We are a married couple. After months of discussion we have finally decided the time is right for our first MMF. We’ve met for a social (outstanding single male) had a tease and ready to set something up. Really interested to hear from couples about their first time, the actual act itself and the emotional side after. Did it stop right there? Was it so good you decided you wanted more?? |
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Where you're all straight?
We've experienced this a few times. When all three of you gel it's great, things sort of fall into place.
We've never experienced any emotional fallout because we pretty much know where our boundaries are and have a firm dividing line between love and sex in our minds. We would welcome the opportunity for repeat meets if we all got along.
I think it all very much depends on your mindset. If in doubt... don't. Is my motto  |
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"Where you're all straight?
We've experienced this a few times. When all three of you gel it's great, things sort of fall into place.
We've never experienced any emotional fallout because we pretty much know where our boundaries are and have a firm dividing line between love and sex in our minds. We would welcome the opportunity for repeat meets if we all got along.
I think it all very much depends on your mindset. If in doubt... don't. Is my motto "
All of the above for us too |
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Hi
We decided to delve into the straight mfm dynamic last year after many years of bi ffm and thinking it was all we’d ever want.
We spent a lot of time making sure we found the perfect other and amazingly discovered that he also found us just as perfect for him.
It was a hell of a lot of fun.
We didn’t have any jealousy problems at all and the whole evening and following morning went just as we’d all discussed.
Make sure you have any boundaries in place between you all and just enjoy yourselves.
You’ll be fine xx |
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"Oh hahah.
I think it’s more nerves but naturally I guess how we will feel after? I’m not the Jealous type, neither of us are but I guess it’s normal to feel like that? "
It's normal to have concerns |
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I paid a ‘masseur’ the first time!!! We could turn the heat up or down and weren’t wasting anyone’s time! Talking about it and doing it are very different! It was actually fairly tame but left us wanting more! Straight single men for us!
It never occurred to me that there was a difference between MMF & MFM … everyday’s a school day!  |
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"I paid a ‘masseur’ the first time!!! We could turn the heat up or down and weren’t wasting anyone’s time! Talking about it and doing it are very different! It was actually fairly tame but left us wanting more! Straight single men for us!
It never occurred to me that there was a difference between MMF & MFM … everyday’s a school day! "
We never knew either or gave it much thought!
Just easier to type MMF |
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