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Monday Mental Health Check-in 10.01
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Good morning, another week gone already!
I’m feeling a little upset and frustrated as I process some stuff that’s come up, but I’ve finished my assignment and it’s back to uni tomorrow so that’s positive.
How are you feeling? x |
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over a year ago
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Better than last week, not feeling like its all a waste of time, physio improving things and finally can enjoy life more.
Op hope it gets better for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm doing OK. Still dealing with a family loss late last year, but it gets easier every day. It helps to talk about things, I know that first hand. And I wholly applaud this thread OP. Hope things are going well for you all |
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Today would have been my ma’s birthday, so it usually makes me a bit reflective. I’m on my last day of two weeks off. (Don’t tell the daily Mail.) so I’m going out for lunch then the cinema. She’ll be with me in spirit.
I feel pretty good! I’m also here if anyones struggling  |
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"Today would have been my ma’s birthday, so it usually makes me a bit reflective. I’m on my last day of two weeks off. (Don’t tell the daily Mail.) so I’m going out for lunch then the cinema. She’ll be with me in spirit.
I feel pretty good! I’m also here if anyones struggling "
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"Today would have been my ma’s birthday, so it usually makes me a bit reflective. I’m on my last day of two weeks off. (Don’t tell the daily Mail.) so I’m going out for lunch then the cinema. She’ll be with me in spirit.
I feel pretty good! I’m also here if anyones struggling "
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Overall, I'm ok. I'm back at the gym and getting back into a routine and work is picking up again after it was a bit quiet last week too which helps. Wish I had more hours in the day to get other stuff done around work and gym as would like to to relax a bit more but that's the life of adulting I guess. January is still too fucking long though!  |
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I think I just can't deal with people anymore got little patience and get more and more short with people everyday seem to always say the wrong thing and tired of overanalyzing how I speak to people |
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Feeling a bit better today but the black dog reared it's ugly head on Saturday night at a club (of all places) and I became pretty overwhelmed. Had a massive low esteem /confidence crisis which wasn't great. Anyway, had words with myself, had a bit of self care yesterday (not that kind!!) and writing it off as a blip.
Always happy to reviewed messages of anyone needs to chat. Truly x |
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over a year ago
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Imagine a movie scene, there’s a guy walking down the road, car crashes, houses explode, an asteroid hurtling towards earth, volcanoes erupting, earthquakes and a 10 metre tsunami heading straight towards him..
I’m the guy |
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over a year ago
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Struggling today, post covid headaches and constantly drained is now starting to have its toll on my mental health.
Feeling isolated and lonely if I'm honest,  |
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over a year ago
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Terrible start to the year reached breaking point.
BUT work have been fantastic and I am getting the help that I desperately needed.
It is a massive cliche but finally admitting I was struggling and talking to people has already made such a huge difference |
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"Feeling a bit better today but the black dog reared it's ugly head on Saturday night at a club (of all places) and I became pretty overwhelmed. Had a massive low esteem /confidence crisis which wasn't great. Anyway, had words with myself, had a bit of self care yesterday (not that kind!!) and writing it off as a blip.
Always happy to reviewed messages of anyone needs to chat. Truly x"
My self esteem has taken a battering over the last week, trying to keep going and be positive and say to one person I'm ok, but im struggling with things |
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"Feeling a bit better today but the black dog reared it's ugly head on Saturday night at a club (of all places) and I became pretty overwhelmed. Had a massive low esteem /confidence crisis which wasn't great. Anyway, had words with myself, had a bit of self care yesterday (not that kind!!) and writing it off as a blip.
Always happy to reviewed messages of anyone needs to chat. Truly x
My self esteem has taken a battering over the last week, trying to keep going and be positive and say to one person I'm ok, but im struggling with things"
Is there a reason it's so low? Mine was probably alcohol related but I just got to the point of self hatred and disgust. Awful feeling. Luckily I've learned how to deal with it and pull myself out. Do you know what you need to do or need help? |
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"Feeling a bit better today but the black dog reared it's ugly head on Saturday night at a club (of all places) and I became pretty overwhelmed. Had a massive low esteem /confidence crisis which wasn't great. Anyway, had words with myself, had a bit of self care yesterday (not that kind!!) and writing it off as a blip.
Always happy to reviewed messages of anyone needs to chat. Truly x
My self esteem has taken a battering over the last week, trying to keep going and be positive and say to one person I'm ok, but im struggling with things
Is there a reason it's so low? Mine was probably alcohol related but I just got to the point of self hatred and disgust. Awful feeling. Luckily I've learned how to deal with it and pull myself out. Do you know what you need to do or need help?"
This will no doubt sound silly but meant to be having my first meet on here but the female I'm meeting seems to have gone funny on me, would have been my first ever meet, so I'm thinking that it's me and not good enough. |
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"Good morning, another week gone already!
I’m feeling a little upset and frustrated as I process some stuff that’s come up, but I’ve finished my assignment and it’s back to uni tomorrow so that’s positive.
How are you feeling? x"
Hiya if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here to listen x |
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Tall guy, put some better pictures up. I looked at your profile as I was going to compliment but there's very little to see!!
Anyways, it takes a while to get your head around but getting your self worth from complete strangers who you have no connection with is not a healthy way to go. Try to make some real connections with people in forums as they're a genuine friendly bunch |
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"Tall guy, put some better pictures up. I looked at your profile as I was going to compliment but there's very little to see!!
Anyways, it takes a while to get your head around but getting your self worth from complete strangers who you have no connection with is not a healthy way to go. Try to make some real connections with people in forums as they're a genuine friendly bunch"
Ok will do, what would you suggest as have some face pics hidden in here.
I do chat in forums, but all the ones connect with are 100's of miles away lol |
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Just have a look and at some other profiles and see what you think would look good on you. If you're not happy with face pics don't do it. I only show mine to friends! But I would just gloss over your profile as it tells me very little! |
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"Just have a look and at some other profiles and see what you think would look good on you. If you're not happy with face pics don't do it. I only show mine to friends! But I would just gloss over your profile as it tells me very little!"
Ok thanks, I will put a face pic up, did re do my profile last note, is that OK? |
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"Just have a look and at some other profiles and see what you think would look good on you. If you're not happy with face pics don't do it. I only show mine to friends! But I would just gloss over your profile as it tells me very little!"
Added 2 more pics |
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"Feeling fairly good today. Had a few moments over the weekend where I wasn’t particularly happy, but that was external influence rather than internal."
We'll keep telling yourself that I think you have a nice arse and see if that helps!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't know how to feel
Try telling yourself.
All is well 
If only it were that easy x"
Try it, I know it's not easy.
All is well! All is well! All is well |
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Would have been my mums birthday yesterday so wasn't very smiley. Had a tooth pulled on Tuesday now I think I have a raging infection, dentist tomorrow. Other than that... yea fine. More than surviving, which is a huge step up |
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It was the first anniversary of my brother's death on Sunday. I took Friday and Monday off work as I didn't know how I was going to react.
I was fine right up to midnight on Saturday into Sunday then all that emotion bubbled up and I slept terribly.
I'd arranged a full day out on Sunday so I wasn't thinking about it until later and was fine with that, and then slept like a log after I came home.
Have been quite productive at home on Monday and now contemplating bed ready for going back to work in a few hours time. |
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Apologies that I didn’t get back on here to check the thread yesterday and reply to people - although lots of other lovely people have
Uni today so won’t have time to read through again! Love to all who are struggling xx |
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