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over a year ago
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"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab
I have a normal relationship with fab..what does that even mean.. normal… I’m not normal
Mrs x"
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over a year ago
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"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.
I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.
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Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope |
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How do you define normal? If you mean monogamous then no.
However we are in a ethically non-monogamous relationship now and I class that as normal. And if this ever ended then I would look for a similar relationship
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"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.
I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.
Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope "
I'd always come back for a smooch from you   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.
I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.
Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope
I'd always come back for a smooch from you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will never have a conventional relationship again! But decided that long before fabs x
After I posted...I thought that I could possibly see myself in a swinging relationship."
and you will never be short of offers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ov course, i dont have casual sex with multiple partners.. quality over quantity please, ive been on here as part of a couple over the years and had loads of fun together with the love of fab Voyeurs but primarily im a one on one guy i could function just well without fab and have done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course, but my definition of normal may not be yours. I would have no problem being monogamous, but still think that allows for being adventurous/kinky in the context of 'normal' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course, but my definition of normal may not be yours. I would have no problem being monogamous, but still think that allows for being adventurous/kinky in the context of 'normal' "
^ this for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab"
Yes. Fab is a bridge for me to conquer the gap in my life made by my own choice to stay single.
I was a victim of domestic violence, including sexual assult by that same ex partner. As you can imagine, I'm in no rush to settle down. I stayed clear of men for two years then came on here. I'm not ready for a close relationship. That being said, I don't believe all men are the same. I'm not scared of men in general. Most of you are pretty amazing people. I merely miss hugs and sex if I'm being honest. I don't miss being in a relationship. Currently, the idea makes me feel suffocated.
When I'm ready, for definite, I will look to settle down. I've been floating the idea of eventually finding a boyfriend who is open to sharing. Not play together. Meeting others alone. For him and for me. Upon reflection of my past healthy relationships, I realised how bored I felt but still at those times, adored my then boyfriend.
I wonder whether having a open relationship, is the way forward for me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the second question is would you tell your new partner about your swinging past? "
The past is the past. Which poses no relevance to the present or future. Whatever you did in the past is not your current or future partners business. People tend to judge on things that don't involve them. Don't give them the opportunity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes of course we always put it in the toy box until next time x "
Was going to message you simply to say lovely pics but can't due to filters. Hence why I'm now littering your last viewed  |
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We could leave FAB tomorrow and have a relationship which leaves us fulfilled.
But I don’t think it could be defined as normal…it would be very kink led.
We’ve both found ourselves through FAB, we’ve both become much more open people and so we wouldn’t ever go back to our old lives.
We are enjoying the opportunities FAB provides and long may it continue 
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah of course. I’m not sure why everyone gets hung up on it. I’ve had the best sex off Fab!"
Same here, ive found fab encounters very vanilla compared. |
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