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No.
I am not a sexual deviant nor do I suffer from paraphilia ....
I know the term is used loosely and in a jokey manner for those who are lustful but it's not a label I'd wear given that labelling demonises sexual behaviours and I'm not for that ......
Sex is sex ( unless it's something non consensual ) |
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"No.
I am not a sexual deviant nor do I suffer from paraphilia ....
I know the term is used loosely and in a jokey manner for those who are lustful but it's not a label I'd wear given that labelling demonises sexual behaviours and I'm not for that ......
Sex is sex ( unless it's something non consensual )"
This |
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Depends what the definition of ‘perv’ is. If it’s “someone who enjoys watching or joining consensual adult men and women fucking the living daylights out of each other” then I probably plead guilty as charged. If you’ve got other definitions in mind, probably not! |
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According to the Cambridge English Dictionary, a Perv is described as to look at or behave towards someone in a way that shows sexual interest, and that they or others find unpleasant.
So, no I'm not a perv. There's a difference between staring at a granny accidentally flashing her knickers whilst she sits down in 'Spoons and a milf wearing an anklet & carrying a potted pampas grass, making eye contact before flashing her shaven pussy in the dunes of a naturist beach or swingers club.
Hope that helps. |
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"When I think of the word perv, predator is the next word. Has the word perv now become something else in this woke society?"
How did you manage to crowbar 'woke' into this? 
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"Absolutely I couldn’t pass the profiles without having a look
You perved at me and I most definitely perved at you.  "
I would have messaged you but I’m outside your age filters, so I’ll leave this here and await your message  |
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"When I think of the word perv, predator is the next word. Has the word perv now become something else in this woke society?
How did you manage to crowbar 'woke' into this?
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Because I've seen this word thrown around a lot recently in the real world and on here. If someone ever said it to me I'd think of it as someone calling we a creep or something like that. But other people consider it banter. |
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Interesting the reaction to the word perv.
It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?
That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?
But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?
To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted? |
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"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.
It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?
That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?
But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?
To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted? "
This is what I'm asking |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP "
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same? |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?"
It’s not that deep |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep "
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv? |
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"We both are. V pervs on me. I'm a shy perv. I do love having a play while looking at guys pics."
But looking on here is the same as looking at a porn site no? It's all public unless people have chosen to hide things (if you have an account on here of course). So wouldn't that just be considered looking at stuff? When I think of the word perv I imagine someone watching someone through a window without permission |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?"
It would depend entirely on the context |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?
It would depend entirely on the context "
I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.
I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days |
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"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.
It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?
That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?
But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?
To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted?
This is what I'm asking "
It all went pear shaped when Babs Windsor was acceptable in both Eastenders, Carry On and Confessions of.... |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?
It would depend entirely on the context
I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.
I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days "
My friends call me a lot worse in public.
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"Interesting the reaction to the word perv.
It seems to have a sway between cheeky and something darker?
That sly side glance and low cut blouse is pervy?
But openly gawking and leering at the boobs is wrong?
To pervert or perversion is to deviate from the norm so has pervert been perverted?
This is what I'm asking
It all went pear shaped when Babs Windsor was acceptable in both Eastenders, Carry On and Confessions of...."
Who? You'll have to explain this one haha |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?
It would depend entirely on the context
I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.
I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days
My friends call me a lot worse in public.
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I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men |
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I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.
I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public  I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.
Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…
K |
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?
It would depend entirely on the context
I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.
I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days
My friends call me a lot worse in public.
I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men "
Again… it’s not that deep. It’s just a bit of banter on the forums |
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"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.
I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.
Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…
K"
Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess many like to have people perve their pictures.
A topic for another thread, perhaps OP
Why is is called perving and not just looking? Do you perv at porn? No you watch it. Is this site just the same?
It’s not that deep
So the word has now become less as an insult and more of a banter thing as the years have progressed?
What is going description of the word perv?
It would depend entirely on the context
I guess so. But imagine that someone calls you a perv in public in banter and someone who has no idea who you or they are hears. They would automatically think something bad and cause confusion.
I feel like people don't fully grasp the damage a simple word can do these days
My friends call me a lot worse in public.
I've seen lasses call other lasses slags and shit. But when it comes to guys it's a completely different ball game entirely. Not to sound sexist as I am far from it. From my experience women can get away with more than men
Again… it’s not that deep. It’s just a bit of banter on the forums "
Fair enough. Guess I just got brought up to not joke about certain words and phrases |
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"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.
I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.
Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…
K
Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then? "
And that’s what I’ll tell the judge
I guess it is…I’m just meaning the pervometer changes when with C
K |
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"I guess we are on here so we must be but I wouldn’t class myself as a pervert.
I don’t walk around staring at women, I also don’t think of potential porn situations when in a shop, lift, restaurant, etc. I can act normally in public I chat to women on here about everything, not just sex.
Away from others, at home, in a situation where I can be with C, then I’m a perv…
K
Isn't that just considered flirty banter between a couple then?
And that’s what I’ll tell the judge
I guess it is…I’m just meaning the pervometer changes when with C
K"
It's not like you spy on him on a camera or through a window though right? That's what I mean |
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Not any more
Bisexuality was considered deviant and perverse in the time and place where I grew up. In fact I could have been prosecuted for my early cock sucking and buggery lol! Any poly-relationship, or indeed any form of swinging was also considered perverse....
But then I could also have been prosecuted for the skin-colour of some of my female partners too.
That was an even worse 'Perversion' In the old South Africa.
So yes Ex-Pervert and proud of it! |
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