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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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No , I'm not talking about Titanic 
Yesterday I did something I had thought I would never do again... I was a nude model for a life drawing hen party. The first time I did it, it was nerve racking, standing butt naked in front of a dozen tipsy ladies giggling, probably objectifying me, making snarky comments ("can you shake your ass cheeks for us" was just one of them ) ...yes women can be like that. However yesterday, which was the second time, I felt different (although I still got the sexual banter and snarky comments) I think I just didn't care that much, I just went in , did what I had to do, and got out... and I can tell you it is a head on approach of dealing with body insecurities and low self esteem  ...and that's probably the main reason I have done it.
Has anyone else done something similar? Or would you ever do it? |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hell no - if you got comments with your six pack and muscles on muscles then I’d be eviscerated"
It's half d*unk women...they don't care about muscles...they only care it's a naked random guy in front of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing, sounds so much fun!!! Was it also for a hen do??
U should get into the one where they actually have painters ahha u might see some amazing work done about your bod!! X
Hope it wasn’t too cold in there M |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace "
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Amazing, sounds so much fun!!! Was it also for a hen do??
U should get into the one where they actually have painters ahha u might see some amazing work done about your bod!! X
Hope it wasn’t too cold in there M "
I've done the body paint work before, but I was only topless for that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies "
Hope she made pretty penises at least  |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Hope she made pretty penises at least "
Butterflies looked better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love this post. Every year I write a list of achievements to accomplish.
I'm on my second pole dancing class this weekend. For sure I lack grace but I love it.
Bravo. I'd consider life drawing model one year if I was more toned and in a different area X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At first when I read this, I paid no heed to the profile pic, and thought it was Meli who had written it. I did think it slightly unusual that a group of hens had chosen a woman to model for them
Anyway, good for you  You have a great body, so why not ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies "
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people "
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No , I'm not talking about Titanic
Yesterday I did something I had thought I would never do again... I was a nude model for a life drawing hen party. The first time I did it, it was nerve racking, standing butt naked in front of a dozen tipsy ladies giggling, probably objectifying me, making snarky comments ("can you shake your ass cheeks for us" was just one of them ) ...yes women can be like that. However yesterday, which was the second time, I felt different (although I still got the sexual banter and snarky comments) I think I just didn't care that much, I just went in , did what I had to do, and got out... and I can tell you it is a head on approach of dealing with body insecurities and low self esteem ...and that's probably the main reason I have done it.
Has anyone else done something similar? Or would you ever do it?"
I would love to do it. But I'd fully expect all sorts of comments. However famous artworks quite often featured fuller figured subjects so id not care about the comments. I'd be more interested to see the results after but that probably vecyae I take an interest in art. Body confidence wise I wonder if it would even affect me.
How do you get into this?
Good for you doing it and not letting the first experience stop you.
PW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it happens, I need to brush up on my drawing skills. Free next Thursday?
Took the words right out of my mouth
I'm free today 
Let me just try and find some crayons "
I’ll bring the chunky triangular ones for better grip |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like "
Can't promise you won't look like Dennis the Menace but I'll give it a go if you like |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like
Can't promise you won't look like Dennis the Menace but I'll give it a go if you like "
Yes please |
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"No , I'm not talking about Titanic
Yesterday I did something I had thought I would never do again... I was a nude model for a life drawing hen party. The first time I did it, it was nerve racking, standing butt naked in front of a dozen tipsy ladies giggling, probably objectifying me, making snarky comments ("can you shake your ass cheeks for us" was just one of them ) ...yes women can be like that. However yesterday, which was the second time, I felt different (although I still got the sexual banter and snarky comments) I think I just didn't care that much, I just went in , did what I had to do, and got out... and I can tell you it is a head on approach of dealing with body insecurities and low self esteem ...and that's probably the main reason I have done it.
Has anyone else done something similar? Or would you ever do it?"
Well firstly; we’re you paid? If so, then it’s a no brainier just lead the way!
I studied art at college and later at university, I did lots of life drawing and though I never did any posing, it would not phase me in the least.
One of the very well known clichés thrown around in life drawing is that you don’t want body beautiful models, The Rubensian figure is much better as it gives you something to get your pencil around !
