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Gonna sound like on old bag here, but hey ho. Back in my day...
I remember when I first joined fab and it was so incredibly exciting - a community of like-minded liberated people who I could talk about anything with! I dived right in.
Fast forward three and a bit years and having seen every sexual topic under the sun discussed, it's fair to say the sense of excitement has waned.
Is this inevitable? What's your experience?
Mrs TMN x |
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I've noticed a big change on the site since joining many, many moons ago.
It certainly isn't what it used to be. I usually take breaks as its become so "samey"
Hoping when/if Covid calms down, it improves x |
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Yeah I think you're on to something there. There's definitely a boredom that goes along with the "regular" topics now but that initial excitement has been replaced with comfort in the people on the forum and being able to talk as friends
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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I recently rejoined as, like you, it lost its sparkle a bit. I have noticed some big differencrs since I got back namely the number of guys on here either alone or 'saying" they are part of a couple.
I do really enjoy the forums as that is not something I got involved with before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing really shocks me anymore
Grown more wiser in my 10 years
When I first joined I was like a kid in a candy shop
Along the way I lost my dignity for a couple off years I tryed to reclaim it
Now I couldn’t care it’s totally out the window and I am good with it
I am have fun and that’s the main thing |
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Covid changed the forums for me as the anger and instant gratification seekers overwhelmed me. I'm hoping now people can safely go back on hols and normality resumes that the more interesting topics will reappear and the balance will reappear it is tipped at more boring sexual topics atm
I know if I want it to change I should add to it but the meh feeling is hard to shake |
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I dunno. There's always been samey topics and topics that always come up. They've changed a bit from race to hairy bits! But still on repeat.
I think of it of talking to new people about the same topics. If I don't want to join a thread I don't.
If I wanted something more meaty, I'd start a meaty thread. |
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Omg to change the subject your wife is absolutely fab, such pert boobs.
By the way I hate your cock as it looks fab ha ha "Our first profile was 12 ish years ago... a lot less remote control next to cock pictures as well as the good old can of lynx
Nilly "
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"Omg to change the subject your wife is absolutely fab, such pert boobs.
By the way I hate your cock as it looks fab ha ha Our first profile was 12 ish years ago... a lot less remote control next to cock pictures as well as the good old can of lynx
Nilly "
Gee thanks |
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"Very much so, it seems like the community spirit has very much faded. "
Do you think so? Or do you think if you've been away (I think you have, if I remember rightly) it's a different bunch of faces so you have to essentially start again?
Mrs TMN x |
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"Yeah I think you're on to something there. There's definitely a boredom that goes along with the "regular" topics now but that initial excitement has been replaced with comfort in the people on the forum and being able to talk as friends
LvM"
This chimes with me. I think particularly as someone who's been in a monogamous relationship for a while, children etc, the initial excitement was huge for me. |
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"I think it has for me on a personal level. But that's because I don't post many threads any more. So it's possibly that it's down to me I find it repetitive. "
This sounds a bit like me too. I've not been around as much, I interact less, I know fewer people, the thrill of reading about sexy shenanigans has long since faded. Remind me why I'm here again? |
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"I recently rejoined as, like you, it lost its sparkle a bit. I have noticed some big differencrs since I got back namely the number of guys on here either alone or 'saying" they are part of a couple.
I do really enjoy the forums as that is not something I got involved with before. "
The forums are a whole different ballgame to the rest of fab! Welcome |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Very much so, it seems like the community spirit has very much faded.
Do you think so? Or do you think if you've been away (I think you have, if I remember rightly) it's a different bunch of faces so you have to essentially start again?
Mrs TMN x"
Possibly but people don’t seem to be as friendly anymore there’s a lot more unpleasant-ness nowadays |
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"Covid changed the forums for me as the anger and instant gratification seekers overwhelmed me. I'm hoping now people can safely go back on hols and normality resumes that the more interesting topics will reappear and the balance will reappear it is tipped at more boring sexual topics atm
I know if I want it to change I should add to it but the meh feeling is hard to shake"
Totally feeling the meh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it has for me on a personal level. But that's because I don't post many threads any more. So it's possibly that it's down to me I find it repetitive.
This sounds a bit like me too. I've not been around as much, I interact less, I know fewer people, the thrill of reading about sexy shenanigans has long since faded. Remind me why I'm here again? "
I have to be careful not to be put off sex forever if Im reading swingers chat now |
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"Very much so, it seems like the community spirit has very much faded.
Do you think so? Or do you think if you've been away (I think you have, if I remember rightly) it's a different bunch of faces so you have to essentially start again?
Mrs TMN x
Possibly but people don’t seem to be as friendly anymore there’s a lot more unpleasant-ness nowadays "
I find it hard to separate if there is more of that or if it's my mood. Or, you know, the effects of a global fucking pandemic... X |
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"I think it has for me on a personal level. But that's because I don't post many threads any more. So it's possibly that it's down to me I find it repetitive.
This sounds a bit like me too. I've not been around as much, I interact less, I know fewer people, the thrill of reading about sexy shenanigans has long since faded. Remind me why I'm here again?
I have to be careful not to be put off sex forever if Im reading swingers chat now "
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Very much so, it seems like the community spirit has very much faded.
Do you think so? Or do you think if you've been away (I think you have, if I remember rightly) it's a different bunch of faces so you have to essentially start again?
