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"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?
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Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.
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over a year ago
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"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?
Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.
LvM"
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over a year ago
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We chat to all our meets. I need to know their name, address, employment status and bank details before I take my clothes off.
Personality is a big thing for me. I need to be attracted to them look and personality wise. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"We chat to all our meets. I need to know their name, address, employment status and bank details before I take my clothes off.
Personality is a big thing for me. I need to be attracted to them look and personality wise. "
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Personality mostly for me,yes there has to be some attraction but I'm not into just fuck and go meets anyhow. So I have to actually like the person I'm with regardless if it's a one off meet or more. It's why I do a social first before anything else happens. If they have a shitty personality there is no way I would want to go any farther with them even the thought of just shagging someone that I may not particularly like makes my skin crawl. |
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Looks initially, because I'm not going to find out if I like their personality if I don't find them attractive. But I have to at the very least not dislike them (different levels of this depending on the situation, in a club it's mainly looks, for a more extended meet I'd want to know them a bit better) |
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As having sex with someone generally bigger and stronger than I am as a woman puts me in an extremely vulnerable position it is essential to at least like the person I'm fucking. Trusting someone not to hurt me is essential too. I don't want to be near anyone who thinks any hole's a goal.
Looks are in the eye of the beholder but personality and having a good connection are more important. How people look can change once you know someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its a one off meet then 90% looks - what does it matter if she's a bitch or a bore etc (or her perception of my personality), as long as we have great sex that one time she could be Shipmans secretary for all I care. As long as she's in lust for the duration of the meet we can happily hate each other on the way out.
If there's a chance of a repeat performance then it changes significantly and personality would be far more important. Another factor of course is what you will be getting up to together. I got into a lot of bother last week when I suggested this so I'll leave it at that!!! |
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There has to be a level of it that is based on looks, but its not be all and end all.
We aren't really looking for one off meets, so need to have a good personality too, or at least one that fits in with us!
MJ x |
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"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?
Definitely personality. Yes I have to like the way they look for that initial attraction but if they're an absolute shit-stick of a human being then it doesn't matter how hot they are.
LvM"
Have to agree with this. |
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"Personality mostly for me,yes there has to be some attraction but I'm not into just fuck and go meets anyhow. So I have to actually like the person I'm with regardless if it's a one off meet or more. It's why I do a social first before anything else happens. If they have a shitty personality there is no way I would want to go any farther with them even the thought of just shagging someone that I may not particularly like makes my skin crawl."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For women on a site such as this they choose on looks regardless of anything else. For men, not so much."
I hope you’re not talking for all women here.
Much of it does go on personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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its always looks first thats human nature but its not the only thing ...
op the way you put it is like your just wanting to empty your ball thats going to put alot of people off swinging is swinging its deffo more than just sex fab is a swingers site if you want just sex theres other sites out there |
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"As this is a site aimed at sex rather than romance. Do you really care of they are funny or a nice person? Is it all about their looks because you're not going to really chat to them?
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100% personality is just as important as looks |
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"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad "
But looks are subjective. I don't refer to guys as "good looking" or not, I say whether they're attative to me. X |
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"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad
But looks are subjective. I don't refer to guys as "good looking" or not, I say whether they're attative to me. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's got to be looks at first, no matter how funny or exciting you are women want look twice at you on here if you ain't a good looking lad "
That's not true in my case, I can't speak for other ladies though. |
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might look great but with a crap personality instant turn off 
