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Why does 95% of diets fail?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that the main reason for it is cos they are not sustainable in the long run, because they are too strict, they key is to have a diet that feels like you are not dieting at all, like the one I am following, flexible dieting, where I can enjoy all the food, the key is to bring in all the food in the circle, not restricting them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because food is goooooddd

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Did you say picnic? I'm coming

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By *yron69Man  over a year ago

Fareham

Is this an actual statistical fact?

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon

I’m on a whiskey and garlic diet. So far I’ve lost four days and six friends.

People diet to make a change but in reality trying to change in a short term what has taken decades to create. You are what you are.

Permanent small changes on a sustainable basis - diet and exercise. Takes a few mo this but you will see results. Off to the gym later!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of discipline I guess . It's easy to say what you want to do. Doing it is another matter!

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

Diets will nearly always fail as its a constant, endless fight.

You need a lifestyle change so that it's no longer a diet, but just... normal life.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because life throws you a curveball at any random time, one blip and it all goes down the pan

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Yes it's the sustainability plus the human body is good at conserving it's fat resources to survive a famine.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

1. Pack of understanding on why diets work / energy balance

2. Too extreme so impossible to follow

Most people want to quickly lose 15lbs then return to their normal eating habits. That’s destined to fail

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Diets are bs. It needs to be a healthy life style, one that you can maintain on a permanent basis

None of them are one size fits all, everyone needs to find what works for them.

I can say what works for me, but it won’t work for others…

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

Diets are a short term fix to lose weight. They will work if followed correctly but the minute you stop them the weight goes back on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sensible eating /exercise... It's all a balance and needs to be a habit that is part of a lifestyle rather than something you do for a month.. You can't just do something different for a month and then revert to type and expect miracles

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because it is an extreme change of lifestyle. Your bound to resort back to your old habits.

Its like a mother holding her newborn baby for hours then all of sudden passin the baby off to someone else. (when the baby notices the sudden change they will cry till they make it back to mom

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Because food is goooooddd "
Yes, you are right there too lol

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Did you say picnic? I'm coming "
Yes I did as well, lets bring some tuna sandwiches lol

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Of the people I know who've lost weight the only ones who have maintained it long term are those who changed the way they ate as a lifelong thing rather than a short-term diet. In my limited and unscientific observations diets don't and never have worked long term.

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By *ategoodbyeMan  over a year ago

Hertfordshire

The human metabolism is enormously complicated and varied. The old phrase about ‘if take in more calories than you burn, you’ll get fatter. QED.’ is such an over simplification. For example, if you reduce your calorie intake, your body may go into ‘famine survival’ mode, and alter your metabolism to preserve its precious fat reserves.

It has also been suggested that each body has its own preferred weight range, that it’s almost impossible to move out of. It goes both ways. Apparently a group of prisoners were offered early release if they could put on a certain amount of weight for a scientific experiment. Despite being given as much food as they could eat, some prisoners just couldn’t put on the required weight.

I tend to the argument that good is a drug, and the withdrawal period is the rest of your life. If the amount of food you need to eat to lose weight means that you’re hungry all the time, well, nobody can put up with that forever.

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.

I don't diet. I try to eat healthily everyday with lots of vegetables. Although I do have days or a period of time when I don't eat healthily, Christmas for example.

There are times when I go through a phase of eating ice cream every night, with added chocolate.

When I do have these periods I stop it and abstain and get back on an even keel. This can take a bit of willpower. And I stop buying it so the temptation isn't there at night.

I also like to keep active by going to the gym but I've stopped that as it is too scary just now. I have recently started running, something I have never really done and I always take the stairs when I'm at work. Twenty - 30 flights per day certainly helps.

On a vain note healthy eating and activity gives me a kick when I look in the mirror, or shop window, and I think I'm doing okay especially when I see some people I went to school with way back in the last century.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple  over a year ago

A place where others reside

Because diet/advertising focus on weight loss, body image and when people don't see results/results don't happen fast enough they believe that it's not working and return to their status quo.

