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Do people who use forum's get more meets?
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Just wondering since using the forums have you struck up a rapport with people and ended up meeting them?
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Has using the forum made no difference whatsoever.
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Do you think there's more meets to be found in the chatrooms?
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The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.
Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.
Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have. "
Noted not to shag you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the opportunity arose I would definitely meet people from the forum. Whether that's a social meet or for sex. But as it happens, we aren't meeting at the moment. I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never been in the chat rooms, so I couldn’t tell you.
I’ve met people as a direct result of forum interactions.
I’ve also met people as a result of messaging profiles directly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the opportunity arose I would definitely meet people from the forum. Whether that's a social meet or for sex. But as it happens, we aren't meeting at the moment. I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side. "
I wanna slide inside your knickers  |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Just wondering since using the forums have you struck up a rapport with people and ended up meeting them?
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Has using the forum made no difference whatsoever.
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Do you think there's more meets to be found in the chatrooms?
Xx"
I think they’re a great way for people to become part of the community.
They’ve helped me, and I suspect that’s true for a lot of single guys  . |
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We met each other on the forums 
We’ve met a few forum people for socials.
The forums are good to get a better understanding of peoples personality.
They are just a small part of FAB though - there’s a whole other world of hidden gems who don’t use the forums.
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over a year ago
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Posting in the forums has never made any difference for me one way or the other...that I've noticed anyway.
I just pop in when bored and already been through 'normal' forums elsewhere  |
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I have met forumites and had no issues. Its a good way to assess their "Nutty Score" before venturing into knife range
No qualms about meeting anyone i like, forum or not. However, I suspect that it makes me less scary in comparison to my pics.  |
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"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!
You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?
Oh right! Sounds worth a visit!"
Well go to there. Go right. Chat rooms right in front of you. Red door with a massive cock on it. |
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"Never been in the chat rooms. Wouldn’t even know where they are!
You know the swimming pool at the end ? The one that overlooks the ocean ?
Oh right! Sounds worth a visit!
Well go to there. Go right. Chat rooms right in front of you. Red door with a massive cock on it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side.
I'll provide character references if I an wear them as a hat "
Nobody likes to wear a wet hat |
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" I like to know someone's character before I let them pull my knickers to the side.
I'll provide character references if I an wear them as a hat
Nobody likes to wear a wet hat "
You saying I would make them wet ?
Your wet panties would knock mine into a cooked hat.  |
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The forums have allowed me to find and get to know people that I probably wouldn't have stumbled across elsewhere on the site because of their distance from me...so technically, yes, I've met more people because of the forums, because I wouldn't have met some of the people that I have if I didn't come in here. |
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We've had one meet because of the forums. A couple who lurk but don't post saw us on here and messaged. But otherwise all our meets are from messaging local people.
There's certain forum people it would be lovely to meet and we hopefully will. I believe they know who they are .
But generally we're better meeting local people as we have to organise childcare and have awkward availability. The forums are more for socialising for me |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've met far more people than I would have otherwise through socials and the like. In terms of sexually? I'm not sure.
On the whole I think men might fare a bit better once they're known on the forum. That can be a double edged sword though because if they're too "well known", they'll go through vaghaustion and won't be as popular as they once were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met far more people than I would have otherwise through socials and the like. In terms of sexually? I'm not sure.
On the whole I think men might fare a bit better once they're known on the forum. That can be a double edged sword though because if they're too "well known", they'll go through vaghaustion and won't be as popular as they once were. "
Vaghaustion |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"The last time I did a spread sheet the people who got the most meets were the ones that spent more time setting meets up and less time chin wagging in the forum.
Anyway ..... sex with a forumite is a bit like fucking someone at work ... you realise that you really shouldn't have. "
That is so true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it wasn't for the forums, I'd have probably lasted about a month on here, perhaps less.
I've only met one person who wasn't from the forum. "
I thought you’d only met one person.
I feel so used.
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"If it wasn't for the forums, I'd have probably lasted about a month on here, perhaps less.
I've only met one person who wasn't from the forum.
I thought you’d only met one person.
I feel so used.
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Let me know when I can use you again |
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Before Covid only ever used forums for holiday and club information.
Used the meet up section for real meets.
I feel now, after reading some of the nastier comments in certain forum threads, it would influence a meet.
Why on earth would we make the effort to meet anyone who has posted nasty or opinionated comments.
Bit like not meeting folks who have been on over a year with no verifications.
Hoping once Covid has been contained the site will revert back to a swingers meeting site and less of a normal social media platform.
Maybe it was that all along and just never noticed as never in chatroom or forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before Covid only ever used forums for holiday and club information.
Used the meet up section for real meets.
I feel now, after reading some of the nastier comments in certain forum threads, it would influence a meet.
Why on earth would we make the effort to meet anyone who has posted nasty or opinionated comments.
Bit like not meeting folks who have been on over a year with no verifications.
Hoping once Covid has been contained the site will revert back to a swingers meeting site and less of a normal social media platform.
Maybe it was that all along and just never noticed as never in chatroom or forum."
Here here to that |
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"What or who do we compare it with? "
Simple really have you met people from the forum's, or you haven't met people from the forums or have you met people from the chat rooms or not. Seems to be a good mix of answers already to give an Idea. X |
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I’ve had a fair few offers for meets from the forums but they were all far away
If your willing to travel I’d say it’s a half decent way to find meets
I think you’d have better luck if you used the forum to get involved in some socials/meet-ups/clubs. Getting out there in the real world is always gonna trump anything online |
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Haven't met anyone off the forum yet.... But the pipeline is building.... Hotlist is growing and seems 2022 may be super fun after all 
I treat forums like meeting people in a bar 