I don’t think anyone should be ashamed of their body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like
Can't promise you won't look like Dennis the Menace but I'll give it a go if you like
Yes please "
Any picture in particular you'd like me to use as inspiration? |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like
Can't promise you won't look like Dennis the Menace but I'll give it a go if you like
Yes please
Any picture in particular you'd like me to use as inspiration? "
May I PM you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good for you, sounds empowering
I couldn't do it tbf, I certainly wouldn't want to see the results if I did....Like an advert for Green peace
I wouldn't care that much about the results...you're not being drawn by artists, but by regular people...one of the ladies yesterday just drew a bunch of penises and butterflies
Sounds like the sort of thing I would do
I love drawing but mainly animals, landscapes and cartoon characters.
I don't think my talents stretch to people
I'd love to be drawn as a cartoon character ....always wanted to see how I would look like
Can't promise you won't look like Dennis the Menace but I'll give it a go if you like
Yes please
Any picture in particular you'd like me to use as inspiration?
May I PM you?"
Of course you can x |
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I've attended a ton of life drawing groups (posed a couple of times tho not in group setting)
depends on the kinda group you attend but I've drawn an painted just about every male and female body type you can imagine.
If it's a thing you'd like to do i can assure you that your body type (whatever it is) is a body type people want to draw.
Ive been in groups where hen parties do occasionally turn up but tbh, the air of concentration within the group is quite infectious so a few girlie giggles but models get respect as they should.
Unless it's a 'special' group, I've never seen a male model get hard; proper posing is hard work, no energy left for stiffies
and yes, I've been in 'special' life drawing groups too...tho not for ages x |
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By *agicM53X OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have to ask. Did you get erm excited whilst being drawn?
Excited as in an erection? 
Yeah. I remember a thread like this before and he did. "
God no...a man needs to feel and be very comfortable in order to get aroused...to be naked in front of a group of random people is psychologically draining. You are the center of attention and to deal with that is mentally exhausting. If a man said he nude modelled in front of a group of people and got an erection...my first reaction would be " you're full of sh*t" ...but who knows, maybe...can't speak for all men |
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"I have to ask. Did you get erm excited whilst being drawn?
Excited as in an erection?
Yeah. I remember a thread like this before and he did.
God no...a man needs to feel and be very comfortable in order to get aroused...to be naked in front of a group of random people is psychologically draining. You are the center of attention and to deal with that is mentally exhausting. If a man said he nude modelled in front of a group of people and got an erection...my first reaction would be " you're full of sh*t" ...but who knows, maybe...can't speak for all men"
Yeah you’re probably right. It was on here haha x |
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"OP, can I draw* you like one of my French girls?
*The definition of 'draw' is very loose 
 ... what do you mean ?"
I'm being silly. I can't draw to save my life. If I tried to draw you (or a French girl or anyone else), it'd probably be a stick person with a line for a sticky-out penis. I may extend to drawing the lines in different colours, but that's pushing the limits of my drawing skills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, can I draw* you like one of my French girls?
*The definition of 'draw' is very loose
... what do you mean ?
I'm being silly. I can't draw to save my life. If I tried to draw you (or a French girl or anyone else), it'd probably be a stick person with a line for a sticky-out penis. I may extend to drawing the lines in different colours, but that's pushing the limits of my drawing skills. "
I knew what you meant Kinky! I’d be the same. I draw a half decent house and that’s about it |
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"OP, can I draw* you like one of my French girls?
*The definition of 'draw' is very loose
... what do you mean ?
I'm being silly. I can't draw to save my life. If I tried to draw you (or a French girl or anyone else), it'd probably be a stick person with a line for a sticky-out penis. I may extend to drawing the lines in different colours, but that's pushing the limits of my drawing skills.
I knew what you meant Kinky! I’d be the same. I draw a half decent house and that’s about it "
I can do pigs, cats and penguins. People are tricky! I would love to take erotic photos of people though. I'm taking a photography course at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been previously asked to do this for a local art class. I was seriously considering it but noticed in their FB group one of the attendees was a lady who I used to work for so declined. Would love to be drawn or photographed by someone though. |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
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It's an interesting thought. I couldn't do it for a hen or stag group or that sort of thing, but for an actual art class I reckon I could.
It would be a massive test because I don't really have the confidence to be naked in front of people I don't know, and the idea is actually making me nervous even now. But that's the point I guess.
I hear they really like rolls of fat and stretch marks and all that, so they'd love me. Plus I'm really good at not moving (yeah, the sack of spuds position is my favourite .... random segue  )
I don't think I'd want to see the results though, because it wouldn't be about that, and would likely make me focus on all the parts of me I hate the most
I have recently had a conversation with a certain person about him drawing me like one of *his* French girls..... but we will have to see
Posh
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I would do it, because I think it’s quite liberating, and also pushing comfort zones is good for growth. 