Food is point valued based on fat content and sugar content with little attention paid to elements like glycemic index, physiology benefits etc.

A mix of exercise and balanced diet (chocolate/ice cream isn't all bad) which focuses on mental health and general wellbeing rather than weight loss and body image will win. Incorporating that will see some people lose weight naturally anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All diets do is make you lose water weight which you gradually put back on as you continue to consume water

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

I think most people aren’t disciplined enough to diet properly, and they get annoyed / give up with inconsistent results

To lose weight you need to be in a calorie deficit consistently

That means you need to track your food somehow, consistently

Not doing that will lead to inconsistent results.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would say that the main reason for it is cos they are not sustainable in the long run, because they are too strict, they key is to have a diet that feels like you are not dieting at all, like the one I am following, flexible dieting, where I can enjoy all the food, the key is to bring in all the food in the circle, not restricting them "

Because too many people equate the word ‘diet’ with eating less in order weigh less. We are all on a diet. The things we eat, are our diet. Pick one that is appropriate to what you want your lifestyle to support.

So you have to workout and have muscle tone etc. What’s the point of looking like that if it’s not just a byproduct of enjoying the exercise? Most ‘diets’ are based on one metric, what you weigh. It’s laughably simplistic. Does weighing less make you healthier, or allow you to walk the dog without being out of breath or make you more attractive? No.

Stopping trying diets, choose lifestyles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess it depends on which side of the diet you are on. 95% percent of diets may "fail to loose you weight", but many are 95% successful at making money for those who invented them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I guess it depends on which side of the diet you are on. 95% percent of diets may "fail to loose you weight", but many are 95% successful at making money for those who invented them "

I like this

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"I guess it depends on which side of the diet you are on. 95% percent of diets may "fail to loose you weight", but many are 95% successful at making money for those who invented them "

Plus don't all of have a diet else we would starve?

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By *oah VailMan  over a year ago

Dover

For me, the issue is always just how addictive sugar is.

I have been losing/gaining weight for years, depending on how disciplined I have managed to be in avoiding sugar.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point. "

Absolutely this too. Establishing triggers is important

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think lack of willpower is the reason most diets fail. But people's circumstances are different and dieting can be hard if you have conflicting influences.

I have successfully been on a Keto low carb diet for almost a year for health reasons and have lost 3 stone. It works for me because :

1) I enjoy cooking and have found so many delicious new recipes so I don't get bored. And when I say Delicious I mean better tasting than I've cooked before... Its been a revelation.

2) I live alone so only have myself to worry about.

This diet bans potatoes, pasta, rice, bread and beer and generally any processed foods. So you do need to have discipline to buy into the concept. And the time, inclination and skills to cook all your meals from stratch.

There are times when I do eat normally.. Eg over Xmas and on holidays.. But I immediately get back into it after these periods.

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By *erry bull1Man  over a year ago

doncaster

Because most diets are a new year fad after Xmas and soon ditched

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For me, the issue is always just how addictive sugar is.

I have been losing/gaining weight for years, depending on how disciplined I have managed to be in avoiding sugar. "

Plenty of non sugar sweeteners... I use erithritol but there's many others you can substitute one spoon for one spoon of sugar. You get the sweetness without the diabetes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All diets do is make you lose water weight which you gradually put back on as you continue to consume water "

That's rubbish. On some diets like my Keto diet it's true that the first immediate loss of weight is due to loss of retained water, so it can be quite high. I lost 6 lbs in first week. But once this water is gone reduction in weight loss slows down do you med patience. You still have to consume water for the body to function and it doesn't make you put on weight. If you do put on weight it's other factors that cause it not water.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

Absolutely this too. Establishing triggers is important "

Yep of which I have many. Currently trying to pluck up the courage to join an adult ballet class. Know I'll love it once I go, but self doubt etc etc. If I was in a better place mentally I wouldn't fall for those doubts. Stupid arse brain working on it though

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By *esthetic21Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I don't diet really I just eat the same kinda things but lower the portion size slightly to reduce calories.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Is this an actual statistical fact?"
No, but few fitness influencers are saying it like coach greg.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

