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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So interesting one for you all (well I’m interested anyway) if you send a message to someone and they read it but don’t delete it, and don’t respond. Does this mean your a possible? I always know if the message is read and deleted that’s done they are not interested but interested to see if it means interested or not really. Anyway hope you’ve had a good week and earnt a few quid. Happy fabbing x

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

If they don't respond, they're not interested, regardless of whether the message was deleted or not...that's my take on it anyway...

Herself

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't check sent messages. Better to focus on the ones who do want to talk to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it means I'm likely not interested but can't be bothered to hit delete.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I would take it as they aren't interested if they haven't answered. Best thing to do is not check sent messages I never do.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

I would only take a positive response as them being interested.

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Send them a message back asking for an update.

Only kidding, like others said forget about them and move on.

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By *ammyjayneWoman over a year ago

hull

If I reply I'm interested. I don't always delete. I never look at sent messages.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Why bother looking?

It means nothing. Some don't always delete!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't get too hung up on it

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By *renchFantasyCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Just think it means they haven't deleted it. Don't read too much into it. If interested you would get a response when they are ready.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just delete your sent messages, that way if you get a reply then bonus, if you don’t, the pain of rejection will fade over time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks guys and gals much appreciated. I personally delete the ones that I’m not interested in and keep the potentials just wondered weather others thought the same. Cheers all

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By *he love catsCouple over a year ago

South Wales

Sometimes an open message is left until the both of us are together to look at their profile, if its about a potential meet then we can both decide together.x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

"So interesting one for you all (well I’m interested anyway) if you send a message to someone and they read it but don’t delete it, and don’t respond. Does this mean your a possible? I always know if the message is read and deleted that’s done they are not interested but interested to see if it means interested or not really. Anyway hope you’ve had a good week and earnt a few quid. Happy fabbing x"

I'm trying to be better and delete rather than just leaving unread.

Be seeing you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they don't respond then they aren't interested. Don't overthink it, just move on.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

The moment you start checking to see if your message has been read is the moment you are taking Fab far too seriously.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"I don't check sent messages. Better to focus on the ones who do want to talk to me

This. Bingo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't receive or send many but if I don't hear back from someone for a while then I delete the history. Not much point holding onto it really is there???

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By *ey-Enigma2Couple over a year ago

Dublin

"Sometimes an open message is left until the both of us are together to look at their profile, if its about a potential meet then we can both decide together.x"

We agree with this...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no hard and fast rule so always assume no response means no interest. It saves wondering.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they don't respond, they're not interested, regardless of whether the message was deleted or not...that's my take on it anyway...

Herself"

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