So , wondering how many of you tell a fib ….
Like you see - “handsome/ gorgeous guy/ girl don’t pass him / her by” and really he/ she only a face a mother could love-OR sex out this world , when really was shite- I know beauty & sex in eye of beholder and I’m not trying be nasty just curious how far you go to lie ……do we all bend the truth & skirt around it ? …..or would you just not verify if not what you expected? how much do you rely on veris?…. |
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I wouldn't veri if it wasn't good because I know that if I'm not sure about someone I will check their veris to see what others say unfortunately sometimes that backfires as someone has clearly been kind rather than truthful |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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So far, I havent had a bad meet but I suppose if I did.. I would still verify them on other qualities instead.. Great conversationalist, sense of humour etc etc
I don't think it would be fair to be unkind.. perhaps its just bad chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't lie, I'm just shit at writing veris. 
They are pointless anyway. Some people might think I'm a great shag, some people may need lifetime counselling. Can't express that in a veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over the top verifications can be a bit cringe, I'd tone it down no matter what happened. No one needs to know the details. "
Yeah one of the reasons I don't want to meet people with more than 4 public (readable) veris. It just skews my perception. I want to make my own mind up.
I know I don't have to read them but who wouldn't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't lie, I'm just shit at writing veris.
They are pointless anyway. Some people might think I'm a great shag, some people may need lifetime counselling. Can't express that in a veri."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't want or or give veri's for our own reasons.
We have been asked many times to verify others we have never met and they will do the same.
We have met others socially and they have suggested veri's with more in them than actually happened.
It was mentioned in another thread that there was a woman on here selling veri's.
We pay no attention to them and will always phone and video chat first before a meet to see they are genuine, that the photos represent them truthfully. |
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"So , wondering how many of you tell a fib ….
Like you see - “handsome/ gorgeous guy/ girl don’t pass him / her by” and really he/ she only a face a mother could love-OR sex out this world , when really was shite- I know beauty & sex in eye of beholder and I’m not trying be nasty just curious how far you go to lie ……do we all bend the truth & skirt around it ? …..or would you just not verify if not what you expected? how much do you rely on veris?…."
a verification is just telling others that your genuine, I never read them, surly you can form an opinion of how someone is or is going to be by chatting with them first, then a social, then if you decide to take it further, you only have yourself to blame if it isn't what you expected. If you read most verifications they all repeat themselves anyway, you may as well just have a little symbol on your profile to say yes it's been proven I'm genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the whole veri thing cringey.. people use it like trust pilot. you’ve met somebody from fab, you’re not rating them on how well they fixed your washing machine!! |
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I've never given a play veri. I just confirm that I've met them and that i had a enjoyable time in their company.
The difference is that because I don't meet very often and take my time getting to know people I've never had a situation where there was no chemistry when meeting for the first time. |
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I don't fib in a veri & I won't be unkind but you will very much know if I want to see the person or not.
If there are veris displayed I will read them. I can end up down the veri rabbit hole forgetting who I was looking at first 
Veris can put me off people with how someone speaks of someone else. I don't like reading explicit veris but I will be less put off if the person I am interested in has given an explicit veri but doesn't display explicit ones themselves.
I'd rather just see how a person is with me than base a judgement off someone else but if a veri is there I'm going to read it. I cannae help it! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
I have my own mind and make my own opinion, actually with or without someone having verifications.
As for the veris I display, those are just to show that I am multifaceted and enjoy a variety of things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy complain about the veri I left him. It wasn’t a great meet but he was pleasant enough so I tactfully said the bare minimum that I could and he thought I wasn’t enthusiastic enough with what I’d written! He’s now blocked anyway so it’s irrelevant.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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The only reason I rely on veris is to know when to avoid someone if they have been veried by someone who I know will start crap cos you met someone they are still into.
It's not worth the hassle. Most of the time I'll meet someone depending on how we interact rather than anything else .
I don't do graphic veris and I don't lie in them either. If a guy I met has been a creep I won't Veri them. Luckily it has only happened twice in my time on here. There is no point in giving a bad Veri they won't show it .
Most guys have been fine and even if it didn't go beyond a coffee if they want a Veri I'll write one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend on the meet. I would just be kind and verify the person genuine. From a sexual point of view, I keep that quiet as I don't like getting explicit veri's. I just wouldn't show them x |
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I wouldn't lie on a veri but I also wouldn't be unkind. If something hasn't worked for me or together we weren't very good at something in particular then I wouldn't mention it.
My veris aren't particularly graphic and I only meet up with people I genuinely like, so I almost always find it easy to write an honest positive verification. |
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I don't trust verifications, you see someone join and within an hour they have got 5 verifications saying that had meet them. Really!!!!!
It is better to chat with people and get to know they rather someone else telling you that they are a great shag. |
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"I had a guy complain about the veri I left him. It wasn’t a great meet but he was pleasant enough so I tactfully said the bare minimum that I could and he thought I wasn’t enthusiastic enough with what I’d written! He’s now blocked anyway so it’s irrelevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t really trust veris as we are all individual with different opinions and it’s the persons choice to show a veri so they aren’t going to post ones that look bad anyway are they! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't trust verifications, you see someone join and within an hour they have got 5 verifications saying that had meet them. Really!!!!!
It is better to chat with people and get to know they rather someone else telling you that they are a great shag."
They might just know a lot of people so they will verify they know them immediately.
Some are fakes, that's true too. |
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