Absolutely this too. Establishing triggers is important

Yep of which I have many. Currently trying to pluck up the courage to join an adult ballet class. Know I'll love it once I go, but self doubt etc etc. If I was in a better place mentally I wouldn't fall for those doubts. Stupid arse brain working on it though "

Ballet will be lovely. If you don’t enjoy it you don’t have to go back, but you might love it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because they suck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They fail because people believe to diet you have to eat next to nothing and salads all day, the key is finding something sustainable so that it doesn’t feel like you’re dieting but to also include high amounts of protein as protein fills you up!

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By *egasus NobMan  over a year ago

Merton

You have to lifestyle and prospective not just diet.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

Absolutely this too. Establishing triggers is important

Yep of which I have many. Currently trying to pluck up the courage to join an adult ballet class. Know I'll love it once I go, but self doubt etc etc. If I was in a better place mentally I wouldn't fall for those doubts. Stupid arse brain working on it though

Ballet will be lovely. If you don’t enjoy it you don’t have to go back, but you might love it "

I know, I danced until I was in my early 20's. It's more omg they'll be slimmer than me and I'll be the elephant in the room. I will love it no doubt once I go

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I would say that the main reason for it is cos they are not sustainable in the long run, because they are too strict, they key is to have a diet that feels like you are not dieting at all, like the one I am following, flexible dieting, where I can enjoy all the food, the key is to bring in all the food in the circle, not restricting them "

It depends on motivation, reasons, health, type of diet, doesn't it.

All those like WW are deliberately set up to make someone rich and you to fail, a business model that's worked for decades.

I changed my diet 14 years ago and have never gone back to old eating habits and in order to be maintain my health and be of normal size, I restrict a huge amount of food.

Addictive behaviours around food are real.

I can no more eat one potato than an alcohol can have one drink.

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By *ategoodbyeMan  over a year ago

Hertfordshire


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Addictive behaviours around food are real.

I can no more eat one potato than an alcohol can have one drink."

. I just got potatoes in a mystery box. I guess they should have put a warning on the box.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman  over a year ago

Can you find me….

You need to change your way of thinking…. Instead of a diet - healthy eating and exercise….. I’ve lost 8 st 12 lbs…. Once the feel good factor kicks in you become more motivated! X

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By *erfectman122Man  over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Because the motivation disappears

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You need to change your way of thinking…. Instead of a diet - healthy eating and exercise….. I’ve lost 8 st 12 lbs…. Once the feel good factor kicks in you become more motivated! X "

That’s amazing, and you look it too, motivation is key isn’t it, it’s all about being proactive with your life, not just reactive to body issues when they get out of hand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because all the great food is calorific and addictive.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman  over a year ago

Can you find me….


"Because the motivation disappears "

Well it hasn’t cause I e kept the weight off

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By *merald Eyes XWoman  over a year ago

Can you find me….


"You need to change your way of thinking…. Instead of a diet - healthy eating and exercise….. I’ve lost 8 st 12 lbs…. Once the feel good factor kicks in you become more motivated! X

That’s amazing, and you look it too, motivation is key isn’t it, it’s all about being proactive with your life, not just reactive to body issues when they get out of hand "

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By *erfectman122Man  over a year ago

from somewhere nice


"Because the motivation disappears

Well it hasn’t cause I e kept the weight off "

well done to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I refuse to diet as such I eat rubbish now and again , sweets most nights haha , aslong as it’s in moderation and your getting exercise it’s fine , personally I like all body shapes and sizes regardless

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By *iss KissWoman  over a year ago

near Coventry

I agree. Best to just change your eating habits permanently. Ditch stuff you know is bad for you. Personally I hardly ever eat processed food. Processed foods/drinks mess with your body and your mind. For one. They make you hungrier. I found when I cut out processed foods, I just wasn't hungry. I'm healthier too.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I refuse to diet as such I eat rubbish now and again , sweets most nights haha , aslong as it’s in moderation and your getting exercise it’s fine , personally I like all body shapes and sizes regardless "

But it isn't for many people and it will catch up with you eventually.