Mrs TMN x
Possibly but people don’t seem to be as friendly anymore there’s a lot more unpleasant-ness nowadays
I find it hard to separate if there is more of that or if it's my mood. Or, you know, the effects of a global fucking pandemic... X"
I know the pandemic doesn’t help but in my opinion people don’t need to come on here and be unpleasant. Maybe I’m in the wrong or even the wrong place |
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"Gonna sound like on old bag here, but hey ho. Back in my day...
I remember when I first joined fab and it was so incredibly exciting - a community of like-minded liberated people who I could talk about anything with! I dived right in.
Fast forward three and a bit years and having seen every sexual topic under the sun discussed, it's fair to say the sense of excitement has waned.
Is this inevitable? What's your experience?
Mrs TMN x"
Fab is populated by people wanting to meet likeminded people. Covid has (mostly) ended that over the last almost 2 years now, so the army of key-bored (see what I did there?) warriors has inevitably grown, and hence, the Fab community appears to have waned. Things will come back round eventually |
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I find it a huge difference from when first joined like 8-10 yrs ago.
Back then people wanted meet socials and chats, yes people want that now but feel last few yrs seem more people on for pic views or not actually after stuff I.e ghosting or lots fake pages.
It was probably same back in the day but I was fit and young and now old and no one want me lol but it does feel more like social media that swinging these days |
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Hello Mrs. T.M.N ....
I live in hope that as the world opens up that the lounge will once again be full of fun folk with a sense of humour and lack of social media anger......
True I'm no longer excited by most things I hear suggested but then .... I think my handle needs more crankin' than it used to |
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"I find it a huge difference from when first joined like 8-10 yrs ago.
Back then people wanted meet socials and chats, yes people want that now but feel last few yrs seem more people on for pic views or not actually after stuff I.e ghosting or lots fake pages.
It was probably same back in the day but I was fit and young and now old and no one want me lol but it does feel more like social media that swinging these days"
Jack you are only a baby. |
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"Only boring people get bored
Topics are the same but the people change. If I got bored with excitement I’d just give up now with everything.
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I didn't say bored. I was more getting at how my reactions to fab have changed and why that is. X |
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"Very much so, it seems like the community spirit has very much faded.
Do you think so? Or do you think if you've been away (I think you have, if I remember rightly) it's a different bunch of faces so you have to essentially start again?
Mrs TMN x
Possibly but people don’t seem to be as friendly anymore there’s a lot more unpleasant-ness nowadays
I find it hard to separate if there is more of that or if it's my mood. Or, you know, the effects of a global fucking pandemic... X
I know the pandemic doesn’t help but in my opinion people don’t need to come on here and be unpleasant. Maybe I’m in the wrong or even the wrong place "
Oh absolutely, some people are out of line, I'm with you there. X |
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"Gonna sound like on old bag here, but hey ho. Back in my day...
I remember when I first joined fab and it was so incredibly exciting - a community of like-minded liberated people who I could talk about anything with! I dived right in.
Fast forward three and a bit years and having seen every sexual topic under the sun discussed, it's fair to say the sense of excitement has waned.
Is this inevitable? What's your experience?
Mrs TMN x
Fab is populated by people wanting to meet likeminded people. Covid has (mostly) ended that over the last almost 2 years now, so the army of key-bored (see what I did there?) warriors has inevitably grown, and hence, the Fab community appears to have waned. Things will come back round eventually "
A positive outlook, I like it |
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"Hello Mrs. T.M.N ....
I live in hope that as the world opens up that the lounge will once again be full of fun folk with a sense of humour and lack of social media anger......
True I'm no longer excited by most things I hear suggested but then .... I think my handle needs more crankin' than it used to"
Yep, the handles on those tippy-uppy chairs do need a bit of crankin', that's for sure |
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"I find it a huge difference from when first joined like 8-10 yrs ago.
Back then people wanted meet socials and chats, yes people want that now but feel last few yrs seem more people on for pic views or not actually after stuff I.e ghosting or lots fake pages.
It was probably same back in the day but I was fit and young and now old and no one want me lol but it does feel more like social media that swinging these days
Jack you are only a baby."
Haha I know before fab I was on other sites been in scene since 20 but still feel a shift hopefully it’s just cos covid restrictions |
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"Hello Mrs. T.M.N ....
I live in hope that as the world opens up that the lounge will once again be full of fun folk with a sense of humour and lack of social media anger......
True I'm no longer excited by most things I hear suggested but then .... I think my handle needs more crankin' than it used to
Yep, the handles on those tippy-uppy chairs do need a bit of crankin', that's for sure "
You can mock. I eye them up like a fat kid eyes up cake.
(cue for the Fat Inquisition to arrive ) |
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"Hello Mrs. T.M.N ....
I live in hope that as the world opens up that the lounge will once again be full of fun folk with a sense of humour and lack of social media anger......
True I'm no longer excited by most things I hear suggested but then .... I think my handle needs more crankin' than it used to
Yep, the handles on those tippy-uppy chairs do need a bit of crankin', that's for sure
You can mock. I eye them up like a fat kid eyes up cake.
(cue for the Fat Inquisition to arrive )"
I'm just eyeing up new armchairs at the moment. Making sure I get ones with a nice firm back |
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