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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "
Totally.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "
I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing
I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop."
Spot on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.
If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well. 
Us too
Wolf
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Same here if we weren't as open and honest as we are i don't think we would have survived That's when you start keeping secrets from each other. It also becomes hard to tell each other what your thinking.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.
If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??
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I believe that swinging should be off the cards when there is a problem in the relationship - swinging can never cure problems, it can only mask them temporarily but then it will inevitably lead to a greater rift. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally agree, I find it difficult to understand how a couple can swing without being totally honest and open.
If any of the 'domestics' Ive witnessed in clubs is anything to go by, it must cause problems in their relationship??
I believe that swinging should be off the cards when there is a problem in the relationship - swinging can never cure problems, it can only mask them temporarily but then it will inevitably lead to a greater rift. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty in swinging is crucial - but then, for me it is crucial in everyday life as well.
Us too
Wolf
Same here if we weren't as open and honest as we are i don't think we would have survived That's when you start keeping secrets from each other. It also becomes hard to tell each other what your thinking.
Or do i sound mad? "
no not at all.
Those things get in the way then, and make it hard to talk with your partner - been there done that in previous lives. Thankfully these days I'm really really lucky in having a partner I can discuss anything with, and as we think so alike - it's as easy as breathing. You can take on anything then can't you...it's so easy
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing
I agree, and would add honesty and openness is the key to a relationship, full stop."
That saved me typing. |
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "
We are exactly the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I have to admit that Mr J believes in honesty between us and others that we play with....
He knows he has it from me, as I am married and my husband is fully aware of everything Mr J and I do. Hell we even get to play altogether from time to time. I am a lucky girl, but if there is no honesty and openess then it could not go on. I have to be honest with my husband and Mr J, its not in my nature to be dishonest in all fairness, i hate it.... really do.
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"We are a strictly no secrets couple in our relationship. We believe that honesty and openness is the key to our relationship.. this shocks many of the people we play with or message us asking for meets. We play together and separately . I always say hot does not need permission to play as we discuss everything either of us plan to do. It shocks me the amount of people who are shocked about the openness of our relationship. Do you agree . Honesty and openness is key to any couple who swing "
We too are very much the same where we play alone and trust each others judgement on potential playmates....without trust and honesty we wouldnt be here  |
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