You can outrun a bad diet.

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By *oah VailMan  over a year ago

Dover


"For me, the issue is always just how addictive sugar is.

I have been losing/gaining weight for years, depending on how disciplined I have managed to be in avoiding sugar.

Plenty of non sugar sweeteners... I use erithritol but there's many others you can substitute one spoon for one spoon of sugar. You get the sweetness without the diabetes lol. "

Trouble with artificial sweeteners is that they still trigger an insulin response, which elevates your hunger levels.

I managed to lose four stone ten years ago by cutting sugar and snacks out of my diet, and have wavered between one and two stone back up from that point ever since. Every time I have a few months off the regimen, my weight steadily climbs. Back on it and it drops again.

I’ve had a tough few months, and have neglected my diet entirely. The increasingly tight waistband of my trousers is telling me that I need to pull myself together again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's good news if 5% work.

Then 5% of the rest who diet.

Then 5% of the rest who diet.

See where I'm going here?

I know it will never get to 100% but there is hope for everyone who tries.

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By *ulldog_71Man  over a year ago

Sedgefield

The biggest problem is that people want to just change the way they eat and lose lots of weight fast. For it to be sustainable then the best way is to make healthier food choices rather than eat less and increase activity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have noticed people of countries like Poland, Ukraine which are good examples. Are consuming much fresher food than we are which is mostly home cooked, when working over there I couldn't believe what people ate and stayed pretty skinny.

It makes you think are the chemicals in everything in western food the enemy? Destroying your metabolism?

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By *amish SMan  over a year ago

Eastleigh


"I would say that the main reason for it is cos they are not sustainable in the long run, because they are too strict, they key is to have a diet that feels like you are not dieting at all, like the one I am following, flexible dieting, where I can enjoy all the food, the key is to bring in all the food in the circle, not restricting them "

Because God gave us chocolate.

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By *asian_fruitMan  over a year ago

Fuckingham Palace

Because people don’t have the commitment, like most relationships

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By *iss KissWoman  over a year ago

near Coventry


"I have noticed people of countries like Poland, Ukraine which are good examples. Are consuming much fresher food than we are which is mostly home cooked, when working over there I couldn't believe what people ate and stayed pretty skinny.

It makes you think are the chemicals in everything in western food the enemy? Destroying your metabolism? "

I agree. I eat a lot! All fresh and homemade. Usually. I actually can't fit in the amount I'm supposed to eat to hit my nutrients targets. Sometimes I get to 1 in the afternoon and I'm like, shit!, I need to eat something today.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we evolved to crave high calorie foods. Millions of years of evolution have left us with instinctive behaviours that are hard to break.

Sugars and fats are no different to any other drug, we ingest them and they cause changes in our brain chemistry that we enjoy so we seek out that feeling again and again. It's just a bit more socially acceptable to eat too much than mainline for example.

Mr

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"You need to change your way of thinking…. Instead of a diet - healthy eating and exercise….. I’ve lost 8 st 12 lbs…. Once the feel good factor kicks in you become more motivated! X "
That is right and well done on the weight loss there

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

It's everything.

The right diet, exercise, medication side effects, hidden health issues and of course will power as well as any deep rooted emotional habits.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield

Because weight loss is a lifestyle change and nose diets are a money-making enterprise by someone selling you magic beans.

Just starving yourself for a few weeks results in rebound.

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

"

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By *iss KissWoman  over a year ago

near Coventry


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think "

I can't work out if you're being serious

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By *rad670Man  over a year ago

South Lakes

You have to find s diet that fits your lifestyle and do your best, they fail due to lack of willpower, you don't need to stick to any diet 100% for it to be beneficial, every little helps

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By *razytimesinloveCouple  over a year ago

SW Scotland

Everything that you eat is classed as your diet.

