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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Off the back of another thread, I noticed a lot of women say they wear heels for a club night. Is it like an unwritten code, are we expected to wear heels? I love my heels but unfortunately flats are starting to dictate my life in my old age. Is there anyone else that doesn't wear heels? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Old age!  . I didn’t wear high ones, otherwise I’m too tall! When I ventured upstairs I didn’t wear shoes. I don’t think most people did to be honest. "
My date of birth is one thing but my legs are a different story, my legs and heels no longer get on  I had a pair on a couple of weeks ago and only lasted 20mins and I was sitting down most of that  |
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There’s no expectation in any of the clubs we visit to wear heels, I tend to wear them when I first get there, and then they’re off about half an hour later when I walk around bare foot. There’s lots of ladies in flats too so don’t worry and enjoy  Miss pc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say ware what your comfortable in
If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats
Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't wear heels either, physically can't because of an old ankle break.
My local club has 3 lots of stairs so bugger walking up them in heels.
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I'm having a similar issue, I physically can't wear them anymore. What sort of thing do you wear?
Don't blame you, I wouldn't want to do that either  |
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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago
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I went out with an 18 year old she wore trainers I wore my Louboutin Fifi
I feel young people don’t do heels as much these days
I’m comfortable in a heel wear one for work most days
Like someone said do what you find comfortable and just do you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say ware what your comfortable in
If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats
Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them "
I wore flat boots last time, the ones in my pic but I want different options. I'll have a look at them, thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s no expectation in any of the clubs we visit to wear heels, I tend to wear them when I first get there, and then they’re off about half an hour later when I walk around bare foot. There’s lots of ladies in flats too so don’t worry and enjoy Miss pc "
Thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't wear heels either, physically can't because of an old ankle break.
My local club has 3 lots of stairs so bugger walking up them in heels.
I'm having a similar issue, I physically can't wear them anymore. What sort of thing do you wear?
Don't blame you, I wouldn't want to do that either "
It's horrible isn't it. I wear ankle boots with small heel. Or in the club I'm barefoot
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say ware what your comfortable in
If you want a heel look but flats maybe try and look in to a pair off platform flats
Best off both worlds they flat but also have a platform flat on them
I wore flat boots last time, the ones in my pic but I want different options. I'll have a look at them, thank you. "
Your welcome and flat boots are in most place have been doing flat over the knee boots seems heeled once have been on the way out from the clothing boutique sites that I look at |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I always wear heels as I like how I look and feel in them.
Yea I am on my knees or back most of the time "
Haha me too... The number of times I've looked up at my feet and think... My heels look nice from this angle... |
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You should just wear something that you'll be comfortable and confident in. Most of the clubs anyway say that you've got to remove heels when playing on the beds or wherever, cos they are sick of getting bedding torn up by stilettos... |
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"Does it really matter? As long as you feel sexy. Stockings and trainers don't really go, do they?"
Don't they? Oh dear.
OP, some of us can't wear heels (or a multitude of other shoes) for all sorts of reasons. Wear whatever is comfortable for you.
I wore flat black shoes at first but as my bad foot/ankle became swollen, I had to go shoe-less. Depending on the club, this is either not an issue (because my feet are on the footplate of my wheelchair) or means I don't move very far because I don't want to stand on something I shouldn't. I don't go too far on crutches anyway *shrug* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the back of another thread, I noticed a lot of women say they wear heels for a club night. Is it like an unwritten code, are we expected to wear heels? I love my heels but unfortunately flats are starting to dictate my life in my old age. Is there anyone else that doesn't wear heels? "
Fishnets and biker boots so much better  |
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