12 months without sex.
NBVN x |
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"During my marriage I went for 12 months without sex.
NBVN x"
Is poster above you your ex husband? 
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"During my marriage I went for 12 months without sex.
NBVN x
Is poster above you your ex husband?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"During my marriage I went for 12 months without sex.
NBVN x
Is poster above you your ex husband?
K"
I can categorically say that I wouldn't have been able to keep my hands of for 12 months.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"During my marriage I went for 12 months without sex.
NBVN x
Is poster above you your ex husband?
K"
no thank goodness he isn't.... omg imagine it was him
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just over 2 weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as at today - 2 day's
J xx |
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Full penetrative sex? Over 10 years now |
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"Will be 11 years this valentine's day coming "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Full penetrative sex? Over 10 years now "
WoW that's a very long time and having read your profile I understand and sympathise with you - because you have a excellent body and great looking cock - god knows why the ladies are passing you by
Good luck fella
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Oh I remember the olympics were on, if honest it may well have been the London 2012 games agggghh! |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
Yes I do, it was in 2016, half a decade ago |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
48 hours ago.....and oh my gosh I remember it so well, xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That makes me the winner so....or loser whichever way you look at it. Last time 14/02/2011  |
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I went for about 2 and a half years, I think that was the longest. Wasn't very well, didn't have any interest in men or physical contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple of years, longest is about 5 years |
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If we're talking about now, it's been a couple of months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pre-pandemic |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
I (M) was on nights on Saturday, but S was "feeling it".
I had an early shower and then instead of getting my uniform on I just went through to S, hopped on the good foot and we did the bad thing.
Excellent pre night-shift quickie. It always wakes me up, while it always makes S feel sleepy.
Win-win! |
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My last sexual encounter was pre-pandemic but I have had periods in my life where I have gone similar timespans. I worked overseas for much of my career and was cautious (due to where I was working, the economic disparity and culture).
I mean it’s always lovely to have sex, but it has to be the right kind of sex |
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About 16 hours....think my legs have just about stopped shaking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 16 hours....think my legs have just about stopped shaking x"
All right, there's no need to rub it in! |
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"About 16 hours....think my legs have just about stopped shaking x
All right, there's no need to rub it in! "
Funny enough...I did that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three half years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 16 hours....think my legs have just about stopped shaking x
All right, there's no need to rub it in!
Funny enough...I did that too "
This is cerebral BDSM! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alone, last night.
With somebody, I think the mayans were still developing a calendar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is giving me severe depression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually can't remember by now, it's about 6 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 5 days ago was for last time, and longest is probably 6 weeks ish ( after child birth )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In between relationships when I decided to give up and concentrate on getting fit again....about a year I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 and a half Months |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
Waiting for hubs to take me up on my offers…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just under 3 years.
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how the fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 9 months now! If I dont get It soon I'm going to make a hole in my bed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An hour! "
Congratulations! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been too long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think my last bit of sex was July 2020.
Which was a fun time as I had to perform oral and pleasure her until she had cum before she would let me inside her (totally loved that kind of domination)
But towards the end of last year, had a couple of meets with someone where I'd go and used toys on her and she'd tease my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over two years now and zero signs that the drought will end anytime soon |
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8 months ago
Think am slowly becoming a virgin again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Full sex, Oct 2020 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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14.02.2011 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 months ago
Think am slowly becoming a virgin again lol"
I’m seriously contemplating a sex change so I can play with a pussy agsin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t even remember now… September maybe, so what, 4 months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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13140 hours...give or take an hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask me in a few hours. Hopefully answer will be different to my previous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 12 hours now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still nothing since June |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few hours xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently now. Not had anything at all since march 2021
Starting to think something is wrong with me at this point |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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2 years.
Not the longest. I can go longer. I don’t feel very attractive at the moment as I’m peri menopausal and my hormones are all over the shop etc and my sex drive has plummeted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 weeks and counting |
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It’s been far too long. I do remember and I’m off for some more later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This whole damn year. And a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A gentleman never tells
5 4 3 2 1 along time ago |
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By *pen2UMan
over a year ago
Telford |
Been 2 years for me. Seems like everyone doesnt really want to have it passionately lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's a necessity anymore. The mind adjusts. |
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It’s been 3 days and I’m gagging!
K |
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12 weeks, I had a nasty accident and have been to uncomfortable, my husband & I are at exploding point with frustration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour "
I’ll end this run. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. "
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A little forward, do I even know you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?"
No, but where would be the fun in that. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Bout hour and a half now.
I'm bloody gagging for it |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?"
You're just another girl to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?
No, but where would be the fun in that. "
Bring it on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saturday Morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?
No, but where would be the fun in that.
Bring it on"
Omg get a room already! |
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Was just before Christmas so about a month now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?
No, but where would be the fun in that.
Bring it on
Omg get a room already! "
working on it.
She’s all about stranger danger. |
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By *akbearMan
over a year ago
Newbury |
Long dry spell, I'm blaming Covid and being vulnerable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Long dry spell, I'm blaming Covid and being vulnerable."
I'm blaming my fussy vagina |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"13140 hours...give or take an hour
I’ll end this run. .
A little forward, do I even know you?
No, but where would be the fun in that.
Bring it on
Omg get a room already!
working on it.
She’s all about stranger danger."
It doesn't seem right to say good luck somehow! |
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over a year ago
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Full sex, Oct 2020, I did have an oral play on holiday last November though. |
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over a year ago
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As at 5.03pm today, 33 hours and 3 minutes  |
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over a year ago
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"As at 5.03pm today, 33 hours and 3 minutes "
Hang on, is this a “how long since your last bonk” or “how long have you gone between knee-tremblers during your longest dry spell” thread?
If the former, the answer above applies.
If the latter probably about 16 -18 months  |
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over a year ago
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3 months |
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over a year ago
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4 months |
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over a year ago
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Too long |
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Forty minutes ago, and I can definitely remember it |
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12 hours ago, can't go long without it |
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over a year ago
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772 days …. not that I’m counting |
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over a year ago
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About 2 years... |
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