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"More comfortable mattress and pillows.
Nice bedding
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Snooze button ???
Oral and slow down, you don't have to be a porn star although I admit you do get carried away lol |
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"Don’t! Just be yourself and enjoy it. A guy doesn’t have to last forever (that’s my view anyway!)."
I concur! So what if you cum, you can always cum again. And if you dont, does it matter, why does an orgasm have to be the end result? |
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"Don’t! Just be yourself and enjoy it. A guy doesn’t have to last forever (that’s my view anyway!).
I concur! So what if you cum, you can always cum again. And if you dont, does it matter, why does an orgasm have to be the end result?"
You say it doesn’t matter but I think every bloke can think of at least one time when they have cum quickly and the female has clearly been disappointed or made a comment that has cut pretty deeply (albeit unintentionally on her side). |
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And to answer your question OP - I find having a wank before a meet helps and also just not stressing about it.
Slow down and switch to another technique for a few mins if you feel you are going to cum.
Also being a good lover is not about going like a jack hammer in my experience. Make a lady cum and she will think you are the best  |
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"Don’t! Just be yourself and enjoy it. A guy doesn’t have to last forever (that’s my view anyway!).
I concur! So what if you cum, you can always cum again. And if you dont, does it matter, why does an orgasm have to be the end result?
You say it doesn’t matter but I think every bloke can think of at least one time when they have cum quickly and the female has clearly been disappointed or made a comment that has cut pretty deeply (albeit unintentionally on her side)."
that's on the female. too much pressure is put on either sex to cum, cum first, squirt etc.....just enjoy it! |
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By *eliWoman
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I would say don't have a wank before you meet someone. You can tell quite easily when someone has and rather than someone hammering away at you for hours spend time doing other things like oral, masturbation. If they're your partner it might be different but generally the second time you're not quite as erm... eager.
There is nothing wrong with a man coming quickly OP, I love it, it's a testament to my vagina's awesomeness and his desire for me.
That being typed, if you really do want to delay ejaculating, look into edging (you'll have to do it over a period of time but it does help), something called peaking and consider wearing thicker condoms.
I'm not sure how long you're lasting so I'm loathe to suggest too much. Also I'm not a medical expert. |
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Edging, stamina trainers, and extra thick and lubricated condoms will all help, but in the heat of the moment you could try getting a quick break in by changing position, or using your fingers for clit play whilst you cease cock thrusting, or maybe pull out and work with your tongue.
Just a note to say you can go too far with the edging and stamina trainers tho, you don’t want to get to the point where you decrease sensitivity too much, or you find it hard to cum or lose your sexual desire, as this can create problems for you and your partner too!
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First time with somebody new, I can’t last a minute especially with somebody tight. Think it’s all the excitement as well. But just let it out, quick juice break and a biscuit and I’m good to go for hours. |
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Don't think about it op, worse thing you can do..
Been there albeit some 30+ yrs ago and it just tends to take away some of the moment, women are understanding and most are hopefully still not viewing intimacy and connection via the prism of porn which some men seem to..
Not suggesting you are just to clarify..
Communication, it's pretty common when relationships are new.. |
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having a wank beforehand can definitely help 
I haven't cum in 6 years because of this 'trick'.