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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why the frig would you let it go??
Thats like havin some chocolate cake an givin it away for no reason!"
How about sharing instead of giving it all.away???  |
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If you love someone let them free.
If they come back they are yours
If they dont they never where.
I interpret that to mean give some one time and space, dont try to suffacate them or demand things of them. Let them be their own person, otherwise you can easily scare them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why the frig would you let it go??
Thats like havin some chocolate cake an givin it away for no reason!
How about sharing instead of giving it all.away??? "
Now thats what i was gettin at, there should be no reason to give it away, just share . . . . . But it does take a lot for me to share chocolate cake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should let it go.
Any truth in that saying??
Yes!
I love wine but need to let it go so my head doesn't thump so much in the morning  "
Goes for large wine glass and waits for julies wine......another great saying...waste not want not  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheers diamond..
Oi what about our replies?? I thought mine was quite deep!"
lol thank you sexy scouse man and everyone else.. now gimme sum of that cake lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should let it go.
Any truth in that saying??
Yes!
I love wine but need to let it go so my head doesn't thump so much in the morning
Goes for large wine glass and waits for julies wine......another great saying...waste not want not "
You can have it until say 5 when it'll be hare of the dog time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you love something enough set it free, if it comes back its yours forever. if not it wasnt meant to be"
being apart can show you how much you love someone or the opposite so yeh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers diamond..
Oi what about our replies?? I thought mine was quite deep!"
The rest of the replies were just hijacking the thread, Diamond was the only one that didn't, that's why.
I interpret the saying also as not smothering someone and demanding their time and attention. If they feel comfortable in being with you, they will seek out your company and you know that they really do want to be with you rather than you demanding they be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with diamonds on this! If you truely love something or someone and they want to go........ Then let them! If they come back then yes it's meant to be. And it does work trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats something? A person, an inanimate object?"
Wind.
There's nothing like a good fart when you have trapped wind.
The painful twinges, the usettled pitching and rolling of the belly, then.....tthhhhhrrrrruuuoooommmmmmmpppppp.....pprrraaarrpp......pprffffppptttppeeeeoooooppppttttt!!......and the relieved phrase of "fly my pretties...flyyy!!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you let something go, do it because you genuinely want it to be free and not because of some contrived 'scheme' or plan that you hope it will come back.
If in it's genuine freedom it chooses to come back then see that as a bonus.
The act of love, in my opinion, is the completely unselfish motive behind freeing something or someone to do what it or they want to. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I personally don't get the 'let the person go', they will go if they choose and you should respect their choice.... it is not for you to 'let', you can free yourself, not someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't get the 'let the person go', they will go if they choose and you should respect their choice.... it is not for you to 'let', you can free yourself, not someone else. "
yes veiw your right . x your a wise old owl x i remember that poem my gran would say about the wise old owl in the tree ,  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I personally don't get the 'let the person go', they will go if they choose and you should respect their choice.... it is not for you to 'let', you can free yourself, not someone else. yes veiw your right . x your a wise old owl x i remember that poem my gran would say about the wise old owl in the tree , "
Depends on the situation. |
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"I personally don't get the 'let the person go', they will go if they choose and you should respect their choice...."
Ahhh but you see you do get it. Isn't respecting their choice the same as letting them go, metaphorically speaking? If you love someone, you will surely want them to be happy and feel fulfilled with their life. And so the saying goes….let them choose what makes them happy, rather than entrap or coerce them into making choices solely to make you happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex-hubby knew what it means when I informed him about my decision to leave him for my late partner, and said if he could not make me happy, then he would gladly step aside for the person who could.
He handled the divorce paperwork and saved ourselves a fortune, no lawyer was involved, no argument about who owned what, let me take whatever I wish etc...
I am eternally grateful for his big heart, and regret to this day for hurting him. 
He remains one of the first 3 people I would call in times of crisis.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you love someone let them free.
If they come back they are yours
If they dont they never weere.
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The most beautiful lyric ever written...
"Do you know what love is?
Love is when you willingly
Place someone else'e priorities
Above your own"
(Something Happened, by Billy Bragg)
If that person needs to be let go then trying to keep them is selfish, not selfless |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Letting go is probably one of teh hardest things to do when you are still attached to the person. I agree that it is the ultimate form of love to let go ... but then does that person really have a choice? If one party wants to part... there can really only be one outcome? |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Letting go is probably one of teh hardest things to do when you are still attached to the person. I agree that it is the ultimate form of love to let go ... but then does that person really have a choice? If one party wants to part... there can really only be one outcome? "
In my case he wanted to go, but could not do it. He just could not bring himself to leave. I had to push him in the end - even though I did not want to. But, in the long run, it was the best for both of us. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Letting go is probably one of teh hardest things to do when you are still attached to the person. I agree that it is the ultimate form of love to let go ... but then does that person really have a choice? If one party wants to part... there can really only be one outcome?
In my case he wanted to go, but could not do it. He just could not bring himself to leave. I had to push him in the end - even though I did not want to. But, in the long run, it was the best for both of us."
Sounds like that must have been quite hard for both of you over a prolonged period. |
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