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Men who say they are straight but actually are bi
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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
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Forgive me as new to the forums on this site. But I have been looking for a bi male and getting some mail me but why do they have on their profile that they are straight???
I am bi and have on my profile that I am bi, not labelled as straight. So why on earth do mn put on they are straight when really bi. Are they thinking a real man doesnt want to suck another mans dick? Why i it ok for a lady to be bi and not a man?? Come on you men, tell it ike i is, be brave and stand up for what you like rather than hiding.
Its no good saying well I have friends on here who may see I am bi, my god, sods law they are on here because they also like to swing!!! I feel it would be better if everyone was honest about what they do and dont like especially men.
If I was to say I like dogging does that make me a bad person, if a man says he is bi does tat make him a bad person in the same way?
Rant over lol
Fruit x   |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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This topic was done to death only a week or so ago.
Dunno why it should be, why do some guys say they are straight when they are bi? Its an argument that works both ways, and no real answer to it, unless of course those guys want to come in and give a definitive answer for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not having a go here but why would a woman be seeking a Bi Male anyway?? And if your potential lover is seeking one as a surprise.. should he not be seeking him as he's the one who's potentially playing??
Some may think your using a single womans profile to find playmates.. weather true or not... Thats just as deceptive as the straight male who's really Bi surely..
Just a take on things...
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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
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I am bi lady and meeting a bi male who is thinking of planning a birthday treat for me with bi men which I have always wanted to have.He is going to provide a suitable place and I am trying to find some nice men that I like then will show him who I have found and make sure he is then also happy with the people. I am searching for the men myself as I like to know who is going to be there as the fun isnt just for me to watch, it is for me to take part too. Because of that I like to know who I will be playing with as naturally my safety is paramount to me. I could leave all the searching for him but then I wouldnt ave had chance to see the pics and see the men on cam and have chance to chat with them. He is aware that if I am not comfy then it wont be enjoyable for me. I am am sure that any man mailing me will understand this. I hope that clears that up. x
I am very much a single fem as my profile has been verified and have various comments from people I have met who will all confirm that I am all woman. I always show myself on cam when in the chat room and also have face pics on my profile. My profile is very much honest and yes I am bi and do clearly have that stated on my profile, so really unsure how you can say I am being deceptive x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i know what u mean , alot of ppl put on profile one thing , then send out mixed signals, its a swinging site, bi straight,gay what ever, long its legal age and consenting
why can,t peeple b honest about sexuality u don,t av to av pictures on profile and u can just let ppl on yr friends list see any you want to show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had the mistmortune to meet a straight guy...that was very Bi...I felt used when we met others as a couple and he pic collected the male.even when he treated me to a MMF! I was devasted when I found out he was BI I felt used. I am wary of straight men now.
you have to be tru to yourself with your sexuality and be proud to be free with it. Life is too short. |
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This has been done to death a million times on here.
Bi guys will put "straight" on their profiles as a lot of couples won't meet bi-guys only straight ones. Bi-guys can generally play straight no problem, but couples just don't go for it.
Single guys find it hard enough to get meets, and putting "bi" on their profile, in general, lessens rather than increases their chances.
For what it's worth, a large number of couples profiles have the guy down as straight, but he loves a bit of cock when the action starts. ..he's as bi as they come!
Bottom line (no pun intended) there's a huge double standard surrounding bi-guys, always has been, always will be.
Here endeth the lesson. |
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