Saying some diets don’t work is wrong

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"You have to find s diet that fits your lifestyle and do your best, they fail due to lack of willpower, you don't need to stick to any diet 100% for it to be beneficial, every little helps "

Unless not sticking to it leads to not sticking to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

too big a restriction on calorie intake, yes you need calorie deficit to lose weight but you have to still function in the real world.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

Because you're fighting against your bodies survival mechanisms. I've managed to keep off at least 2 stone consistently for a number of years but my weight still fluctuates and its still a battle to lose more when you want to. In my experience, it never gets any easier. In fact it gets harder the more you lose. It becomes more and more frustrating when you keep hitting plateaus.

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By *antra MassageMan  over a year ago

South Side.

Exercise more, eat less, as a lifestyle. Unless a diet includes lifestyle changes its not sustainable.

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By *ob08Man  over a year ago

Macclesfield

Because most people don't know when to put the fork down

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By *oah VailMan  over a year ago

Dover


"Because you're fighting against your bodies survival mechanisms. I've managed to keep off at least 2 stone consistently for a number of years but my weight still fluctuates and its still a battle to lose more when you want to. In my experience, it never gets any easier. In fact it gets harder the more you lose. It becomes more and more frustrating when you keep hitting plateaus. "

My situation exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a lifelong battle for those with issues /addictions.

Moderation is too hard for those that can't stop once they start. Binge eating is the bane of my life.

Over the years I've made some swaps, smaller plates, portion control through batch cooking and recently swapped to wholemeal stuff for lower GI. However the urge to binge or overeat is ever present and all consuming, pardon the pun! The only reason I'm not binging now is I cba to go out to the shop as I purposefully don't keep nice stuff in the house.

The struggle is real.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get my fitness Pal. Learn your daily calories. Trust me it's all about Calories in Calories out. I've seen it first hand in the last 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious"

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *iss KissWoman  over a year ago

near Coventry


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?"

There's about a million James Smith's!

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?

There's about a million James Smith's!"

I thought the same but I did enjoy his podcast on menopause with Dr Louis Newson. And got me following her which I've found helpful

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?

There's about a million James Smith's!

I thought the same but I did enjoy his podcast on menopause with Dr Louis Newson. And got me following her which I've found helpful"

She’s so good isn’t she

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Main reason is because people give up after not seeing the results they wanted fast enough.

I don't diet but I have a fast metabolism, so I'm naturally on the thin side

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?

There's about a million James Smith's!

I thought the same but I did enjoy his podcast on menopause with Dr Louis Newson. And got me following her which I've found helpful

She’s so good isn’t she "

Totally, she's totally opened my mind to things. And not as worried about menopause that is to come.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look up a PT called James Smith he is on FACEBOOK and other platforms

This guys tells you the truth and gives you the facts on all the diets or in his words all the bull

Take a look I would be interested in what people think

I can't work out if you're being serious

Why ? What's so difficult to understand ?

There's about a million James Smith's!

I thought the same but I did enjoy his podcast on menopause with Dr Louis Newson. And got me following her which I've found helpful

She’s so good isn’t she

Totally, she's totally opened my mind to things. And not as worried about menopause that is to come. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because unlike other addictions we cannot live without food, so it has to be managed rather than avoided.

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By *aussageMan  over a year ago

Stalbridge

They fail because most people are insulin resistant. You can starve yourself and lose weight but if you don't fix your bodies response to sugar you'll snap back to the same weight like a rubber band.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Mine hasn't failed, 14 years and counting...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They just don't work. I lost over 4 stone a few years back and I've kept it off. How? I cut out the carbs and exercised more. Simple when you make small changes. Diet schmiet!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because the people who go on these diets are essentially trying to do a complete 180 on their existing nutrition, get pangs of cravings because they're denying their body of what it's used to and ultimately give in. Slow and steady changes are the best way forward for long term, sustainable nutrition

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By *ilva69Man  over a year ago

stockport

I started a 5:2 diet in April 2019 coming up three years still on it lost 3 stone and kept it off

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

A good diet starts off with good information, reasoning and practice.

A bad diet stars with faulty information, reasoning and falls apart.

