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over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius 
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you "
Sooo good looking where you from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you
Sooo good looking where you from
Shropshire  "
Ok I’d like to get to know ya if ya interested you are sooooo my type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you
Sooo good looking where you from
Shropshire "
“If only we were closer” hahaha |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you
Sooo good looking where you from
Shropshire "
Don't know why men ask where you from either as it's on our profile where we from lol  |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
In all seriousness though, if you're talking to someone and think distance is a barrier then why talk to them? I've always been of the opinion that you move your arse to get what you want |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you
Sooo good looking where you from
Shropshire
Don't know why men ask where you from either as it's on our profile where we from lol "
I did think this however I'm trying to be polite  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guilty for saying this. I’m not speaking for everyone who says it but for me I say incase the lady in question replies that it wouldn’t be an issue. If they don’t reply to it you know there’s no chance. If she does then you find out the distance isn’t an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Oooh you look well nice
Aww thank you
Sooo good looking where you from
Shropshire
Don't know why men ask where you from either as it's on our profile where we from lol
I did think this however I'm trying to be polite x"
Was only asking to break the ice that’s all |
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"Guilty for saying this. I’m not speaking for everyone who says it but for me I say incase the lady in question replies that it wouldn’t be an issue. If they don’t reply to it you know there’s no chance. If she does then you find out the distance isn’t an issue "
Just don't say it, say what you mean and want!!! |
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"I don’t message girls I wouldn’t travel to meet. So it is pretty pointless saying “if only”
If only I was on a beach right now with a nice cold drink"
I hear Brighton is lovely this time of year... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t message girls I wouldn’t travel to meet. So it is pretty pointless saying “if only”
If only I was on a beach right now with a nice cold drink
I hear Brighton is lovely this time of year..."
If only I was closer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window "
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol |
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol"
Aha
Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is
People get their kicks I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol
Aha
Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is
People get their kicks I guess "
I had someone come up to me in a local supermarket and say they saw me on here ( when I had face pic ) |
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol
Aha
Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is
People get their kicks I guess
I had someone come up to me in a local supermarket and say they saw me on here ( when I had face pic )"
I give these people a look of disgust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol
Aha
Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is
People get their kicks I guess
I had someone come up to me in a local supermarket and say they saw me on here ( when I had face pic )
I give these people a look of disgust "
yes I think she took the hint with the look I gave her too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is definitely a thing as "if only you wasn't as close " too
In what sense? Someone in your area you know or a stalker at your window
someone really close to my address..
all window stalkers welcome lol
Aha
Yes I had a guy message me earlier saying he knows who I am but refused to tell me who he is
People get their kicks I guess
I had someone come up to me in a local supermarket and say they saw me on here ( when I had face pic )
I give these people a look of disgust
yes I think she took the hint with the look I gave her too "
I’ve not met or seen anyone from fabs on here, I wonder if anyone’s recognised me when I used to have a face pic on |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius "
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it. |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it. "
That's sweet |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it. "
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it.
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol"
It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it.
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol
It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive "
Punishable by death if mentioned? Lol |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it.
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol
It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive
Punishable by death if mentioned? Lol"
Allegedly |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it.
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol
It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive
Punishable by death if mentioned? Lol
Allegedly "
Ah, if only you was closer lol sorry, I couldn't resist not saying it  I got my wind up hat on for sure haha |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Why do they say this?
Because they want to tell you you look great but know that there is zero chance of meeting so aren’t even suggesting it.
I think most people are looking for those that are more local to them. But being close to one another doesn't mean you will get along. Might be one doesn't fit what the other person is searching for but may find that with someone that say.. lives hours away. Distance shouldn't really be an issue unless you can travel of course. I once drove 3 hours to meet a lady I liked once.. would I do it again? Depends lol
It's just one of those pet hate messages I receive
Punishable by death if mentioned? Lol
Allegedly
Ah, if only you was closer lol sorry, I couldn't resist not saying it I got my wind up hat on for sure haha "
It's ok humour is allowed and so are hats this time of year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much better than ‘ if only you were hot’ or ‘if only your cock was bigger’ or ‘if only you didn’t use bad grammar’ I suppose.
I’ve never said or had if only you were closer said to me.  I guess women couldn’t care less  |
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"Much better than ‘ if only you were hot’ or ‘if only your cock was bigger’ or ‘if only you didn’t use bad grammar’ I suppose.
I’ve never said or had if only you were closer said to me. I guess women couldn’t care less "
I've never said to anyone 'if only you were hot' I have been asked if someone's dick was big enough and I've said no. Grammar is important |
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Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away".
I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me.
People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses) |
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away".
I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me.
People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)"
I don't drive myself neither would I jump on trains for dick so it would be down to travelling to me.
I'm just moaning today, been on fab too long past couple days and all the worms have crawled out the wood so I've got my back up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away".
