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Trying to find a bi couple is hard on fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re a bi couple and we too find it a struggle to find a couple where both the guy and the lady are fully bi, usually it’s just the lady that’s bi and the guy straight.which is great for me being a female but frustrating for my partner and tbh I find it frustrating sometimes as a huge turn on for me is seeing my partner with both a guy and a lady. We can find plenty of single bi guys but there doesn’t seem to be that many in a couple
Or we have come across quite a few where the male says straight but turns out to be bi. I don’t get why in this day and age people sorry to say men especially aren’t more open with their sexuality especially on a place like fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or we have come across quite a few where the male says straight but turns out to be bi. I don’t get why in this day and age people sorry to say men especially aren’t more open with their sexuality especially on a place like fab."
Because for us the male half is sometimes bi with the right guy and right mood (bi-curious then?).
However we changed our profile to say straight as it's a very small aspect of what we're looking for and not something which would happen at every meet. We had problems that many couples would read the "bi-curious" part and think it was the female half which caused a lot of confusion. Also we got even more low quality messages from single men than usual when the profile said bi-curious which was tiring.
If we wanted a guy for a bi threesome now then we'd just update the profile when we are looking and approach them or just suggest it to friends we found in clubs. |
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"We’re a bi couple and we too find it a struggle to find a couple where both the guy and the lady are fully bi, usually it’s just the lady that’s bi and the guy straight.which is great for me being a female but frustrating for my partner and tbh I find it frustrating sometimes as a huge turn on for me is seeing my partner with both a guy and a lady. We can find plenty of single bi guys but there doesn’t seem to be that many in a couple
Or we have come across quite a few where the male says straight but turns out to be bi. I don’t get why in this day and age people sorry to say men especially aren’t more open with their sexuality especially on a place like fab."
Because a fair amount or people don’t like it, and you see profiles that say no bi-men.
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"I’m finding it hard to meet a bi couple
Probably because your profile says you’re straight..
go figure.."
This.
We look for bi men but he wouldn't turn up in our search because the profile says straight. |
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By *byeguysCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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Normally the issue with us is that the woman is bi but the guy is straight. For us to meet couples, obviously a bi guy would be better though it’s not a deal breaker if we’re all focussing on the woman.
But your profile saying you’re straight when you’re obviously not will have people passing you over.
People have spoken on here before about guys claiming to be bi and then only wanting to be with the woman so you saying you’re straight means they’re not gonna take that chance with you straight from the off. |
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