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"I started a 5:2 diet in April 2019 coming up three years still on it lost 3 stone and kept it off "

Well done you.

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By *hoirCouple  over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

They fail due to the person's mindset to the task ahead.

Personally I rebel a lot so if I have something strict ahead of me then I will fuck it up somehow.

C

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By *odgerMooreMan  over a year ago

Carlisle

Because people consciously label them as a diet. Which often means denying yourself something or creates the impression of self denial. Change your eating habits to the new way and it becomes a new normal not a diet. Its a lifestyle change not a temporary thing.

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

The word diet has two meanings. The second one has been bandied around so much, that the words low and calorie have wasted away...

1 The foods that you do eat.

2 The restricted foods that you can and must not eat, for reasons of pragma (low sodium/fat/carbs), dogma (communal wine and wafers) or stigma (don't eat meat it's wrong: vegans. Don't eat dog meat it's wrong: most of the world)

Just to add some more balance, Macmillan offers a bulking up diet that completely what we've been force fed through the media. Not everybody needs to be on a low everything diet.

Here's what they said.

"Adding extra energy

If you are losing weight or have a poor appetite, it is important to choose high-energy foods to get

enough calories. Look out for this symbol in this book.

Here are some tips to add energy to meals:

• When you are at the supermarket, choose full-fat foods instead of ‘diet’, ‘low fat’ or ‘light’ foods.

• Fry your foods in oil or ghee (a type of butter).

• Add extra butter, margarine or oil to bread, potatoes, pasta and cooked vegetables.

• Add extra cheese to sauces and extra paneer (a type of cheese) to curries.

Our booklet The building-up diet has more information on maintaining your weight when you have a poor appetite or eating dif culties.

If you are still struggling to maintain

your weight, your doctor, nurse or dietitian may suggest that you take supplements. These will help get more protein or energy (or both) into your

diet. They are usually available on prescription. You can take them as drinks or snacks between meals, or add them to food.

Allergies

The recipes in this book don’t need to

be followed exactly. If you are allergic

to certain ingredients, such as milk,

nuts or shell sh, you can use something different. Just remember that changing the ingredients will change the nutritional information for that recipe.

If you don’t eat dairy products, you can:

• replace milk with soya, oat, rice, hazelnut, almond or coconut milk

• replace cream with coconut cream

• replace butter with non-dairy spreads

• replace yoghurt with soya

or coconut yoghurt.

• Add cream, sour cream, plain yoghurt, mascarpone or crème fraîche to sauces, soups and meat dishes.

• Add whole or blended beans, lentils or peas to curries and stews.

• Add evaporated milk, condensed milk or cream to desserts and hot drinks.

• Have cream or ice-cream with desserts.

• Add peanut butter, chocolate spread, tahini, honey or jam to bread, toast, crackers and biscuits."

Who likes this high calorie diet?

(Brink back full fat milk in cafes! I need that choice, my taste buds are losing out. Skimmed milk doesn't whiten coffee!)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I would say that the main reason for it is cos they are not sustainable in the long run, because they are too strict, they key is to have a diet that feels like you are not dieting at all, like the one I am following, flexible dieting, where I can enjoy all the food, the key is to bring in all the food in the circle, not restricting them "

All the food ? Great! Cake and chips please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me, because I seek comfort in carbs

I am very much an emotional eater

I am also intrinsically lazy

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple  over a year ago

Kent

Because people approach it all wrong. It shouldn’t be A DIET, but it should be YOUR DIET. As in, it is about the food you eat all the time and not for a month or so to drop a bit of weight. Short term adjustments don’t work, you need to address where you’re going wrong and fix that long term. Having a Big Mac once a month isn’t an issue, having it once a day is. Polishing off a pack of Jaffa cakes once in a blue moon is fine, eating a pack every day isn’t.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because chocolate and cakes

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Because people approach it all wrong. It shouldn’t be A DIET, but it should be YOUR DIET. As in, it is about the food you eat all the time and not for a month or so to drop a bit of weight. Short term adjustments don’t work, you need to address where you’re going wrong and fix that long term. Having a Big Mac once a month isn’t an issue, having it once a day is. Polishing off a pack of Jaffa cakes once in a blue moon is fine, eating a pack every day isn’t.