I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me.
People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)"
I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guilty for saying this. I’m not speaking for everyone who says it but for me I say incase the lady in question replies that it wouldn’t be an issue. If they don’t reply to it you know there’s no chance. If she does then you find out the distance isn’t an issue "
Good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Much better than ‘ if only you were hot’ or ‘if only your cock was bigger’ or ‘if only you didn’t use bad grammar’ I suppose.
I’ve never said or had if only you were closer said to me. I guess women couldn’t care less
I've never said to anyone 'if only you were hot' ……."
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away".
I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me.
People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)
I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them. "
I do this too. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Works the other way too, as I've been told I live "too far away".
I quite enjoy a trip as it's an excuse to get the motorbike out, so a reasonable distance (a few hours) isn't a problem for me.
People just make assumptions (or maybe excuses)
I tell people they are too far away because it's nicer than saying I'm not attracted to them or just don't want to meet them.
I do this too. X"
I started off on here with a 15 mile limit. So it was my standard response but the pushback was ridiculous. "I could drive and pick you up and then drop you back". Suggestions of hotels all the time. It just wasn't accepted. So now I say not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius "
Are you sure it’s a distance thing?
It’s possibly a saying they use often as they never get close to making a woman cum  |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way. "
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Are you sure it’s a distance thing?
It’s possibly a saying they use often as they never get close to making a woman cum "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking "
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse. |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse. "
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse.
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous "
We are within walking distance. That’s a little too close. |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse.
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous
We are within walking distance. That’s a little too close. "
And look at you teasing with Haribo too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse.
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous "
A compliment to an extent but I'm not sure you'd necessarily see it that way. |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse.
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous
We are within walking distance. That’s a little too close.
And look at you teasing with Haribo too "
Yeah sorry about that. I’ll make it private so as not to tease you too much |
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
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Because I wanted to know why men say it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get this either. I don't bother chatting to someone who's meesaged or winked me when they're hundreds of miles away. I just send them a polite no thank you. It's not like we're ever going to meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
Because I wanted to know why men say it "
Good point well made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
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You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view
I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
Because I wanted to know why men say it "
OK well I believe some men (or some people in general) would say it if they found someone attractive and would like to meet them, but they live miles away...
Now, why would they bother even messaging and saying that if they live so far away?...they probably hope that you might want to "meet them in the middle" or that you maybe would travel to see them.
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
Because I wanted to know why men say it
OK well I believe some men (or some people in general) would say it if they found someone attractive and would like to meet them, but they live miles away...
Now, why would they bother even messaging and saying that if they live so far away?...they probably hope that you might want to "meet them in the middle" or that you maybe would travel to see them.
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Thank you
I guess it's the responses I receive after as they clearly would travel to me anyway so defeats their first message |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
Because I wanted to know why men say it
OK well I believe some men (or some people in general) would say it if they found someone attractive and would like to meet them, but they live miles away...
Now, why would they bother even messaging and saying that if they live so far away?...they probably hope that you might want to "meet them in the middle" or that you maybe would travel to see them.
Thank you
I guess it's the responses I receive after as they clearly would travel to me anyway so defeats their first message "
Some people are just a mystery.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not exactly sure why people would message saying that. I think it could almost be a preventative to getting rejected after saying a compliment to someone. Similar to what someone else said further up…
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view
I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own "
Thanks, but No thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view
I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own
Thanks, but No thanks "
Shit!!! I hope you didn’t think I was coming on to you because I wasn’t  |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view
I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own
Thanks, but No thanks
Shit!!! I hope you didn’t think I was coming on to you because I wasn’t "
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"I’m not exactly sure why people would message saying that. I think it could almost be a preventative to getting rejected after saying a compliment to someone. Similar to what someone else said further up…
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Makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius "
Simple really. We are stupid and a few think just because they have a dick you want it. We are all that shallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women say "why do men say..." like only men say that
"If only you lived closer" is a message I get every other Thursday...most of the messages I get start with "If only you..."
You could start your own thread asking the question from a mans point of view
I would be one of the first to post on it with a few war stories of my own
Thanks, but No thanks
Shit!!! I hope you didn’t think I was coming on to you because I wasn’t
Are you OK?
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Much better thanks now I hopefully cleared that one up! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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If only you were closer you’d be begging to bounce around on my dick.
Its a nonsense line as if you want to meet someone distance is only one of the conditions to be assessed. Compatibility and desire are far more important, which means getting to know someone first. |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
Simple really. We are stupid and a few think just because they have a dick you want it. We are all that shallow "
This makes more sense |
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"If only you were closer you’d be begging to bounce around on my dick.
Its a nonsense line as if you want to meet someone distance is only one of the conditions to be assessed. Compatibility and desire are far more important, which means getting to know someone first."
