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By *appyface OP Man
over a year ago
East Devon |
How many people have had sexually mismatched partners ( long term ) and how did it affect you and your relationship.
I was married to a lovely lady, however she was a make love once a week type person, whereby I was the type of person who wanted to be in the Fab the lifestyle.
Her sex drive (and also desire for loving closeness ) was very much lower than mine and completely less adventurous and imaginative, I suggested that she have other lovers to explore her sexuality and for her pleasure, and I would only ever have her ( no other partners ) in an effort to try and awake a more active and adventurous side to her, sadly did not help.
I felt totally dead inside, and was just existing rather than feeling alive. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
Yes, my ex wife and I were very mismatched and it only seemed to get worse over the years, there were other reasons for our eventual break up, but the sexual incompatibility really didn’t help. |
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By *appyface OP Man
over a year ago
East Devon |
Why, very long complicated story, I should of added in my original post, my wife was very cunning, and ultimately controlling, I guess coercive behaviour, she would do whatever she had to do or say to get what she wanted, but once that happened the promises did not materialise etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why, very long complicated story, I should of added in my original post, my wife was very cunning, and ultimately controlling, I guess coercive behaviour, she would do whatever she had to do or say to get what she wanted, but once that happened the promises did not materialise etc etc. "
Weren't you trying to coerce her into having sex with others? |
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By *appyface OP Man
over a year ago
East Devon |
Coerce no, encourage yes.
I was not allowed out of the house on my own, was not allowed money, at one stage not allowed a phone, please don’t judge me, you really don’t know the whole story.
I was happy to be controlled, but it needed to be a positive experience, not just control. |
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"Coerce no, encourage yes.
I was not allowed out of the house on my own, was not allowed money, at one stage not allowed a phone, please don’t judge me, you really don’t know the whole story.
I was happy to be controlled, but it needed to be a positive experience, not just control. "
You dont get to choose boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ahh sorry to hear that you had bad relationships but to answer the question yes. It is possible if your willing to make the sacrifice in a healthy, intimate relationship as this is our relationship. |
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