C x"

Yes, yes, yes.

The Mediterranean diets are the healthiest. The Scottish and American ones aren't. These are all long term lifestyle dictated food habits.

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Because chocolate and cakes "

and hidden sugars in ketchup and processed foods.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple  over a year ago

Kent


"Because people approach it all wrong. It shouldn’t be A DIET, but it should be YOUR DIET. As in, it is about the food you eat all the time and not for a month or so to drop a bit of weight. Short term adjustments don’t work, you need to address where you’re going wrong and fix that long term. Having a Big Mac once a month isn’t an issue, having it once a day is. Polishing off a pack of Jaffa cakes once in a blue moon is fine, eating a pack every day isn’t.

C x

Yes, yes, yes.

The Mediterranean diets are the healthiest. The Scottish and American ones aren't. These are all long term lifestyle dictated food habits."

The other issue is how many people buy in to slimming world and weight watchers etc. They follow the diets for a few months and lose weight, tell everyone else how amazing the diet is. Then a few years later they’re back at group having gained back all the weight they lost and then some. Why? Because companies like that are there to make money so they don’t teach you anything. So many people go on ‘syns’ and have zero clue about calories. And they think dieting means they can’t enjoy food!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Too much food...

Too little exercise?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Because you're fighting against your bodies survival mechanisms. I've managed to keep off at least 2 stone consistently for a number of years but my weight still fluctuates and its still a battle to lose more when you want to. In my experience, it never gets any easier. In fact it gets harder the more you lose. It becomes more and more frustrating when you keep hitting plateaus. "
That is right, that is why I like the challenge to stay lean year round

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Too much food...

Too little exercise?"

This is me atm

I'm yoyoing again....just can't seem to focus currently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People try to loose weight by crash dieting rather than changing lifestyle. You can still have treats and alcohol, but generally it’s mathematics. Don’t starve yourself, just do more exercise.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman  over a year ago

Can you find me….

I’ve lost 9 stone…. In 4 years… think you need to stay in focus and not think of it as a diet.

I’ve gone from a size 22 to a size 10…. Hasn’t been easy but I wanted to be slimmer and happier…

Which I am… I love the confidence it gives me… love buying clothes and lingerie

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

For me it was about keeping focus on why I wanted to lose the weight. And more importantly, framing it as a change of lifestyle, not a diet.

I lost 8 stone in 2 years, and have kept it off for over 3 years now.

It was all about eating sensibly, and adding in exercise when I felt I could. I didn't deprive myself of the foods I loved, but I limited them, and every time I craved those treats I asked myself what was more important - my health and a long life of fulfilment, or my short term moment of delight and hours of guilt that would follow.

Accountability was also a bit thing for me - I attended a support group and was weighed every week. That absolutely kept me on the straight and narrow!

Fundamentally I think you can't lose weight unless you want it badly enough.

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

Hidden calories, processed salts and sugary foods. The diet industry won't make money, if the dieters keep the wait off. The yo yo effect equals repeat trade.

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By *heGateKeeperMan  over a year ago

Stratford

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West

Calorie counting you don’t need to starve yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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and double decker cheese toasties..... with crisps

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By *heGateKeeperMan  over a year ago

Stratford


"

and double decker cheese toasties..... with crisps"

I love it when you talk dirty to me

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By *orny PTMan  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Mental health issues are a big factor. Unlearning bad habits and coping mechanisms requires a lot of energy and is mentally draining. Sometimes we need to focus on fixing those rather than focus on the end point.

"

noom's current ad campaign seems to make sense.

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By *itygamesMan  over a year ago

UK

Not eating food dosent make you lose weight

Our bodies survive on food...especially healthy food

The best diet is a brisk fast 30 minute walk everyday

See the weight fall off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I want pizza and beer instead of a banana and water

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