Agreed |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius "
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us. |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us. "
Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us.
Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally "
That is when the block button is a very useful friend. |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us.
Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally
That is when the block button is a very useful friend. "
I think I need to use delete and block more |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us.
Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally
That is when the block button is a very useful friend.
I think I need to use delete and block more "
If only you could link that to the other profiles they have or the ones the will create. |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
On the whole men are just tarts and would **** anyone but they can only travel so far on their free bus pass or their mothers only let them out for a few hours before they need to get home for their dinner.
If say that was me back in my youth and it's probably the same for most people, male and female. Now at this stage in my life I need more than just a ****.
I have said it to people I have chatted to for quite some time but the distance just makes it too difficult for both of us.
Aha thank you. It's their opening line so you'd think they'd maybe find out first if it was to be difficult. Saying it to me in their first message just annoys me personally
That is when the block button is a very useful friend.
I think I need to use delete and block more
If only you could link that to the other profiles they have or the ones the will create. "
Oh indeed, fabs biggest flaw |
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"I think distance is perfectly reasonable reason for not meeting. We may have the best intentions but life gets in the way.
That wasn't my point. After my sarcastic response which goes over their head they are more than happy to travel. Just why say it, was what I was asking
Ahh I see, I do think there are plenty who use distance as an excuse.
I don't drive myself but it's amazing how many men expect me to jump on a train or even offer to pay for a taxi at a considerable distance. Generous but ridiculous "
Think what men need to understand is most wemon want closer distance so regular meets could be arranged few don't want a one night stand and dropped a lot of men show too much desperation and it's a proper turn off x |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius "
I’ve sort of done it myself.
Looking randomly at fab, tripped across a profile that’s caught my eye & boom.
Absolutely stunning!
110% definitely my type!
We are 200 miles apart, but I’m thinking if I can’t do anything else, at least I can make her smile on the other side of the internet with a compliment.
She may have had the shittest day ever & you may make her day by just being nice.
Well that’s my thoughts anyway
BTW & not an afterthought. You look very nice |
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Without trawling through the whole thread - yes, there are a few reasons to say this.
1) You want to compliment her and say you’d like to meet without being too “I’ll be on your doorstep in 5 mins babe!” And if it really is a long way it’s s nice way of saying “I really want to but sadly, being realistic, it’s totally impractical”.
2) It can test the waters if she says she’d only meet men in the nearest two streets. If she responds with, “Actually distance shouldn’t be a problem”, that let’d tell me she’s on the keen side.
3) It lets her know I don’t have a private jet or helicopter so if she expects that it’s better she knows straight away!
4) It can be polite code for saying “You’re great but not quite great enough that I want to meet you but I don’t want to say that for not wanting to be rude”.
5) It can also be a way of saying “You’re amazing and I’d absolutely love to meet you but my life and work is genuinely too complicated and will unquestionably prevent me from being able to visit you.
6) It can also be code for, “I’m dying to meet you but my girlfriend threatens me with biting off my cock if she knows I’ve even glanced at another woman!
Take your pick! |
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Any excuse for wank fodder, if they think they can butter you up for give it.
They are on the block list of everyone more local, so they have had to spread their wings.
They hope that a 300+ miles round trip is enticing enough for you, for a few seconds of their tugging or thrusting.
Etc |
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"Any excuse for wank fodder, if they think they can butter you up for give it.
They are on the block list of everyone more local, so they have had to spread their wings.
They hope that a 300+ miles round trip is enticing enough for you, for a few seconds of their tugging or thrusting.
Etc"
This made my day. |
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"Any excuse for wank fodder, if they think they can butter you up for give it.
They are on the block list of everyone more local, so they have had to spread their wings.
They hope that a 300+ miles round trip is enticing enough for you, for a few seconds of their tugging or thrusting.
Etc"
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius
I’ve sort of done it myself.
Looking randomly at fab, tripped across a profile that’s caught my eye & boom.
Absolutely stunning!
110% definitely my type!
We are 200 miles apart, but I’m thinking if I can’t do anything else, at least I can make her smile on the other side of the internet with a compliment.
She may have had the shittest day ever & you may make her day by just being nice.
Well that’s my thoughts anyway
BTW & not an afterthought. You look very nice "
Aww that's nice and thank you x |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
Oh you mean mileage.... I get it now!
Sorry, I was having a "Trigger" moment there.
"OI, NO COMMENTS!"
I thought crazy woman why wouldn't you be close if you got on with someone. DUUUUUUH!
Just to annoy you...
You're so far away!!!! If only we were closer????!!!!
I'll get me coat now & fuck off then? |
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"Why do men say this ?
As if we'd meet everyone who messages within a 15 mile radius why wouldn't you meet a person in a 15 mile radius "
I think you misunderstood. The 15 mile radius comment was my sarcastic response |
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